Ngaba amantombazana angakwazi ukuphazamiseka?

Namhlanje, inani lokuhlambalaza phakathi kwentsha likhula njalo. Umdlalo awusekho into eqhelekileyo, ithululela kuthi ukusuka kuyo yonke indawo, kwaneeskrini zeTV, kwaye akusoloko ephuma emlonyeni wendoda.

Kutheni bafungela ngomtya?

Izizathu zokuba kutheni amantombazana asebenzisa amagama angcolileyo kwiintetho zawo ahluke. Isigama esingafanelekanga sisiphumo sokusweleka okanye ukunganyaniseki. Ukuba abazali basebenzisa umlingane, akumangalisi ukuba intombazana ibona ukuba iyinto eqhelekileyo yokunxibelelana kwaye isebenzise ngentsholongwane yakhe.

Ukususela kwiminyaka ethile, ngaphezu kokufundisa abazali kumntwana nakwishumi elivisayo, abantu abajikelezile banempembelelo enkulu. Abafunda nabo, afunda nabo kunye nekampani kwiredi banempembelelo enkulu kwihambo kunye nengxoxo yintombazana yanamhlanje. Ukuba kummandla wakhe bathetha nomama, ngoko akanayo umbuzo nokuba kungenzeka ukuba afunge, kuya kubonakala ngathi luhlobo oluthile lokunxibelelana.

Ukuphambisa umnqweno wentombazana ukusebenzisa amagama angcolileyo kunokubangela uxinzelelo. Kwezinye iimeko kungcono ukusebenzisa ukuhlambalaza, ukukhupha iimvakalelo ezihlangeneyo kunye nayo, kunokuba ugcine yonke into ngokwayo.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunge ngeqabane?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba amantombazana afungele ingongoma. Ukuqwalasela isondo esifanelekileyo njengezilwanyana ezincinci, ngokuqinisekileyo, ulwimi olungcolileyo aluyi kubakho. Akuntle kwaye ayinakuziphatha, ngaphezu koko, abaninzi abantu bathanda ukuthetha kunye namantombazana angasebenzisi amagama aqinileyo entetho yabo. Nangona kunjalo, wonke umntu ngumntu, kwaye kuya kuye ukuba anqume oko kukulungileyo kuye nento embi kuye.

Ungakulibala njani ukufunga?

Ukuba konke okufanayo kugqitywa ukuba wenze umgudu wokutyhila intombazana ukusebenzisa amagama afunga, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukulandela iziphakamiso ezithile. Unokubambela ngokukhawuleza ngesondo esifanelekileyo ukuba uyintombazana engakwazi ukuwasebenzisa amagama anjalo kwisigama. Iimpawu ezinjalo akufanele zikhubekise. Ukuba intombazana ikuxhasayo ngomnqweno wokucima intetho yakhe ekufungeni amagama, unokwenza umdlalo wegeyimu ngokudala ibhanki ye-piggy ngenxa yezohlwayo zegama ngalinye elihlazo. Kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuba kuthuka ukuva amazwi anjalo emlonyeni wakhe.

UMathe wenza intetho ibe namandla. Mhlawumbi ngoncedo lwamazwi angcolileyo intombazana izama ukukutsala. Thetha ngentliziyo yakhe entliziyweni, kwaye ufumene isizathu esona sokusebenzisa ulwimi lwakhe oluhlambalazayo.