Infantile - intsingiselo yegama

Inkcazelo yegama elithi "infantilism" lifunwa abaninzi namhlanje. Njengoko ingxaki yobungqina bembonakalo okanye ukuziphatha kwangaphandle kweempawu zobume bexesha elidlulileyo lwenzeke ngokukhawuleza namhlanje, ukulibaziseka ekuphuhlisweni kobuntu. Ukulondolozwa kweempawu zezingane kumntu kunye nokulahla ekuphuhlisweni kwimiba yemoya.

Intsingiselo yelizwi elingenasiphelo kwindlela engumfuziselo ibonakaliswa njengendlela yokubonakalisa indlela yomntwana kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, kungekhona amandla okwenza izigqibo ezinolwazi nokungafuni ukuthatha izibophelelo.

Iimpawu zokungabi nantlungu:

1. Ukuzimelela. Ukuzimelela, ukungakwazi ukuqonda nokuziva imeko yabanye. Umntu ongenakukwazi ukuqonda ukuba abanye banokucinga baze babone ihlabathi elungeze kuye. Uqinisekile ukuba yonke into yenziwe kuye kuphela, kwaye abo bajikelezayo kufuneka banelise iimfuno zakhe. Ihlabathi labangaphakathi labanye lingamthandi.
2. Ukuxhomekeka. Ukungakwazi okanye ukungafuni ukwenza inkonzo. Oku kuqhelekileyo kumadoda, umzekelo, kwintsapho abenqaba ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya, bethetha ukuba bazisa imali endlwini. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba le ndoda idlala indima ehlukeneyo, kumsebenzi unoxanduva, kwaye ekhaya - inkwenkwe encinane.
3. Ukwazisa ngezoBomi kwimidlalo. Ininzi yokuzonwabisa kunye nezinto eziphathekayo zisetyenziselwa umdlalo. Iimidlalo ezithandwayo kakhulu zomntwana omdala ziquka ukuhlanganisana rhoqo kwimivalo, ii-discos, ezithengiweyo, ukuthengwa kwezinto ezintsha zobugcisa.
4. Ukungakwazi ukuzimisela ngokwabo. Ukwenza izigqibo, ukuthanda kuyimfuneko, kwaye umntu omncinci ukhetha ukuhlala ngaphandle kokunciphisa, ukukhetha indlela engenakuphikiswa.
5. Ukungafuni ukuphendula ngenxa yobomi kunye nezenzo zakhe. Inketho elula kakhulu ayisombululi nantoni ngokwayo, ishintshela le mishini kwabanye, kwaye ihlala ijikelezwe ngobuntu obuncinane ngabantu abanjalo.
6. Ukungabikho kwezicwangciso zobomi obungakumbi. Ubomi bomntu omncinci ngumntu ongapheliyo "ngoku", ngoko awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngempilo kunye nemali.
7. Ukungakwazi ukuzimela nokwazi ukuzimela. Into eyenzekayo ebomini ayiqondwanga, ngoko ayiyi kumava, ihlala isiganeko esiqhelekileyo. Abantu abangabantwana abangabantwana abangenabantwana abangafundanga ebomini.

Kwengqondo, ukungabi nantlupheko kuthathwa njengento efunyenwe ngemfundo esemgangathweni.

I zizathu zo kutyalwa:

1. Uninzi lwabazali banqanda ukuzimela komntwana ngokungathembeki. Ukungathembeki, ukulawula, isenzo esibi ngenxa yezenzo ezingalunganga kwaye umnqweno wokwenza into emntwaneni kamva ilahleka ngonaphakade.
2. Ngeentetho kunye nezenzo zabo, abazali baqinisekisa umntwana ukuba ulahlekile, ukuba akakwazi ukufundiswa, abanye benze ngcono, ekugqibeleni banciphise intswelo kunye neemvakalelo.
3. Ukunyamekela okukhulu kubazali, abaye bazama ukuwanelisa iinjongo zabo ngomntwana.
4. Abazali bayamthanda umntwana. Ngenxa yoko, ukuzikhukhumeza komntwana kuphakama kakhulu, kunye nokuqinisekiswa ukuba yonke into ebomini iyatholakala ngaphandle kwemizamo.
5. Ukwahlukana kwabazali. Nangona abazali beqondana, umntwana uzizwa engadingekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo akayiqondi into eyenzekayo kwaye ubeka ityala kuye ngokwakhe. Umntwana uvale aze aqale ukuhlala ehlabathini lakhe, apho ekhululekile, kodwa ihlabathi lenene liyethusa.

Ukungafanelanga kubonakala kubantu bobabini besini, kodwa amadoda aqhelekileyo kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo abafumani intsapho ixesha elide kwaye bahlala nabazali babo. Iqabane lobomi liyakubonakala ngokunyanzeliswa kwabazali abakhathele kwaye abanakho ukuxhasa nokuxhasa abantwana abadala. Xa abantwana bezalwa, banakekelwa ngabo kunye nendlu, kunye nokugcinwa kwentsapho, balawulwa ngokupheleleyo ngamagxa amabhinqa. "Umntu odla ukutya" uyazihlukanisa, uchitha lonke ixesha phambi kwekhompyuter yakhe okanye ithelevishini.

Ukungabikho kokusweleka kwezilwanyana kukhona. Abasetyhini abasetyhini bachithe ixesha kwiiklabhu, ii-casino. Bahlazeka ekuzalweni kwabantwana, ukudala intsapho, ikhaya. Isisombululo semicimbi yabo yemali ekuqaleni ngabazali, ke abaxhasayo.