Umntu ngamnye unemibutho yakhe kunye neesikhumulo sezindiza: umntu olapho uthi ulahlekelwa ngabantu bakhe abathandekayo, umntu ophikisanayo uyavuya kwiintlanganiso ezilindele ixesha elide. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha apho isibonakaliso sibonakala khona, kuyimfuneko ukuqhuba ukuqwalasela iinkcukacha zento ebonwayo. Le yindlela yodwa yokufumana ulwazi oluthembekileyo.
Kutheni iphulophu liphupha?
Ukuba loo mphupha ibonwa ngumfazi otshatileyo, ngoko kwixesha elizayo ubomi bakhe buza kutshintsha okanye amathuba amatsha aza kuvela. Iphupha, apho isikhumulo sezindiza zixakeke ngokuqinisekileyo ngabantu, kubeka ithuba lokufika kwexesha elihle ebomini. Kwixesha elizayo elizayo, kuya kuba nethemba elihle eliza kukuvumela ukuba unikezele ubukho obuhle wena kunye nosapho lwakho.
Ukuphupha kwesikhumulo sezindiza ezingenanto, ngokukhawuleza imeko yakho yezemali iya kutshintsha ngakumbi. Ngeli thuba kunconywa ukuba unyamekele ngemali yakho kwaye ungenzi ukuthenga okungadingekile.
Ukuchaza ngokucacileyo iphupha ekubonayo kwesikhumulo sezindiza, kuyafaneleka ukubhala ingqalelo ekubonakala kwayo. Ukuba isakhiwo sasimnandi kwaye sisitsha, ngoko ngokwenene ungabonakalisa emsebenzini kwaye mhlawumbi uhambe phezulu kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Ukuba ukwakhiwa kukudala kwaye kungcolile, ke ke ithemba lakho aliyi kuzaliseka.
Ephupheni uhamba ngokubhalisa kwisikhululo-moya - uphawu lokuba uya kuba nethuba lokuqonda izicwangciso zakho ezide, umzekelo, unokukhuthazwa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Iphupha apho ufikelele kwi-moya kwisikhumulo sezindiza kukubonakalisa ukuba awukulungele uxanduva kwaye kwinqanaba elincinci liyesaba uxanduva olumiselwe kuwe. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba uchithe ixesha elifutshane ngeli xesha ukuba ube yedwa kunye nawe kwaye uqonde yonke into, mhlawumbi uya kutshintsha kakhulu izicwangciso zakho ngekamva. Ukuba intombazana encinane ibona isikhumulo sezindiza ephupheni, ngokukhawuleza umntu uza kubonakala ebomini bakhe, kunye naye onokwakha ubuhlobo obunzulu.