Abasetyhini bayazi amaqhinga amaninzi kunye namaqhinga anokunyanzela umfana kungekuphela koqhagamshelwano lomntu, kodwa nakude. Siyabonga kwezobuchwepheshe bwanamhlanje: i-intanethi kunye nokunxibelelana kweevenkile, kulula kakhulu ukuphumeza. Amalungu amaninzi eentlobano zesini ngokufanelekileyo abanomdla kwindlela yokuthabatha umntu ngokuSMS ukwenzela ukuba angathanda ukubuyela ngokukhawuleza aze enze zonke iingxoxo zinyani.
Ezi njongo ziya kuba luncedo xa umntu othandekayo engekho, umzekelo, wahamba uhambo okanye ishishini, ngokubanzi, xa kukho umgama omkhulu phakathi kwabalingani. Imiyalezo iza kunceda xa ufuna ukubopha umntu, ubonise ubuntu bakhe nokudlala. Imiyalezo esondeleyo iya kunceda ukuzisa ubudlelwane kwelinye nqanaba kwimeko apho umntu omncinci angenakucala. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, imiyalezo yesimo esithandana nayo sinokuzonwabisa nje.
Indlela yokuzonwabisa nomfana kwiSMS?
Ukufunda ukuthandana nomyalezo kunzima, kodwa yonke into ingafundwa, kuya kuba nomnqweno. Ukuba incoko inomntu onobudlelwane obusanda kuqalwa, kubalulekile ukuqonda umda weentlondi, ukwenjenjalo ukuba umntu angasabi. Uqhagamshelwano nomntu onthandayo lunokuthi lwenzeke ngaphandle kwemimiselo kunye neengcamango .
Ungamnceda njani umntu?
- Ukuba insizwa enokubambisana nayo, kwakukho isondo, ngoko udibaniselwano ungakhumbula oko kudibanisa. Mxelele ngeemvakalelo zakho neemvakalelo zakho. Umyeni uguqulwe ngengqondo kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye kufuneka abe nemihlali. Emva koko, unokwazi ukulala ngeselula.
- Amaninzi amaninzi anomdla kwisihloko, yintoni amagama onokumnceda umfana ukuba atshise umnqweno. Iingcali zincoma ukusebenzisa amagama ngama-doubleton overtones. Oku kuqinisekileyo kumdla kunye nokunyanzela umntu, okwenza umdla wokwenene.
- Unokusebenzisa amacebo angenangqondo okuya kumkhuthaza umntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo esinqumayo. Umzekelo, ungathetha ngephupha elidangayo okanye malunga neengcinga zakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuvuya kumntu, kwaye uya kufuna ukuyiqonda konke okokuqala ngefowuni, kwaye ngoko, ngokwenene ubomi.
- Enye indlela ephumelelayo indlela yokuthabatha umfana nge-SMS kubhala ibali elifutshane apho kuphela ukuqala kwesivakalisi kubonakala kwisigwebo ngasinye, kwaye ukuphela kufuneka kucatshangwe yiqabane lakhe usebenzisa ingcinga yakhe.
- Isiphumo esiphezulu se-100% sinika imiyalezo engalindelekanga yobume obusondeleyo. Cinga nje ukuba xa ubathumela, umzekelo, xa edibene ebantwaneni obalulekileyo okanye ekunxibelelaneni nabazali bakhe, akuyi kuvuya, kodwa uya kumthukuthelela.
- Ukuze ujonge umntu omthandayo, inokumangalisa. Umzekelo, ekuqaleni komhla wokusebenza ungabhalela ukuba ngokuhlwa kuya kushushu kwaye ulale ngokuthula, akanako. Emva koko, phendula iifowuni okanye i-sms, akuyimfuneko. Iingcinga kunye namaphupha akhoyo
malunga nobusuku, kuya kutshabalalisa umdla kwaye kubangela uvuyo.
Ukuba awunayo ingcamango eyaneleyo kunye neengcamango malunga nendlela yokuthabatha umfana kunye nemiyalezo, mhlawumbi ufanelekile ukubhala imilayezo yendalo , ungakhethi nantoni na, kodwa ukhumbule ixesha eliqaqambileyo eliye lahlangana kunye. Ukuphucula impembelelo, ungathumela umyalezo wezwi okanye wenze umfanekiso wesithunzi. Namhlanje, ezininzi iifowuni zikuvumela ukuba uthumele nemiyalezo yevidiyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ifudumele umdla womlingane.
Kungatsho ngokuvunywa ukuba kulula ukukholisa umntu, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ungabi namahloni uze ubhale yonke into esuka entliziyweni. Ngokwezifundo eziqhutywe, inani elikhulu lamadoda liyonwabela xa intombi ichaza ngokucacileyo iziganeko zesondo kwaye igcina uxhulumano olunzulu.