Kuthetha ntoni "ukunyamezela"? Ngaba wonke umntu owanelisayo unokukwazi ukuphendula loo mbuzo? Ngokukodwa xa ucinga ukuba ihlabathi lanamhlanje lithwele abantu abaninzi.
Uqeqesho lokunyamezela
Ukunyamezela kukunyamezela ngokubhekiselele kwimbono eyahlukileyo, indlela yokuphila , ukuziphatha, amasiko. Iimpawu ezihambelana nalo mqondo ziquka ukunyaniseka.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kuwo wonke umntu uzalwa ngexesha lokufunda, ngexesha lokuziphatha okulungileyo, iingcinga zokulungileyo nokubi zibekiwe. Enyanisweni, ebomini obudala ungahlakulela le mgangatho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba utshintsho olunjalo luya kubakho ukwenza imizamo eninzi.
Iintlobo zokunyamezela
- Zendalo . Khawubhekisise ngakumbi abantwana. Zibonakaliswe ngokuthembela kunye nokuvuleka kwihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Bayamkela abazali babo njengabo. Oku kubangelwa ukuba abazange bathuthukise imodeli yokuziphatha, inkqubo yokubumba kwabantu ayizange idlule.
- Ukunyamezela kwezenkolo . Kubandakanya ukubonisa intlonipho kubantu abangenabo inkolo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ingxaki yolu hlobo lokunyamezela yavela kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Ukuziphatha . Zithinteka kangakanani ukuba uzivimbele iimvakalelo zakho, usetyenzise ukukhuselwa kwengqondo ngokumalunga ne-interlocutor engathandekiyo kuwe? Oku kubhekisela kulo hlobo lokunyamezela. Ngamanye amaxesha indoda ibonisa umonde, kodwa ngaphakathi kwayo i-flame yomsindo iyaphazamiseka ngenxa yokuba ukukhuliswa kwakhe akumvumeli ukuba enze njengoko umphefumlo unqwenela.
- Ukunyamezela ngokwesini . Kucinga isimo sengqondo sokungabi namkhethe kubammeli besini esahlukileyo. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ingxaki yokungaxhatshali ngokwesini
ukhetho lomntu wendima yakhe ebantwini, njl. Njalo, oku kubakho ngenxa yexabiso lokungazi kunokungazi kakuhle iimeko ezibangele ukubunjwa kwesini . Ngokomzekelo, okwangoku kukho inani elininzi labantu abazondayo abantu besini besini kunye nenzondo. - Ukunyamezela kweenterethnic . Kukubonakaliswa kokunyamezela kwezinye iinkcubeko, iintlanga. Ngokubanzi, iingxaki zokunxibelelana phakathi kwabantu bezizwe ezahlukeneyo zibonakaliswa kuluntu olutsha. Ngenxa yoko, kunye nesincinci sesizwe, ukuhlaziswa rhoqo kudala ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.