Ukuzisa ipakethe encinci kwikhaya lakho lokubeleka, apho ubuncwane bakho bukhuni khona, kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba kwiminyaka eyi-15-20 inkwenkwe encinci iya kuba phezulu kunomama wayo, ilizwi lakhe liza kuba li-bass, emva koko abazukulwana bakhe bangabi kude. Okwangoku, kunzima ukumelana nokungachukumisi umlomo wakho ngezibambane ezincinci, imilenze ekhuphayo kunye nesisu somnxeba. Nazi izibonakaliso ezibonakalayo zomzimba ezifihliweyo phantsi kwe-diaper, kubangela ukuba umama omncinane abe neentloni. Yintoni endiyithethayo, nangona ukuba ootitshala bezilwanyana bawela ngaphaya kwendawo ngokuhlolwa okucwangcisiweyo ngandlela-thile ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza.
Yaye yintoni iimvakalelo zoomama, bebona ukulungiswa kokuqala kwamakhwenkwe, okunokuthi kwenzeke kakade ngosuku lokuqala okanye lwesibini yobomi babo, kunzima ukucinga. Nangu, kwaye ndamangalisa, kwaye ndihlazo, kwaye ndinekratshi kwincinci yakhe.
Izizathu zokulungiswa
Ekubeni sithetha ngamakhwenkwe amancinci, isizathu esona sizathu, amava angamava, siya kushiya. Ulungiso lokuqala kubantwana luhlobo lokutshekisha. Umzimba uvavanya ngokwayo ukuba konke kulungile na. Ukulungiswa kwasekuqaleni kwintsana kuyinkqubo yokwenyama yemvelo, leyo, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, ifunyanwa ngabantu bonke besilisa. AmaMama ayaqaphela xa abafana beqala ukulungiswa, kodwa ukunikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo akuyimfuneko. Kwiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala bafunda umzimba wabo, kwaye ipenisi inomdla omkhulu. Isalathisi se-alamu kukunyuka okuthe kratya kwindlela ekhulayo kwiminyaka yabantu abadala. Oku kunokukhokelela ekuziphatheni ngokwemvelo, ukungondleki okungafanelekanga, ukusuleleka kwintsholongwane, isifo sikashukela nezinye izifo. Ukuba kukho naluphi na ukusola, qha ga mshelana nomfana.
Umntu ozayo
Xa umntwana efikelela kwiminyaka elishumi, uyangena kwisigaba sokutshatyalaliswa. Ngoko, ukulungiswa kwabaselula kubungqina obucacileyo benomdla kwisini esahlukileyo. Kodwa abazali abasuka kwisangqa sobuntu abakwaziyo le nto, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba sele bekhutshwe ngaphandle, kuba iinguqu ezincinane zenzeke ngokubhekiselele kwizinto ezixakekileyo, ubunzima bexesha kunye nezinye "izinto ezimnandi" zeli xesha. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abazali bafanele bazenzele ukuba abaxolisi nantoni na. Kulo xesha kudingekile ukuba uqhelane nalo mfana ngemithetho yokukhulelwa, kuba okokuqala ngcamango malunga nabazukulu, obonakala emva kokuba ephuma esibhedlele, unokufezeka phambi kwakho kwaye wayekufuna.