Ukunyamekela kubangelwa ukukhuliswa kakuhle nokuchanekileyo. Kwintsapho enobubele akuvunyelwanga ukuhlambalazana kunye nokuphakamisa amazwi abo. Abantwana bathatha umzekelo kubazali babo, ngoko jonga intetho yakho! Xa besesemncinci, bayayikopisha abantu abadala. Kwaye xa bekhula, bafumana imikhwa kunye nemilinganiselo yamalungu entsapho. Abazali kufuneka bafundise umntwana ngengqiqo yenani elimele lihlonishwe kwingxoxo. Inkcazo yokuqikelela: ukufanelekela ukuba ugcine, kungekhona ukucima ukuhlambalaza, ube mnqabileyo, uhlonipheke, uthobekile kwaye ubekezele - oku kuthetha ukuthetha kakuhle.
Abantu abanempawu eziphawulekayo zobuninzi banabanye abazungezile. Nabo, kulungile kwaye kukhululekile. Abantu abanobuqili bakhangela abanye ngokuziphatha kwabo, ngokukhawuleza bafumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo.
Ukuthetha ngokucokisekileyo
Ukusebenzisana nabantu abahlukeneyo, ubuchule, ubuchule kunye nobutyebi, bunenani elixabisekileyo. Abantu abanjalo baya kuhlonishwa kuluntu, kwaye baya kuphumelela.
Ngexesha lethu, sihlala siqhagamshelana nokungacacanga. Abantu abaninzi abaselula bajwayele oku ukuba bayeka ukuphawula nokunyamekela. Ngelishwa, akukho xesha elaneleyo lokuchazela izimpawu neempawu zokuziphatha. Ngoku kuthethwa ngokucacileyo ngokubonakala komntu ongaphandle. Kwaye ukufundisa okungenasiphako kubomi kunye neengcebiso, indlela yokusebenza, kwamkeleka. Umgangatho wemfundo wenqabile ukubonakaliswa ngokuziphatha okuhle. Kwabo bantu abasondeleyo, abahlobo bavumela ukuba baphosane ngenjongo, becinga ukuba yendalo.
Kodwa akusiyo yonke into elahlekileyo! Sinokutshintsha kakhulu ngokuqala kwethu. Unele oku kufuna kakhulu.
Masibeke uvavanyo
Kule nto sifuna yona:
- ukukwazi ukuxolela;
- ukukwazi ukunyaniseka;
- nomonde ongenammiselo;
- Ukuhlonipha;
- ukuzithiba;
- ukukwazi ukubala ukuya kuma-20.
Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba ngamnye wethu unokungahambi kakuhle. Jonga nje ukuthetha nokuziphatha kwakho. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, ungalahlekelwa yithemba kwaye uhlale unesineke.
Uvavanyo kukuba thina ngokwethu sifunde ukuthetha ngokucokisekileyo kwaye ngokungaqhelekanga sifundise ukuziphatha kunye nokucoca kwabantu esixubene nabo, esisijikelezile.
- Sifunda ukwenza ngobuchule. Asizichazi iimpazamo kwaye asigxeka.
- Umsebenzi wethu kukubonisa umzekelo ochanekileyo ngokuziphatha kwethu. Emva kwakho konke, kuphela xa sihlakulela ekudleni kwethu kunye nobuchule, ngoko siya kuba nelungelo lokugweba ukungacacisi kwabanye.
- Kwimeko apho kunomnqweno wokuveza zonke izinto ezimbi ocinga ngazo, cinga ukuba oku kuyenzela kuphela imeko. Xa sikhubekisa umntu, ufuna ukuzivikela: uyazilungisa, akayi kuvuma iimpazamo zakhe. Emva koko, uyathukuthela, kwaye awuyi kufezekisa nayiphi na into, nje ukubhubhisa ubuhlobo naye. Ubeka ngokuchasene nawe xa uchitha yonke into engeyiyo.
- Khumbula, ubuyela kuwe emva kwexesha elithile. Kodwa inokubuyela kuphela ngaphesheya kwaye inkulu
amplitude. - Kuthekani ukuba umonde usuphelile? Apha, ngoko, ukuzithiba kuya kumncedi kunye nokukwazi ukubala ukuya kuma-20.
- Simelele endaweni yomntu onokungquzulwano, sizama ukuzama ukuyiqonda kwaye siyithethelele. Asazi izizathu zangempela zokuziphatha kwakhe okubi. Inokwenzeka ukuba, unengxaki kwiintsapho. Okanye uyazibonakalisa ngoko, enyanzelisa ingqwalasela, eyanqatshelwe. Mhlawumbi kufuna ukudibanisa, kodwa akwazi ukuzibonakalisa. Ukwenza oku ngendlela elula - ukunyaniseka. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, akayivuyo, kwaye ngaloo ndlela uyakhalaza ngolu hlobo kuluntu ...
Akukaze kukhawuleze ukuzama into engcono. Ukunyamezela nokunyamekela ngumsebenzi obalulekileyo obeka phambi kobuntu ngamaxesha onke.