Amacandelo ezemidlalo kubantwana

Sonke sifuna ukuba abantwana bethu bakhule, baqeshwe kwaye banempilo. Kodwa imfundo evamile yesikolo esikolweni okanye ukuhlawula indlu ayanele. Abaninzi bethu babandakanyeka kwicandelo ebuntwaneni, kwaye imisebenzi enjalo yaba negalelo ekuphuhliseni uqeqesho, injongo kunye nenjongo. Masithi, asizange sibe yi-ntshatsheli (umntu, mhlawumbi, kwaye waba), kodwa wafumana amava axabisekileyo kwaye afunekayo, kunye nokunyusa umzimba. Yingakho umnqweno wesizukulwana esakhulayo ukukhula uphilile unemvelo. Emva kwayo yonke into, ifakwe ngaphakathi kuthi kumanqanaba angaphantsi kunye nezomfuzo.

Kule nto, sonke sifuna ukuthumela umntwana wethu kwicandelo lezemidlalo kubantwana. Inhlanhla, ngoku iyakwazi ukufunyanwa ngobuninzi phantse nasiphi na isixeko. Kwaye xa sithetha ngeidolophu ezinkulu, ngoko unako ukulahleka ngokupheleleyo xa ukhetha icandelo lezemidlalo elifanelekileyo kubantwana.

Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuba ufunde ngokubaluleka komntwana wakho kunoma yimuphi uhlobo lwemidlalo. Ngomntwana osemncinci, kunzima ukwenza oko, kuba mhlawumbi akunakukubona kwangaphambili. Kodwa kukho iinkqubo eziza kukunceda ukhethe icandelo lezemidlalo kubantwana:

1. Into yokuqala yokuqala ukuyiqwalasela iimpawu zomzimba wengane yakho: ukuphakama, umzimba kunye nezilungiso eziqhelekileyo. Ngokusekelwe kwezi zinto, unokwazi ukubona iintlobo zemidlalo ezifanelekileyo kakhulu kumntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana abaxhomekeke kwisisindo esingaphezulu, ubugcisa bokulwa (i-judo, i-sambo, njl. Njl), kunye neHockey, umbhoxo wombhoxo okanye ukubhukuda kuphelele. Ngelixa abantwana abaphakamileyo kunontanga yabo bangabadlali abaphumelelayo bebholabhokisi okanye i-volleyball abadlali.
2. Ukukhetha amagumbi okanye imidlalo yezemidlalo kubantwana bakho, gxininisa ubunjani kunye nomoya womntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho akaphumli kwaye unamandla kakhulu, ngoko ke uyona mdlalo ofanelekileyo. Bayazintle nabantwana abasetyhini, kuba iqela liyakwazi ngokucacileyo ngokucacileyo kwaye likwazi ukuzibona ngokuzimeleyo. Ukongezelela, kubantwana abaneempawu ezizimeleyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe imidlalo efana nokuphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo kokuhamba kunye nophuhliso oluqhubekayo lwento efanayo. Icandelo le-gymnastics lihle kakhulu kubantwana abanjalo. Unokukhetha kwakhona i-tennis, ukudansa okanye i-athletics. Cinga nje ukuba kule midlalo ibaluleke kakhulu, njengomonde.

Ukuqashwa kwabantwana kumacandelo ezemidlalo ngokuqhelekileyo kubanjwa ekuqaleni konyaka wesikolo. Abameli beembalo ezihlukeneyo bahamba ngeenxa zonke kwizikolo baze bahambe nabo. Unokucela umntwana ukuba atshintshele kuwe ukuba ngaba nayiphi na icandelo inomdla. Ezinye izangqa ziyamkela bonke abaqabane, abanye bafumana abantwana kumacandelo ezemidlalo ngokukhuphisana, ukukhetha kuphela abo, ngokombono wabo, baya kukwazi ukuphumeza iziphumo ezilungileyo.

Musa ukuphepha iinqanaba zezemidlalo zamahhala kubantwana, kuba eli lihle ithuba lomntwana Zama ngokwakho nawuphi na uhlobo lwemidlalo ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa okukhulu ngenxa yohlahlo lwabiwo lwezentsapho. Ukuba umntwana akayithandi inkcazo yesifundo, unako ukutshintsha kwakhe ukhetho. Kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, akayi kujongana nento engayithandiyo, ngenxa yokuba "sele ihlawulwe." Enye into yokuba iinqanaba zezemidlalo zamahhala kubantwana bakho azithethi ukukhutshwa ngokupheleleyo kweendleko. Emva kwakho konke, i-inventory kunye nefomu kufuneka uthenge naluphi na imeko.

Namhlanje, ingqalelo enkulu ihlawulwa ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana abakhubazekileyo, ngoko kukho amacandelo ezemidlalo kwabantwana abakhubazekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo basebenzisana ngokubanzi kunye namaziko okulungisa kunye nemibutho yoluntu, ngoko ukuba ufuna ukufumana icandelo elinjalo, kufuneka ubize le mibutho okanye, umzekelo, iikomiti ezilawulayo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iiklasi zala bantwana zikhululekile, kunye nenkxaso yemali eyahlukeneyo.

Amacandelo ezemidlalo yabantwana anethuba elihle kubantwana bakho ukuba bafumane amandla abo kunye neetalente, kunye nokuqinisa impilo yabo ngokusisigxina.