Umntu ngamnye unendlela yakhe yokuziphatha ekhethekileyo eyahlula kuye kwabanye. Ubunjalo bezinto ezizinzile zibizwa ngokuba ngumlingiswa. I-Psychology iye yahlala ixesha elide kwaye yaqhubeka ifunda le ngqungquthela. Ngaphantsi kwenzalo yakhe impawu zobuntu bomntu, ukwakheka kwayo kunye nesakhiwo, iindlela zokufumanisa iimpawu ezahlukileyo kunye nokunye okuninzi. Makhe siqwalasele ezinye ze mibuzo ngokubanzi.
Ukuqulunqwa komlingiswa
Ngamanye amaxesha unokuva intetho echaza uhlobo lomntu "Ndizalelwe kakhulu kwaye andinakuze ngenye indlela". Mhlawumbi yinyani, kodwa ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ngayo ingqondo. Inyaniso kukuba umlingani awunikwe yona xa sizalwa, luyakhelwe phantsi kwefuthe leemeko ezahlukeneyo. Ukuzinza kobuqalo kuqala kwixesha lokufunda, kwaye ukufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-15 umntu unesimo sengqondo kwabanye. Intando kwisimo somlingiswa iqala ukulungiswa ebusheni, kwaye iziseko zokuziphatha zenziwa nakubuselula. Xa uneminyaka eyi-17, ukuzinza kwimibono kufunyenwe, iimpawu eza kuba zibalulekileyo kulo lonke ubomi ziyahlanganiswa. Kwiengqondo, kukholelwa ukuba emva kweminyaka engama-30 yenguqu yomntu womntu kunzima kakhulu ukwenza, ukukholelwa ukuba ngeli xesha ububomi buza kunye neengcamango ezivele zenziwe ngokupheleleyo.
Ukwakhiwa kobuntu kwingqondo
Iinkalo eziphambili zobuntu zinxulumene ngokucacileyo phakathi kwabo, zenza isakhiwo somlingiswa. Ulwazi lweli qhinga livumela, ukuba lufumene umgangatho omnye kumntu, ukuba uthathe ubukho babantu abahamba naye, kunye nokungabikho kwamaqela angenakuphikisana nenkalo yomntu obonakalisiweyo.
Phakathi kweempawu zobuntu, ezisekondari kunye neseprayimari, ukuthetha, ukuchaneka, izinto ezikhuthazayo kunye noqhagamshelwano ziyabonakala. Ukuma ngaphandle ngamaqela eempawu zomlinganiso-eziqhelekileyo kunye ezingavamile, kunye nezixhobo ezigxininisiweyo ezihlala kwisithuba phakathi kwezi zibonda ezimbini.
Iinkalo eziphambili ziquka ezo zibonakaliswe kumgca ngaphaya kwezinye, kwaye ezisekondari zizo zavela kamva, kwaye zenziwa ngokusekelwe kwangoko. Iziqhelo ezisisiseko (eziprayimari) ngokuqhelekileyo azikwazi ukutshintsha, ukuhlala nomntu ngobomi. Okwesibini - kungekhona ngokuzinzileyo, ezenza utshintsho phantsi kweempembelelo zemicimbi eyahlukeneyo.
Iimpawu ezikhuthazayo zibonisa umsebenzi wokuziphatha kunye nolwalathiso lwayo. Oku kubandakanya iimfuno kunye nezizathu zomntu, ngokubanzi, konke okumenza athathe nantoni na. Iinkalo ze-Instrumental ziquka abo banceda ukufezekisa iinjongo kwiimeko ezithile. Oko kukuthi, ezi zixhobo zisebenza njengeendlela zokufumana okufunwayo. Emva kokuba senze le miba kumntu, sinokuchazela indlela aziphatha ngayo, kunye nokuqikelela ukuba izenzo ezenzeka emva koko.
Ngenkcazo yeempawu eziqhelekileyo, yonke into ilula kakhulu, ezi ziyimpawu eziqhelekileyo kubantu abangenasifo sengqondo