Wonke umfazi wayefuna ukuba wonke umntu amthande. Wayefuna ukubekwa njengomzekelo kwabanye, ngokokuba wayenjalo, ukuba kungengabaninzi, ngoko umntu, umthombo wokuphefumlelwa. Abanye abakwazi ukuhlala usuku ngaphandle kokuqwalaselwa ngokubanzi, kwaye umntu angathanda ubuncinane usuku olulodwa ukuba abe ngumdlali oyintloko ebomini bakhe.
Njengomthetho, udumo luza kubantu abanobuqu abangabonwa ngabanye kwisibini. Ubomi obuyingozi - abanye bafumana udumo ngokukhawuleza, njengabanye ekuboneni kuqala, ngelixa abanye bezama ukuphuma kwisihlwele, kodwa akukho nto.
Indlela yokuba yinto ethandwa kakhulu?
- Nciphisa imbono yokuthandwa. Xa uzama ukuqonda njengomnxibelelwano wakho, kunye nabanye ngokubanzi, awukwazi ukubona indlela ebonakala ngayo ngokubonakalayo ngaphandle. Uziphatha ngokungaqhelekanga, oku kuthetha ukuba uyazifihla phantsi kwe-mask. Asiyi kuphikisana nelokuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kuya kuba nefuthe elihle kwabanye abantu, kodwa ukuba ubala kwixesha elide, emva koko kamva le ndlela ayiyi kuzisa impumelelo.
- Ungazami ukuba nabantu abaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka. Khumbula ukuba umgangatho ophezulu, kungekhona ubuninzi. Nika ingqalelo kubuntu abanovelwano abaye bazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukunyaniseka. Kumele ubone umphefumlo womtshato kula bantu.
- Hack kuwe ngokwakho ekhaleni, ukuba kusuka ekuhlazweni kwakho ungasusa kuphela xa ushiya indawo yoduduzo.
- Ukuba kuyimfuneko, musa ukugxeka okanye ukuphendula abanye. Gxininisa ebomini bakho, iinjongo malunga nengcamango yokuba ungathandwa ngakumbi.
- Cinga rhoqo malunga nabanye, kungekhona wena. Ngexesha le ncoko, ukuba uthetha ngempumelelo yakho kunye neminqweno ngaphandle kokungazeleleki, ungalindelanga ukuba umnxibelelwano uya kufuna ukujongana nawe kwikamva.
- Ukulahla imaski yobuzenzisi. Yiba nguwe. Ungazami ukukholisa umntu, ukulahlekelwa yinyaniso yendalo yakho.
- Ncitshitshise i-ego yakho. Ngethuba le ngxoxo, umntu akufanele akhulume iinqanaba zakhe, iimpumelelo. Musa ukuphinda udumise kunye nomsebenzi.
- Cinga kwakhona imbono yakho yehlabathi, ubomi bakho. Lahla ukungafihli .
- Funda ukuphulaphula abantu abajikelezayo. Bona, njengawe, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuthetha.
Indlela yokuba ithandwa phakathi kwala madoda?
Amantombazana amaninzi, nakwizinzulu zeentliziyo zabo, kodwa afuna ukuba yinkalo yokuqwalasela phakathi kwabameli bezesini ezahlukeneyo. Siza kuzama ukuguqulela oku kunyanisekileyo ngoncedo lwezi ngcebiso ezilandelayo:
- nziswano . Xa uhlala unxibelelwano, ovulekileyo unxibelelwano oluya kubakho, unomdla oza kukwazi ukukhanga phakathi kwabafana. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ukuhlalisana akufanele sikhule ibe yintetho;
- kaninzi uzama kwimifanekiso emitsha. Abaninzi bayabhuqwa ngokuzimela;
- Ukuze uqonde indlela yokwaziwa ngabantu, khumbula ukuba, ukuze angathethi, ukuphulaphula intetho yakhe ngokuthokoza;
- ebusweni bakhe akubonisi ukuba uyaxhala;
- Kakade, isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sisiphumo. Kodwa jonga umdlalo wakho ekungenakwenzeka kumnxibelelwano, ungagqithisi intonga.
- soloko ukhumbula ubufazi bakho. Jonga ubuhle bakho.
Indlela yokuba yithandwa ngayo kwisixeko?
- Joyina inhlangano yokuzithandela. Yasebenza.
- Yiba ngumbhali wendawo.
- Dlala kwibhande lomculo elidumile.
- Yiba ngumama wabantwana abaninzi. Malunga nawe ubhale kumaphephandaba, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ukuthandwa akuyi kudlula.
- Qhubeka upapasha iifoto zakho kwi-Intanethi.
Indlela yokuba ithandwa kwihlabathi?
- unike phantse yonke ixesha lakho lokukhulula ukuphucula naziphi na izakhono ezithile;
- misela injongo ethile;
- inani elikhulu lemizamo yakho ijolise ekuphumezeni okufunwayo;
- zama ukuqala ukuba udlalele kwisixeko sakho, ngoko kwilizwe lakho, kwaye emva koko uzame ukunqoba i-Olympus.
Unokuthi uthandwa njani kwinkampani?
- Yenza ingqalelo kuwe.
- Zama kwiimpawu zengubo.
- Jonga ulwimi lomzimba wakho.
- Yiba ngumphefumlo wenkampani: ukusela, ukudansa, ukuhleka, ukunceda abanye.
- Yenza amaqela.
- Yiba ngumntu ohambelayo.
- Yeka ukucinga malunga nendlela yokufumana intombazana edumile. Khumbula ukuba into ephambili akuyiyoyiki into entsha. Ukulahla konke ukwesaba kunye nobunzima.
Musa ukulibala ukuba ngumntu onentliziyo entle ohlala ekwazi ukuza kuhlangula umhlobo wakho kwaye kungekudala uza kuqala ukutsala abantu abafanayo ebomini bakho.