Iincwadi kwi-psychology yobudlelwane

Ukuba ucinga ngokucophelela, unokufika kwisigqibo sokuba ngomhlaba wonke, ubomi bethu bubuhlobo. Ubudlelwane bomsebenzi, ishishini, uthando, isondo, ukuzonwabisa, abahlobo, intsapho, njl. Yiloo ndlela esiphila ngayo kwaye siyabonisana, kwaye emva koko konke, ukuphucula izakhono zethu ekwakheni ubudlelwane, kuya kubakho ukuphucula kakhulu umgangatho wobomi.

Ehlabathini, izigidi zeencwadi kwi-psychology yobudlelwane zibhaliswe kwaye zipapashwe. Kodwa nokuba zibi kangangokuthi azenzi ngokoqobo, okanye asikwazi ukuguqulela ukuba zibhaliswe ngabalobi abanobulumko. Kodwa ke, ekubeni nethemba, siya kukholelwa ukuba ezinye iincwadi zibhalwa ngokungalunganga, ngendlela elandelayo ukuba iingcebiso ezingentla zifuni ukulandela ...

Siza kuzama ukukudala uhlobo oluthile lokuthengisa uluhlu, iincwadi ezifanelekileyo kwi-psychology yobudlelwane. Kodwa ukuba le ncwadi ifikelele kwiphepha lethu eliphezulu, uya kunyanzelwa ukuba uhambelane noko kubhaliweyo kubo.

I-Freud iyi-classical classic, kwaye ingenasiphelo ...

Masiqale ngeencwadi eziyaziwayo kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, kwaye asikwazi ukuqala nenkosi kule ndawo. Incwadi kaFreud ethi Psychology of Sexualality ngexesha elinye yavusa isithukuthezi e-Puritan Yurophu, kwaye nanamhlanje, xa utshela umntu (ongazange afunde iFranud nonke) ukuba uyayithanda umsebenzi wale psychoanalyst, i-grin ye-interlocutor ikulindele .

Ewe, uFrud, ngokuqinisekileyo, wadala udumo lwakhe. Kodwa ngokwenene abaninzi bavule "I" yabo efihliweyo ngenxa yemisebenzi yakhe. Kule ncwadi, okwenene, i-psychology yobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, ubunzima bobulili, kunye nokuphambukiswa okuhlukeneyo, ukuguquka, iintlobo zobuntombi, i-narcissism, njl.

Ukwakha ubudlelwane nawe ...

Ukususela kwincwadi yanamhlanje kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, kubalulekile ukunika incwadana yale ncwadana yokudala entsha "I" ebhaliweyo ngu- Tina Siling wase-American psychologist "Yenza wena. Iingcebiso kulabo abafuna ukushiya uphawu lwabo " Le ncwadi iya kuba luncedo ekuqalekeni kosomashishini, abo bafuna ukufumana indlela yokuvelisa izimvo. Ngamafutshane, umbhali ubonakalisa intsingiselo entsha yeengxaki: nayiphi na ilingo ilithuba elitsha, unceda ukubonakalisa amandla abo okudala .

Kwiimeko zonke ...

Olunye udumo, sinokuthi nenkolo, incwadi kwi-psychology yobudlelwane - "Iimidlalo zidlalwa ngabantu. Abantu abadlala imidlalo . " Enyanisweni, ezi ziincwadi ezimbini, kodwa zihlala zipapashwa kwikiti. Umbhali u- Eric Berne , umsunguli wohlalutyo lwentengiso. UBerne wabelane ngobuntu bethu kwizinto ezintathu: "Abadala" (ukulinganisa, ukuphendula ngendlela engqiqweni), "Umzali" (xa sikhombisa ukuziphatha kwabazali) kunye ne "Child" (iimvakalelo, imihlali, iimpembelelo zokudala). Kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi, siquka enye yalezi zintathu "Ndinguye", kunye neBern kwincwadi yakhe ichaza imeko kunye neemeko zobomi, ukulungisa izi meko. Ngenxa yoko, asifumani nje incwadi kwizengqondo, kodwa kunye nesibonelelo sedesktop nganye yesibini.

Sonke sibafokazi ...

J. Gray waba ngumlobi owaziwayo emhlabeni ngenxa yakhe kwincwadi ethi "Amadoda avela eMars, Abafazi baseVenus" . Le ncwadi sele isixhobo sezigidi zezibini ngexesha lokugcina nokuphucula ubudlelwane. Sifuna ukongeza kwoluhlu lwethu incwadi ngeGrey eyenzelwe abantu abangatshatanga, ngokusemthethweni, bafuna umphefumlo wabo. Le ncwadi inomdla kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, eyaphinda isekelwe kwinto yokuba amadoda nabasetyhini bacinga baze benze ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Igama le-bestseller ngu "Mars kunye neVenus ngomhla". Incwadi iya kunceda, njengesihlunu ukufumanisa isibini sabo, kunye nabantu bebudlelwane bafumana umtshato onamandla kwaye uphumelele. Umlobi ngokwakhe uqinisekile ukuba phantse zonke iingxaki ehlabathini ngenxa yokuba abantu abaqondi ukubahluko phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini.