Umntu owaziyo ukuthetha kakuhle, uhlala ebangela umona emthunzini, ongakwazi ukudibanisa amagama amabini. Kwaye ukukwazi ukuthetha kakuhle kunokunceda kakhulu ebomini. Ngokomzekelo, xa uxoxisana nabahloli, abathengi, abaxhasi, kunye nokukwazi ukuxelela amabali athandayo kubahlobo, akonakali.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthetha kakuhle?
Uninzi lwabo bafuna ukwazi ukufunda ukuthetha kakuhle, abazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini. Ngoko ke, ukuba ndigxininise inyawo lwam, ndithi, Ndifuna ukufunda indlela yokuthetha kakuhle, fumana izifundo ezimbalwa kwitheknoloji yentetho kwaye uyeke khona. Kodwa emva kokuba ufunde ubuchule bokuphefumla kakuhle, okanye ukutsala idilesi, umntu akakwazi ukuba ngumloli obalaseleyo. Ukuze ukwazi ukuthetha ngokuhle ngurhwebo olubanzi, kukho ubuninzi obukhulu ukuba ufunde kuphela ngomntu wonke kwiikhosi ezizodwa kunye nokuqeqesha. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu ofuna iikhono ezinjalo, abaninzi banokufuna ukuphucula izakhono zabo zokuthetha kancane. Kule meko, amaqhinga akhethekileyo akudingeki ukuba aziwe - ngokucacileyo, ngokucacileyo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ngokufanelekileyo ukuthetha. Indoda ephazamisa intetho yakhe yasekuhlaleni iyinto engathandekiyo ukuphulaphula.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthetha kakuhle nangokuchanekileyo?
- Bambalwa abazalwa ngokukwazi ukuthetha kakuhle, bonke abantu kufuneka baqonde le nzu lulwazi. Ngako oko, akufanele siwuhoxise ukudweba kwenkqubo yokuthetha. Zama ukucinga ngazo zonke iinkcukacha, lungiselela uphinde uhlaziye iziqendu, mhlawumbi ziya kuzwakalisa ngendlela ethile, kodwa oku kungcono kunokuba ungabonakali.
- Indlela yokufunda ukuthetha kakuhle kwaye ngokufanelekileyo? Izinto ezininzi zithethwa ngezibonelelo zokufunda, kodwa akusiyo isono ukuphinda ufunde kwakhona-ufunde ngakumbi, uhlobo olungabalulekanga, into eyona nto kukuba yinyaniso enobungakanani, kwaye ayikho i-stamping esheshayo, apho kukho iimpazamo ezininzi kunokuba isicatshulwa sefomu lokuqala. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukufunda kunye nezobuchwepheshe, "argo" iyafumaneka kuwo wonke ummandla womsebenzi kwaye kuyimfuneko ukwazi olu lwimi oluyimfihlo.
- Sifunda ukuthetha kakuhle nangokuchanekileyo. Jonga ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwizichazili, ukunyanzeliswa kakubi kunye namagama abolekekileyo, asetyenziswe ngaphandle kwendawo - isifo selizwe lamanje. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngentsingiselo yegama lasemzini, yifake esikhundleni sesincoko ngesincoko sakho semveli - mhlawumbi asiyi kuvakala kakhulu, kodwa awuyi kungena kwi-mess, ubiza ukuxoxwa.
- Phinda uhlaziye imisebenzi yakho phambi kwesibuko okanye othandekayo. Funda ukutshintsha i-intonation, ukuveza iimvakalelo ngokunciphisa (ukwandisa) ithoni yezwi okanye ukukhawuleza (ukunciphisa) itempo yentetho. Qala encinci, ungathathi ngokukhawuleza iingxelo, xelela i-anecdotes, ukuvakalisa i-toasts. Kancinci uza kufunda ukuba nelizwi lakho, kwaye akukho namnye oza kuba nombuzo othi "oku uvuselelwe okanye uxolo."
- Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthetha, kwaye kukho imigaqo eyahlukileyo yembali. Khumbula i-institute lecturer, abambalwa beeprofesenti ezihloniphekileyo bathetha ngokucacileyo, kunye neengcamango zombhali onobungqina. Kwaye ngohlobo oluhle lokuhlala phantsi, ithoni yomcebisi ayifanelekanga. Ngako oko, sifunda ukuthetha kakuhle, ukutshintsha indlela yokubhala. Zama ukuba ngumdlali wemizuzu ngomzuzu, funda inqaku elifanayo lembhalo (imbongo) ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo,
njengokungathi uthetha phambi kwebhodi yabalawuli, ngoko udlulisela uvavanyo kwiziko lezemidlalo, kwaye uzama ukwenza abahlobo bahlekise. - Funda ukuphefumula okufanelekileyo, isichazi esifanelekileyo. Oku kuya kuncedisa ukuzisebenzisa okukhethekileyo, ulwimi lweelwimi kunye namantongomane emlonyeni.
- Cinga ngesihloko somdla, ubhale i-monologue yerekhodi. Emva kokuphulaphula uze uhlalutye owevile. Phawula iimpazamo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Ngexesha elide, zivavanye uze uziphelise zonke iintsilelo zentetho yakho.