Usuku ngalunye olwenza ezinye izenzo kunye nokwenza izigqibo, senza kancane kancane ubomi bethu. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sithwaxwa ngeenkcukacha esizidla ngokulibala ukuba yonke into esijikelezeyo yiphumo lokukhetha kunye nomsebenzi wethu. Ngoko, zonke izinto ezikujikelezayo, zikholisa okanye ayikho, ungatshintsha kwakhona. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha ubomi? Ewe, ewe!
Ungatshintsha njani ubomi bakho ngokukhawuleza?
Ukuba uqonda ukuba awukho kwindawo yakho, ukuba awukwaneliswa yinto eninzi ebona kuwe, kukuphawu lokuba ixesha lize litshintshe. Ukuba ufuna ukuguqula into emangalisayo, qwa lasela ukuba zeziphi utshintsho kufuneka zibe:
- Ziziphi iindawo zokuphila ezifanele zitshintshe?
- Yintoni ekufuneka iquke?
- Ingaba imeko okanye uyayibona njani?
- Yintoni oyenzile ukutshintsha yonke into?
- Yintoni onokuyenza?
Okubaluleke kakhulu - ungesabi utshintsho. Kuhlala kuphazamisekile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuphela ngale ndlela kunokukhokelela ekubeni ube nolonwabo . Ukuphelisa into engakukholisayo, kwaye wonge ebomini bakho oko kuya kukunika ulonwabo, nokuba uyadlulela kwesinye isixeko, ukuyeka ubudlelwane obunzima okanye ukushintsha imisebenzi.
Ungatshintsha njani isimo sengqondo ebomini?
Nangona kunjalo, kuzo zonke iinguqu ezikhawulezayo azifunwa rhoqo. Ngamanye amaxesha unokutshintsha ubomi bakho ngokutshintsha iingcamango zakho kunye nembono .
Umntu akayikukhumbula imeko ngokwayo, kodwa iimvakalelo zakhe. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba ube neqela elikhulu kwindawo ephosakeleyo, uya kukhumbula kuphela into owadabukileyo ngayo. Abantu abaninzi, ngaphandle kokuziqonda ngokwabo, baphatha ukuhlala kweli xesha elide kakhulu - kwiimeko ezingonwabi, ezingonwabanga.
Ukuba usetyenzisiwe kwimbono ebalulekileyo ebomini, phawula ukuba kakubi, kungekhona okulungileyo, kuya kuba nzima kuwe, kuba kuya kufuneka utshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo. Qala ngala ma nyathelo alula:
- Nantoni na eyenzekayo, fumana kwimeko emithathu emacaleni amahle.
- Ukugwema ukugxeka wena nabanye, vumelani yonke into njengenyaniso.
- Ukulandelela iingcamango zakho ezingalunganga uze uzibeke endaweni ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, endaweni yokuba "kwakhona kwakhona le mvula yobuqili" qalisa ukucinga "o, imvula, kuya kuba nama-mushroom amaninzi kulo nyaka."
Into ephambili ngumnqweno wakho. Ukuba uzinyamekela ngokucacileyo, ubona ukuba ubomi bakho buzele ixesha elihle. Kufuneka ukuba baxilise ngamabomu, kwaye kungekudala uzakufumana ukuba ubomi buhle kwaye buyamangalisa.