Kakade, nawuphi na umzali ukhathalela ukhuseleko lomntwana wakhe. Ngako oko, ingxaki ye-pedophilia isasaza kakhulu kwizinto zangoku. Wonke umntu angaba ngu-pedophile, nokuba yinto engabikho mntu uyayicinga ngayo, kuba uhloniphekile, uyamnandi, njalo njalo. Ngoko, ukuze ukwazi ukukhusela umntwana wakho, kufuneka ufunde umbuzo wendlela yokujonga umzanyana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba kukho ipesenti ekhulwini, kuba ingqondo yengqondo isaphila into engaziwayo, egcwele izinto ezinzima. Kodwa ke kuya kuba yinto engathandabuzekiyo ukuqonda ezinye iimpawu ezisisiseko ze-pedophilia.
Pedophilia: njani ukuqonda umntu ohamba phambili?
Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba i-pedophilia ayinayo nayiphi na imingcele ngokwemisebenzi, ubuhlanga, umlingiswa okanye ezinye iimpawu zomntu ezicacileyo kunye neempawu. I-pedophile ingaba nabani na: uthisha okanye ummelwane omhle oya kuhlala ebamba umnyango. Ngoko awukwazi ukukhulula nabani na ukusola.
Xa uthetha malunga nendlela yokujonga i-pedophile, kufuneka uqwalasele into yokuba bajwayele amava abo. Ngokwezibalo, ngamaphesenti angama-60 amacala omdlwenguli aya kukwazi kakuhle umntwana, kwaye kwi-thirty - ngokubanzi ilungu losapho lwakhe. Ngokweqile, ngokuphathelele umbuzo wendlela yokujonga i-pedophile-ubawo, kunokuba nzima kakhulu, nokuba ngumama. Kodwa ukuba uqwalasela ulwalamano phakathi kobawo nabantwana, ngoko yonke into iya kucaca. Utata uhle kakhulu okanye uhlambalaza, kwaye abantwana bavame ukubonisa ukukhonza kwaye, ngokwenene, ukoyika.
Kwaye, ke, iipedophile ziyabakhathalela ngokupheleleyo abantwana. Bazama ukwakha nabo ubudlelwane obuqilileyo ngokusekelwe kukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kunye nomdla komnye nomnye. Ngokuqhelekileyo ii-pedophiles zixoxa nabantwana, njengabantu abadala-ngokubaluleka. Bazama kwakhona ukudibana nomoya. Into ephambili apha akuyi kuphutha kwaye ingamkeli ngenxa yeempawu ze-pedophilia okuya kuba yintando kuphela kubantwana kunye nokubonakaliswa kokunyamekela.