Umntu onomusa ukhanyisa ngaphakathi, kwaye ukukhanya kuye kwasasaza yonke indawo, ukuvusa emphefumlweni iimvakalelo eziqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ngandlela-thile kwakungekho imfashini ukuba ibe nomusa. Inqamana yeli gama yayingenangqondo kunye nokungabi nanjongo, kuba inhlonipho yanamhlanje, ukuzinikezela, ukungabikho kwemigaqo kunye ne-acumen yezo shishino. Nangona kunjalo, iingcamango ezisisiseko zokubakho nokubi ziye zahlala kwaye ziza kuhlala zingatshintshi, kwaye namhlanje abaninzi abantu bafuna iindlela kwaye bafuna ukwazi indlela yokuba nobubele, kuba xa ukulunga kusindisa ihlabathi.
Indlela yokuba nomusa nokuzola?
Ixesha lemihla yobomi lishiya uphawu lwayo ekuphatheni kwabantu kuluntu. Bathanda i-squirrel kwisondo ngokuphindaphindiweyo beza kwisangqa esitsha, bengasaqapheli apho baqhuba khona kwaye kutheni. Ubomi buhamba ngejubane elivuthayo kwaye iqhuma ngumatshini. Ixesha lokuyeka, jonga ngapha kwaye ucinge ukuba kutheni konke oku kuyimfuneko, akunakuhlala. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu baqala ukuba nefomathi yokuthengiselana, oko kukuthi, "kunika idashsi" okanye inkonzo yenkonzo. Bambalwa abantu bacinga ngecala lo komoya lo mbandela kwaye izibini zenziwe ngenxa yezizathu zokulungelelana kunye nekhawulezi: akukho nanye ixesha lokutshatyalaliswa kwebhanti kunye neminye inkunkuma.
Abaninzi bakhathala ngobomi obunjalo, baqala ukukhathazeka ngenxa yeengxaki, ukungazinzi kunye nezinye izifo ezithintekayo, ukuqaphela ukuba lixesha lokutshintsha into ethile, kodwa indlela yokwenza ngayo nendlela yokuba ngumntu onomusa ngumbuzo ovulekile. Kodwa okwangoku, akukho nto ilula-kuyimfuneko kuphela ukufuna ukuzisa abantu.
Indlela yokuba nomusa noxolo?
Yeka ukumisa ibha ephezulu uze ulwele. Hayi, oku akuthethi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyeka ukuba ngumntu oyedwa, kodwa ekufuneni izinto eziphathekayo abantu bayeke ukunikela ingqalelo kwizinto eziqhelekileyo - i-rustle ye-grass grass, ukuhleka kwezingane okanye ukugcoba kweefama. Yaye nini na ixesha lokugqibela xa unxibe umama okanye uyihlo? Simele siphumelele ukwenza imisebenzi emihle kwaye sijonge abo bafuna uncedo-ugogo nomkhwa wocingo okhuni, intsimbi engenamakhaya, njl. Injongo ebalulekileyo yobomi ingokomoya, kungekhona izinto eziphathekayo, kwaye ukuba uyayiqonda le nto, unokufumana uvuyo olungakumbi, ngoko ke unomusa.
Kufuneka ukuba uzame ukuba nethemba kwaye ubone kwizinto ezilungileyo kuphela. Musa ukucaphukisa malunga nenyaniso yokuba intombazana ye-cashier ibonisa ukutshintsha ixesha elide, kodwa ukumncoma kunye nokwenza uncoma. Abantu balungelelanise ukuba baphendule ngokulungileyo kunye nobubi nobubi, ngoko kuphela emva kokuyeka ukucaphukisa, ukuthukuthela nokumgxeka umntu, unokulindela ukuzalisa ubomi bakho ngovuyo kunye nezihlandlo ezimnandi. Kubalulekile ukuba ungalindeli ukubonga ngenxa yezenzo ezilungileyo ezenziwe. Baya kuhlawula ngokuphindwe kabini kwaye imikhosi ephezulu iya kunyamekela oku. Njengoko kwidrafini malunga nehagi, eyanika abemi basehlathini ingxowa yonke yeapulo, beshiya abantwana bengadli, bangaqapheli ukuba iilwanyana ezinombulelo zangena endlwini yakhe nabani na onako.
Abo banomdla wendlela yokuba nomusa, bafanele banyamezele iimpazamo zabanye, bahloniphe enye imbono, babuye baguqulele ukuxabana okukhulayo kube yintlanzi. Ungafungi kunye nomphathi. Kungcono ukujonga ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye ucinge ukuba ikhula njani iindlebe zeenja ezide okanye impumlo efana nePinocchio. Amandla angagciniyo angabonakaliyo kwimihla iya kutyhulwa kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye ahlanganyele kolunye uhlobo lwezemidlalo, kwaye unokuzixhasa ngokomoya ekuqaleni kokufunda iziqinisekiso. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxolela nabani na owake wakhubeka okanye wabangela intlungu. Oku akulula ukwenza, ngoko kunengqiqo ukubuyela kumvume wakho, uvume kwaye uthathe isidlo. Umthandazo kuThixo unceda kakhulu kwaye unikwe abo baziyo ukubulela.