Phantse wonke umntu ufuna ukwazi okuthile ngekamva. Ndiyabulela kule ngcaciso yokuphupha ngamaphupha imihla ngemihla iya kuba yindume kakhulu. Ukuze ufunde ngeziganeko zekamva, zama ukukhumbula ezininzi zeenkcukacha ozibonayo kunye nomthwalo wemvakalelo.
Kutheni iphupha lomfazi wayo?
Ngokugqithiseleyo kunjalo, iphupha elinjalo libeka abantu iingxaki phakathi kwabatshatileyo ebomini bokwenene. U-Sopnik uthi ixesha lokuzisa into entsha kwibudlelwane. Ukuba uthetha nenkosikazi yomyeni wakhe, ngoko kwintsapho, ngokuchaseneyo, kukho ukuqonda okufanayo, kwaye awuqinisekanga, iqabane lithembekile . Ukulala, apho ufunga khona nenkosikazi yomyeni wakhe, uqikelele izinto ezimbi ezinokubangela ukuhlukana. Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha ezifana nephupha kuthathwa njengesicatshulwa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthetha nomyeni ngokunyanisekileyo, kuba ungazi kakhulu malunga nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo, kunye nelikhoyo. Abafazi abangatshatanga ukubona umfazi wendoda ephupheni uphawu olubi oluthembisa ukuvela kweengxaki ezininzi. Ngexesha elizayo, imeko yengqondo ingabandezeleka kwaye ayiyi kuba lula ukunqoba le ntlekele.
Kukhona enye imbono enomdla kukuba kubalulekile ukubona abafazi beentsipha ephupheni xa isazela sabo singcolileyo. Mhlawumbi wena utshintshe lakho iqabane okanye ucinga ngoku. Umbono wasemini, apho umyeni efunyenwe nenkosikazi yakhe, ongabaziyo, unokuthatha isincomelo sokuba kulungele ukujonga ngakumbi abantu abasendaweni esondeleyo. Ukuba ufanele umbethe inkosikazi yomyeni wakho ephupheni, ngoko uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba awukwazi ukufumana abaphiswano. Ukubona umyeni ebomana nomnye umqondiso wokuba uya kuba nxaxheba kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo. Ukulala, apho inkosikazi yendoda ikhulelwe khona, ibonisa ngokucacileyo ubukho beentlungu kunye neloyiko .