Ngona nogogo bethu, kunye nabanye oomama baqala ukuqokelela iintlobo zeentombi zeentombi zabo malunga nokuzalwa kwakhe. Ngoku iikholeji ezinjalo zilahlekelwe yimpumelelo yazo - yonke into ingathengwa ngosuku olunye, ukuba kukho imali. Ngoko ke, akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba yintoni idolo, indlela eli bha liweyo ngayo, apho kugxininiswe khona.
Yintoni i dowari?
Uxinzelelo kwigama elithi "dowry" liwela kwi syllable yesibini. Igama elithi "dowry" livela kumazwi athi "fakela, wonge", ngoko intsingiselo yegama iyaqondakala kwaye ingenayo ingcaciso engakumbi. Dowry, yiloo nto umfazi eza naye endlwini yendoda yakhe, kunokuba azalise ubomi bomntwana oselula.
Umfazi oDowry waseSlav yakudala
KwiSlav zasendulo, udaka lomfazi kwakuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yokutshata. E-Rashiya, ukuphathwa ngokugqithiseleyo ngeli xesha - i-dowry ngokwayo yayilungiselelwe intombazana ngokwayo, ebomini bayo, ebeka kwisifuba esithile. Kwaye kwakufuneka ndipheke kakhulu, ngaphandle kwengubo yomtshato, intanda yam, umtshakazi wayelungiselele ngaphezu kwama-30 ahlambulukileyo kunye neethala. Kwakhona, umtshakazi wayenokwenza amabhinti kunye namathente afane nesipho kwisapho lomyeni kunye nomyeni ngokwakhe. Ingqalelo enkulu yahlawulelwa ukuhlobisa umbhede womtshato. Kwaye nganye intombazana kwakufuneka ibenze ibhola (ishalofu) ngaphambi komtshato, eyayikunika abantwana kwimidlalo. Ukususela kumsebenzi wabasetyhini ekulungiselelweni kwedowari, akukho nkwenkwezi okanye iintombi ezikhulu. Ngokuchasene noko, amagama okubizwa ngokuthi "netkha" kunye ne "nepryaha" aphakathi kwezona zinto zikhohlakeleyo kumantombazana asetsheni.
Uluhlu lweedowesi luyinyanzeliso, leyo, xa ukuthutha izinto endlwini yendoda, igcinwe ngumama womtshakazi kunye nomdlali. Umyeni naye wayenenkathazo, kwakukho into enjengokuhlawulelwa kwintlanzi yomtshakazi, isisu. Ngaloo ntlawulo, umyeni uqinisekisile ukunyaniseka kwendleko yomfazi wakhe kwimeko yokufa kwakhe kwasekuqaleni.
Siqokelela ukutshata komtshato
Kucacile ukuba ngoku asikho ukuthetha ngamathayili kunye nempahla yokulala-yonke into ingathengwa ngokulungeleleneyo, kodwa oko umntu akufunayo ukwazi akukhona wonke umntu owaziyo. Ngendlela, malunga neendleko ezenziwe ngesandla, ukuba umtshato ungowesizwe, oko kuya kwenzeka. Ngokomzekelo, kwi-dowry yomtshakazi amaKazakh kufuneka afake ama-5 kunye ne-korpesh-ezenziwe ngeengubo zokugcoba kunye neemitha. Ukuba umtshato awunawo udidi lwelizwe, umtshakazi unokukwazi ukukwenza ngokufanayo.
Ngoko ke, yintoni ekhoyo kwi-dowry yanamhlanje yomtshakazi? Uluhlu lwezinto lunokuba lukhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo umakoti unokuthatha nayiphi na into ayifaneleyo. Kodwa kulungile ukuba ube neendawo zokudada izinto ezilandelayo.
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