Enyanisweni, isihloko esikhethwe kulo mqondo wengqondo nomphefumlo ngokucacileyo asifanelekanga. Okanye, igama, mhlawumbi libonisa intsingiselo yenkinga ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa umntu oye wayenenkathazo kwiminyaka engama-30 sele esenelisekile. Yaye ngokuqinisekileyo, ubuncinci kubo bonke, ufuna ukuva ukuxilongwa "kweengxaki".
Enyanisweni, ubomi bethu buzele iingxaki. Eyokuqala sivalelwa kwiminyaka emithathu, ngoko ke xa siselula. Emva koko kukho "ingxaki yokufuna isifuba" - malunga neminyaka engama-22 ubudala, usibhalela kwindlela yokuqeqeshwa kweengcali. Inkxalabo yokukhula kokuqala - ukuya kuma-30 ubudala, kwaye ke inkathazo eyaziwayo yexesha eliphakathi-ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-30 ukuya kuma-40. Ndikholelwe, ukuba uye wangena kwiinkqutyana zonke zeengxaki ukususela ebuntwaneni, ngoko uya kuqonda kakuhle ukuba ungayinqoba njani ingxaki yeminyaka engama-30.
Iingcamango okanye iingcinga zeengxaki malunga neengxaki zeminyaka ephakathi
Iimpawu zeengxaki zeminyaka engama-30 sidibanisa neendlela ezimbini. Iyokuqala-inkathazo yobudala obuphakathi kuphela kumadoda. Okwesibini kukuba, kubafazi, inzima kukuqonda ukuba ubudala buza kwizithende, kunye namadoda, ukungazalisekanga ulutsha. Enyanisweni, ukubonakaliswa nezizathu ezikhokelela ekujonganeni neengxaki zizodwa kwaye aziboleki kwisigaba esiqinileyo.
Iimpawu
Kwiengqondo, unokufumana iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zengxaki kwiminyaka engama-30:
- ukungagxininisi ubudlelwane;
- utshintsha utshintsho lomsebenzi kunye nemisebenzi, izinto ezithandwayo kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa;
- utshintsho olukhawulezayo nolushushu;
- ukuqubuka kobundlobongela;
- ukudandatheka;
- ixhala;
- uxhalaba;
- ukungahoywa, ukungabi nhlonipho ngobuntu bomntu;
- umnqweno wokutshintsha kwinto yonke ukusuka entloko ukuya enzwaneni.
Ngokwahlukileyo, zonke ezi zimpawu ziyakwazi ukuthetha ngeengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo zeentloko zethu eziqaqambileyo, kodwa ngokubanzi-ewe, le ngxaki.
Ubunzima begolide okanye ubunzima?
Ukuba uzinqabile kwaye uziqonde, wonke umntu ojongene neengxaki uya kuqonda ukuba kukho ukucatshungulwa kweenjongo ezisekelwe kumava obomi sele sele athola. Kule minyaka, ngenxa yentlekele, inani leempawu zethu zengqondo liba ngumgangatho wobuntu.
Ingxaki yadalwa ukuze umntu aqhubeke nokuphuhlisa, ukhuthazelele kwimpumelelo emitsha, izilingo, kwaye usishiye ukhetho olubini - mhlawumbi siza kuphila ngokusisigxina "kwiinkathazo", okanye siza kuphucula.
Ingqondo yengqondo idala ingqalelo kwiingxaki iminyaka engama-30. Ngokutsho kophando kunye nolwazi olufunyenweyo, kwabasetyhini ababuhlungu kule minyaka bahlukaniswe ngamacandelo amabini angacacileyo:
- Abakhathaleli abakhulayo beza kuma-30
ngokusemthethweni nangokwezemali, ziwela kwingxubusho kuba abazange baqaphele indawo "yintsapho, abantwana, ikhaya." Baxhaphaza kwaye ngokukhawuleza bafuna ukuzungeze abantwana. - Abafazi bezindlu, abaye baqala ngokutshata, bafumana ubomi baze bazala, baxinekile , ngenxa yokuba bazive bengenakwenzeka. Bacinga ukuba abo bajikelezileyo abahlonishwayo, babonwa bengenanto.
Indlela yokuphuma ukuhamba malunga neminqweno yakho. I-Careerist iya kunceda ekuzalweni komntwana, kunye nomfazi wendlu - umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi okanye ukugqweswa kwiyunivesithi.