Yonke intsapho yinkqubo yentlalo, ehlala isetyenziswa kunye nehlabathi elisijikelezayo. Intsapho iya kugcina ukusebenza kwayo xa ilawulwa phantsi kwemithetho eyisiseko, engaxhunyiwe ngokungafanelekileyo: umthetho ujonge ukugcina ukuzinza kwentsapho kunye nomthetho wophuhliso lwayo. Akuyi kubakho ukuqaphela ukuba umjikelo wobomi bentsapho uhambelana neenguqu kunye nokuguquguquka okuqhubekayo kwiinqanaba zawo.
Njengoko uyazi, imbono yentsapho eyayisandulwe kutshanje kunye nabatshatileyo abaye bahlala ndawonye iminyaka emininzi, bahluke ngendlela efanayo nomjikelezo wobomi bentsapho.
Iinjongo zeenjongo kunye neminyaka-inguquko yengqondo kumaqabane entsapho inokumisela ukuphuhliswa kwamanyathelo okuphila kwintsapho nganye.
Amanqanaba omjikelezo wobomi bentsapho
Kwiengqondo ze-40, i-20 cent. Kwavela imbono malunga nezigaba zobomi bentsapho. Ekuqaleni, kwakukho malunga nama-24. Okwangoku, ngokusemgangathweni kuyahlukana ngokwezigaba ezilandelayo:
- Isigaba sokudibana.
- Ukuphila ngaphandle kwabantwana.
- Isigaba soothathu (ukubukeka kwabantwana).
- Umtshato oqolileyo.
- Isigaba apho abantwana bephuma khona endlwini.
- "I-Nest engenanto".
- Isigaba sokugqibela apho omnye wabafazi ahlala yedwa emva kokufa komlingane.
Icandelo ngalinye ngaphambi kokuba abatshatileyo benze imisebenzi ethile. Ngoko, intsapho ephumelela ngempumelelo iimeko ezinzima, ibeka imisebenzi yangaphakathi nangaphandle, kuthiwa isebenzayo. Kungenjalo - ayisebenzi. Isigqibo esilungileyo sentsapho engasebenziyo siya kucela uncedo kwi-psychologist. Umjikelezo wobomi bokuphuhliswa kwentsapho kuthatha inguqu enzima ukusuka kwesinye isigaba ukuya kwesinye kwaye akusoloko amaqabane akwazi ukubona ukulungelelanisa imeko entsha ebomini bentsapho.
Izigaba eziphambili zomjikelezo wobomi bentsapho
Izigaba zomjikelezo wobomi bentsapho zinobunzima kunye neengxaki zabo, siya kuziqwalasela ngokucacileyo.
- Ngethuba lobudlelwane ngaphambi komtshato, injongo ephambili ngumnqweno wokufezekisa ukuzimela kwezinto eziphathekayo kunye nengqondo kwiinkcazo zentsapho yomzali kunye nokukhethwa kwindoda ezayo, ishishini kunye nentsebenziswano kunye nomoya.
- Kukho izibini ezitshatileyo ezingenakukhawuleza ukunqoba eli xesha. Isizathu salokhu - ukwesaba okufihlwe ngaphakathi kwintsapho yabo (umzali). Kwaye abanye ngokuchaseneyo bazame ukudala intsapho yabo ngokukhawuleza, ngokunjalo bekhulule ngokwabo ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kubazali nabantwana. Abanye abakwazi ukutshata ngenxa yokuchithwa kwezemali kunye noqoqosho.
- Ngexesha apho isibini esitshatileyo sihlala singenazo abantwana, utshintsho luye lwasungulwa, oluhambelana nesimo sezenhlalakahle. Imida yentsapho yangaphakathi nangaphandle ichazwe, nokuba ngaba ingenanto yokuphazamiseka kwimpilo yentsapho yezihlobo ezivunyelwe. Ngeli xesha, amaqabane achitha ixesha elide ukuseka iingxoxo kunye nomnye kwimibandela eyahlukeneyo. Akukhatywanga ukuvela kweemvakalelo, zesondo kunye nezinye iingxaki.
- Ngethuba lokubonakala kwabantwana abancinci kwintsapho, abafazi bahlula iindima. Oku kubangelwa ngumzali kunye nomama, ukulungelelaniswa kwengqondo, umthwalo ongenelungelo lokuba yedwa. Kwimeko apho umntwana ongafunekiyo avela, kukho iingxaki ezinxulumene nobunzima bezemfundo nokuqonda kwabatshatileyo, ukuba ukwahlukana kuya kuba nzima ngenxa yokubonakala komntwana.
- Inkxalabo ebomini yobomi bentsapho iba ngexesha lokuba abantwana bashiye "isidleke" somzali. Kwiintsapho ezipheleleyo ngeli xesha
kukho inani elikhulu lomtshato. Eli nqanaba libhekiselele kumgangatho ophezulu wokuxhalabisa. Abaqabane kufuneka bathathe isigqibo malunga neenjongo ezintsha, izinto eziphambili, njl. - Kwinqanaba lokugqibela lomjikelezo wobomi, ukulungiswa kwesakhiwo sendima kwintsapho kuqhutyelwa kwisigqibo sokugcina impilo, ukudala umgangatho owanelisayo wokuphila ubomi bobabini bomtshato.
Ngoko, intsapho iyadlula kumjikelezo othile wobomi ngexesha lophuhliso lwayo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule xesha kukunqoba ubunzima, ukunyathela umlenze kwisinyathelo kunye neqabane lakho.