Ukuze ungaphutheli iimpawu zezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo, bonke abafazi kufuneka bazi ukuba baqhele kangakanani ukuhamba ngenyanga. Siza kukuxelela ngale nto kweli nqaku.
Iimali eziqhelekileyo kufuneka zigcine njani?
Iintsuku ezinzima nganye intombazana idlula ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imimiselo, ukuphambuka apho kungabangelwa kubukho bentlalo yezilwanyana zesisu okanye izifo ezinzulu.
Ngoko, kwisigqirha okanye isabelo sokuya esikhathini siya kusuka kwiintsuku ezintathu ukuya kwezi-7. Kwiintsuku ezimbini zokuqala, ukuphuma kwamanzi kuya kuba luninzi, kwaye iintsuku eziseleyo - ezinqabileyo. Ukongezelela, kufuneka uhlawule ngokukodwa ukuhamba komjikelezo wesini. Umjikelezo wenyanga ohlala kwiintsuku ezingama-28 uthathwa njengento efanelekileyo, nangona naluphi na ukuphambuka kwithuba eliya kwiiveki ezi-3 ukuya kuma-5 kuthathwa njengamkelekileyo.
Ukulahlekelwa kwimihla ngemihla yowesifazane kunokusukela kwi-20 ukuya kuma-50 amagremu, kwaye kuzo zonke iintsuku ezibuhlungu intombazana akufanele ilahlekelwe ngaphezu kwama-250 amagremu egazi.
Unokuqala njani ukuya kwindoda kumantombazana?
Ngokuqhelekileyo eneminyaka eyi-11-16 le ntombazana inesiqalo sokuqala. Iintsholongwane zanamhlanje sele zilungele ukutshintshwa komsebenzi womzimba wazo, kwaye abayikwesaba ukubonakala kokuphuma kwegazi. Nangona kunjalo, umama makaxelele intombi yakhe malunga neempawu zomzimba zowesetyhini.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iinyanga zokuqala ziyanqongophala. Ilahleko elipheleleyo legazi kule mihla liphuma kuma-50 ukuya kuma-150 amagremu, kunye neyona mininzi imfihlo egcinwe ngosuku lwesibini. Amantombazana amaninzi ayigubha i-malaise, ubuthathaka kunye nokuphazamiseka esiswini.
Umjikelezo wokuhamba kwintombazana ingaba yinto engavumelekanga iminyaka emi-2, kwaye ikhefu phakathi kweentsuku ezibalulekileyo ingafikelela kwiinyanga ezi-6.
Ziziphi iinyanga zokuqala emva kokuzalwa?
Emva kokuzalwa, ukuya esikhathini kuninzi kwenzeka ngaphandle kweenyanga ezi-2 emva kokuphela kokuncelisa, kubhinqa abathile, ukuya esikhathini kukuqala ngexesha lokutya komntwana.
Ukuya esikhathini ukuya kwimihla yokumva?
Xa uneminyaka engama-47-49 iminyaka, abaninzi abafazi baqala ukuyeka. Ngeli xesha, umsebenzi wokuzala uyancipha ngokuthe gqolo, obangela ukuba kuphele ukuphela kokuhamba kwexesha. Ubungakanani bexesha lokuphela kwesisu kunokuba malunga neminyaka emi-5-7. Inyanga nganye ngeli xesha liba luninzi, kwaye ixesha ngalinye ixesha lokunciphisa. Ubungakanani bemijikelezo yokuya esikhathini kananjalo kananjalo luyancipha, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka, ngokuchaseneyo, ukwanda.