I-Voyeurism - yonke into ofuna ukuyifumana ngesifo

Ukukhupha, ukucima - la magama aseRussia anemibala embi. Ezi ntshukumo aziwa kwicandelo lokwaphulwa ngokungekho sikweni, ukuba aluhambisani neengongelo ezibhekiselele kwi-observer. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu ofuna ukuba yinto yokubheka ngasese, ngokukodwa ukuba ubomi obusondeleyo.

Yintoni iVoyeurism?

Ukuphazamiseka, kodwa ukuziphatha okungenangqiqo kunalo igama elibi kakhulu, livela kwisiFrentshi ulwimi - voyeurism (see-bonani). Igama lesiNgesi kule ngxaki i-vizionism. Ukuphambuka kwezesondo ukusuka kumgangatho oqhelekileyo kuhambelana nokufumana ukonwaba kunye nokwaneliseka ekuhloleni abantu abathabatha imvula, ukulala ngesondo, ukuhlala kwindlu yangasese, njl.

Ufihliweyo ukukhangela imizimba ehambahambayo kubalulekile kubantwana. Ukufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-11 kuthathwa njengento yendalo yolwazi kwaye yenza imisebenzi yokufunda ihlabathi elizungezile nolwazi. Ukuba, ngaphezu kweminyaka, uphando olungenangqondo luba luvuyo ngokubheka izenzo zangaphakathi zabantu, ngoko ngumbuzo wengqondo yengqondo. Ukubonakaliswa okugqithiseleyo kwesi sifo kukufaka endaweni epheleleyo yesenzo somntu ngokwesini ngokuhlola ubuncinane bomntu obusondelene naye.

I-Voyeurism - izizathu zesifo

Ukuhlola i-voyeurism iyajika ibe yinto ephosakeleyo. Ngokweengcali, ezininzi zezona zinto ezibangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo zihlala ngexesha lobuntwana lobomi bomntu. I-voyeurism ayikho into. Imithombo yalo:

• uxinzelelo lwengqondo olufunyenwe ngumntwana ngokulwa ngokukhawuleza kunye nomama kwiminyaka emibini yokuqala yobomi;
• uxinzelelo oluvela kwi-genitalia engabonakaliyo yabantu abadala okanye imidlalo yokulala ngokwesondo;
• Ukugxininiswa kwengqalelo yomntwana kwimbonakalo yembonakalo kunye neempembelelo zento akubonayo ekuqaleni okanye ukuqhubeka kwezinye iinkqubo;
• Ukungabikho kwezemfundo zesondo, kuboniswe ngokugqithiseleyo kabini - ukuthintela ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuqhelana ngokupheleleyo.

I-Voyeurism yabasetyhini

Abanye abaphandi emkhakheni weengqondo kunye ne-psychotherapy banquma ukutyekela iifilimu zoononografi, ukubonisa imibala, "amaphephancwadi kubantu abadala", njenge-voyeurism efihliweyo. Nangona kunjalo, ipharamitha ephambili yale sifo iqhubeka, i-voyeurism ibandakanya ukufumana ukuzonwabisa ngokufihlakeleyo kwiinkqubo ezintle. Phakathi kwabasetyhini, i-voyeurs inqabile kakhulu.

1. Kubasetyhini, iinkqubo zokucinga zenzeka kwi-lobes yangaphambili yeengqondo, ezingabandakanyekanga kwiingcamango, kodwa ngenxa yeemvakalelo, ngoko azinakunyamekele ukuseka ubudlelwane obunobangela "Ndabona - ndiyayithanda."
2. Abasetyhini banokuhlalutya ngakumbi abahlalutyi abaphicothiweyo kunokuba babonwa, bathambekele "bathande ngeendlebe zabo, kungekhona ngamehlo abo."
3. Ngethuba lokufumana ulonwabo, ukuqonda kunye nokucinga okunengqiqo kubasetyhini bakhawuleza, kwaye xa i-orgasm igqityiwe.

Male Voururism

Iingcali zityhile ukuba ubuninzi bezondo zimeko zesini esinobuqilima, apho kugxininiswa kwabasetyhini kwaye banandipha ukubona imizimba yabo yabomvu inemvelo. Amadoda "athande amehlo" kwaye xa ekhetha akhokelwa yiyo abonayo. Zizocwangciswa ngokwezityalo zezenzo (ixesha eliphakathi kwesigaba sokuqala nesibini lincinci):

1. Ndabona ibhinqa elize.
2. Kwakukho ukuvuswa kwesondo.
3. Ndonwabile kuyo.

Ukulwa neVoyeurism

Ekuqalekeni, i-voyeurism isenzo esingasimsulwa, abathandi abathandayo. Ukusuka kwinqanaba lombono "lithatha" ubuninzi kwi-offense yezolawulo. Uhluke kakhulu kumbono wokuziphatha: okuphawulayo kusetyenziswa njengezinto zesini, kwaye ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, "ixhoba" alikrokreli ukuba izenzo zakhe ziqwalaselwa.

Umntu ojongayo, esi sifo sisongela iingxaki ezinkulu:

• ukungakwazi ukuqhuba ubomi obuqhelekileyo ngokwesondo;
• ukuziva uziva unetyala kwaye uloyiko lokufumanisa;
• isidingo sokusondeza imfuyo yokutya okutsha kunye nemifanekiso;
• kwimeko yengqondo.

Kukho iindlela zokuphatha i-voyeurism:

1. Ukufezekiswa kokungazi kakuhle yi-psychoanalysis.
2. I-Psychotherapy, ihlangene kwiimeko ezinzima ngamayeza.
3. Ulwaphulo lokuziphatha - ukulungiswa kokuziphatha nokucinga.

Iifilimu malunga neVoyeurism

I-Cinema bubungqina obubonisa ubungqina. Inkqubo ye-voyeurism ihlala ikhona kubacuphi, apho ulwaphulo-mthetho lubonakalisiwe, ngokubonga kumbonisi-voyeur kunye neengununu okanye i-telescope evela kwindlu ephikisanayo. Iimvumi malunga nama-voyeurists, okanye okuquka i-voyeuristic storylines, ngokuqhelekileyo zifakwe kwi-kind of drama okanye umdlalo.

1. "Ingqiqo" Ukuthobela " (idrama, 2012, eyalelwe nguCraig Zobel). I-protagonist, ebonakala njengepolisa, ilinda ukukhangela abantu.
2. "Ifilimu emfutshane ngothando" (idrama, ngo-1988, eyalelwe nguKrzysztof Kieslowski). Umfana, uhlolisisa ibhinqa kunye nabathandekayo bakhe, uyathandana kwaye ekugqibeleni uvula imivilini yakhe.