Ubuntombi bendoda

Kubonakala ngathi uluntu lwethu luya kuphuphuma ngokukhawuleza kwimiphumo yokuguquka kwezesondo kwaye iphinda iqalise ukunyamezela amantombazana ahlambulukileyo abhekane nombandela wobudlelwane bezesondo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye angenawo amava angaphambili esondo. Ubuntombi buntombi abukabi kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba umntu osemncinci sele ekhulile ukusuka kwixesha lokutshintsha.

Ngokuqhelekileyo akupapashwa, kuba abantu abasondeleyo banemibuzo eninzi kunye nokusola. Kukholelwa ukuba abantu abatsha abaye baxinwa nokulahlekelwa ubuntombi banamathele, banokungaqiniseki okanye banokukhubazeka ngokwenyama. Ngokwenene, ezi zinto ziyiyo ingcamango, kodwa zigxininiswe kakhulu kuluntu lwethu oluthatha uxinzelelo olukhulu, kwaye abafana nabo bazijonga njengabancinane.

Ukulahleka kwentombi yobuntombi

Ngokubhekiselele kwimpendulo ethile yomzimba wesilisa, kunzima ukucacisa umzuzu xa kulahleka intombi yintombi. Omnye ubonisa ukuba oku kwenzeka ngexesha lokuqala lokukrazula kunye nokunyuka, omnye umntu uthetha ngokubanzi malunga nokwakhiwa kokuqala.

Enye into ecacileyo ukuba ukunyuswa kwentombi yobuntombi kwimizwi engokoqobo inokwenzeka kuphela ngokuthatha inxaxheba yecalingani. Kodwa apha kwakhona kukho umbuzo, nokuba i-petting okanye i-caress yomlomo icingelwa, okanye ngumbuzo kuphela wesondo lobudala. Wonke umntu malunga naloo nto unokukwazi ukucinga kwakhe.

Ngexesha lokulala ngokwesondo, indoda ayiyi kuba neentlungu ezinzima njengentombazana engenacala. Kungenzeka ukuba, ngokokuqala ngqa asiyi kuba yimpumelelo kakhulu ngenxa yenkxalabo kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba nangona umntu engaphumelelanga, oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kuba njalo, kuba le nkqubo iya kuphuhliswa ngamava. Emva kwesondo sokuqala, ukuvakalelwa okungajabulisi kwindawo yomda kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba kuya kwandula kancane. Kwakhona, abanye abantu abatsha bakhankanya ezinye iimvakalelo ezingaqhelekanga ezinokuthi zifumaneke, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba zidibene nokungaqhelekanga kunye nolonwabo.

Iimpawu zobuntombi bendoda

Ukuba abafana bakhetha ukufihla ukungcola kwabo, ngokokuba bangaba njani abantombazana abaye banquma ukuyilahleka? Emva koko, ukuba le nkosikazi inamava, iya kuphinda ihlole izinga lokulungelelanisa umlingani, kodwa ukuba unengqondo engalunganga ngesondo, ukungafezeki kokuzama ukuqala kukuphezulu kakhulu.

Ubonakaliso buntombi buntombi bungaba kukuba iqabane liyakuphepha ukuthandana kwaye luqala ukwesaba, lishiye lodwa ntombazana. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, amabali angapheliyo malunga nokulwa okungacatshangiswanga kwezesondo ukusuka kumfana abancinci banokungqina ukuba wayeziqhayisa kuphela, ezama ukuzithulisa nabanye. Ngethuba lokusondeleka kwabangenamava, intloko iya kunika amandla ukunyanga iqabane kunye nokuhlaselwa kwangaphambili, mhlawumbi nangaphambi kokulala ngesondo.

Ukuba uqaphela ukuba iqabane lakho liyesaba kakhulu kwaye liloyiko lokwenene ngamava okuqala ngokwesini, kuyafaneleka ukuba ube nesigulane kakhulu, ukuqonda nokuthanda. Yiyo le mfanelo kunye nenkxaso yakho eya kumnceda ukuba athathe ngokunyanisekileyo abe ngumntu omdala aze aqale ukuqonda ubugcisa bothando.