Ngaba ndiyakhulelwa xa iqabane lam lingagqiba?
Kufanelekile ukuthetha ukuba kwi-sexology into efanayo ebizwa ngokuba yintsebenziswano yokulala ngokwesondo (PA). Le ndlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo isetyenziswa ngokutsha ngabantu abatshatileyo abaselula. Inkcazo yile nyaniso yinto elula, kunye nokungabikho kwesidingo sokuthenga izithintelo zokukhusela ezongezelelweyo . Emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abatsha banqikaza ukuthenga ikhondom.
Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela yokukhusela ukukhulelwa ikhuselekile, ngaba ndingakhulelwa ngaphandle kokungena ngaphakathi? Impendulo ayikho nto, akukho. Kodwa, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iinkcukacha eziliqela.
Nangona i-lubricant ekhishwa kwi-penis ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo ayinayo iiseli zegciwane, amathuba okukhulelwa emva kokuphazamiseka ngokwesondo. Kwaye yonke into incike kwi "ubugcisa" baloo ndoda.
Kutheni ukukhulelwa kungenzeka emva kwe-PA?
Xa sele uqikelelwe ukuba ngaba unako ukukhulelwa, ukuba loo ndoda ingagqiba, siya kuzama ukufumana ukuba zeziphi iimeko zokuqala kokuqala emva kokuphazamiseka kwesenzo.
Njengomthetho, ngexesha lonyaka wokusebenzisa le ndlela yokukhulelwa, umfazi usakhula. Kwaye ke uxanduva lonke luhlala kulo mntu. Into yokuba akubona bonke abameli bendoda abanakho kunye nexesha lokukhipha ipeni kumfazi, ingakumbi xa ufikelela kwi-orgasm.
Ngaloo ndlela, umbuzo wokuba unako ukukhulelwa ngaphandle kokuphela kwintombazana, oogqirha basabela kakubi. Nangona kunjalo, asimele sikhohlwe ukuba ukusebenzisa le ndlela yokukhusela kufuna iqondo eliphezulu lokuzithiba kumntu ozayo namava obomi besondo.