Inyaniso yokuba ungumfazi akuthethi ukuba unokuthi ukhonjiswe isichazi "isetyhini". Ngamanye amaxesha azizi ngokwabo kwaye awanakucinga malunga nokuba yiyiphi ibhinqa, yiziphi iimpawu zommeli ofanelekileyo omele abe nayo, ngokokuba uthathwa njengowesifazana.
Le nzululwazi ayinzima, ngaphezu koko, nokuba yinto enomdla, kwaye indlela yokuba ngumfazi wesibini esiya kuthetha ngayo kweli nqaku.
Sincoma ukuba ulandele i-algorithm yethu, kwaye uyongeze kwaye ulungelelanise ukuze ihlangabezane neemfuno zakho kunye nokulindela.
Indlela yokuba yintombazana yentombi (umfazi)?
- Yakha idayari apho uya kufuneka uyibhale: "Ndifuna ukuba ngumfazi ngenxa ..." kwaye ubonise izizathu kunye nezibonelelo ozakufumana emva kokusebenza kumfanekiso wakho nokuziphatha.
- Emva koko xubusha nawe malunga nendima zentlalo odlala ngayo ebomini. Kwaye zibeka phambili. Ukuba ekuqaleni unendima yomsebenzi wesetyhini, njengento eyahlukileyo yomphathi wesifazana, kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuba ube ngowesifazana, ekubeni unendima enjalo, indima yendoda enomsebenzi. Ukuba iindibano zentlalo njengomfazi okanye umama zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngoko kuya kuba lula kuwe, kuba kulezi zikhundla uyingqayizivele yowesifazana, kwaye umsebenzi wakho ukugxininisa oku kwaye uqinise iimpawu zesetyhini.
- Ukufeza le njongo, kufuneka ukhethe umzekelo. Cinga ngoba ngubani onokuba ngumzekelo wakho wobuntombi kuwe, unokuba ngabahlobo bokwenene, iinkwenkwezi ze-movie okanye abazonwabisa, kunye nenani labo lingagqibekanga, unokukhetha enye ibhinqa, okanye mhlawumbi ishumi - akunandaba. Hlaziya iimpawu zabo zangaphandle nezo zangaphakathi kwaye wenze izigqibo, kutheni, ngombono wakho, ngumgangatho wobunqunu. Bhala phantsi zonke ezi mpawu kwidayari yakho.
- Ukuziphatha ngoku ukuthelekisa iimpawu zabo kunye nalawo abhalwe kwidayari yakho. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungananto ethile, bhala kwiphepha elilodwa, kunye nento nganye, qaphela oko kufuneka ukwenze ukuphucula lo mgangatho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ucinga ukuba intombazana efanelekileyo kufuneka ibe nokupheleliswa okugqibeleleyo kumsebenzi wokunxibelelana ngomlomo nangengomlomo, kwaye uhlala uxubusha kwingxoxo, udidekile kwaye udideke, isisombululo esisodwa kwisingxaki sakho siya kuba luqeqesho olukhethekileyo. Baya kukufundisa nje kuphela amahle kwaye baqondakala, kodwa baya kukwazisa ngamagqabha engekho amazwi, athetha ngamanye amaxesha ngaphezu kwamagama.
- Lithobele indoda yakho. Hayi, asikholelwa ukuba umele ulandele yonke imiyalelo yakhe ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwaye ukhohlwe ukuba ilizwi lakho lithetha into. Vumela uhlale ubuthathaka kwaye umntu makakukhathalele. Masinike umzekelo olula. Ukuba unayo i-crane endlwini yakho, ungayibambeli i-wrench, kwaye ungagxumi ukukhangela i-plumbing (ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, ityala alixakekanga), kodwa xelela intanda yakho. Kwaye nokuba uthe wenza isigqibo sokuba uya kuzilungisa ngokwakhe, okanye enze iiplumbing. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba usebenza kwisimo sokuqala, ngokokuqala, uya kubuthakathaka kunokwintanda yakho. Uya kucinga into efana nale: "Kutheni ndifuna yena nantoni na ukuba wenza kakuhle ngaphandle kwam?".
Kwaye okwesibini, uthatha umsebenzi womntu, ongayi kukukwenza ube ngowesifazana. - Kwaye ekugqibeleni, okugqibela, uphumle ngaphezulu. Ubuthongo obunempilo luyibophelelo nje kuphela ngobuhle be-external, kodwa kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo esibalulekileyo kumfazi oyinyaniso. Zama ukulala ubuncinane kwiiyure eziyi-8 ngosuku, kwaye ungalokothi uhlalise ukulala kwiimfuno zasekhaya (njengokucoca indlu, ukulungiselela isidlo sesithathu semfundo, njl.
Siyathemba kakhulu ukuba iingcebiso zethu malunga nokuba ngumfazi oza kunceda ukuba ukholelwe kuwe kwaye utshintshe ubomi bakho bube ngcono.