Xa abazali bexesha elizayo befunda malunga "neendaba ezimbini ezivuyo", banemibuzo eyongezelelweyo kunye neengxaki. Enye into efana nokuthengwa kwesibhedlele sewele elizalwayo. Masihlalutye esi sihloko kwaye sizame ukuqonda ukuba yiphi ikotini yokukhetha, yintoni eya kuba yinto elula kakhulu kuwe nakusana?
Iibhedi zeTwin
Kwiivenkile kaninzi usenokubona xa kuthengiswa izibhedlele ezikhethekileyo ngamawele, kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukuzithengela oku. Emva kwakho konke, baya kubakho ngokukhululeka kweenyanga ezine. Kwaye okokuqala ungasebenzisa ibhedi enye kubini: okanye ubeke iifowuni ngaphaya, okanye nge-knave. Kamva, xa baqala ukujikeleza, ngokuqinisekileyo, olu khetho aluyi kusebenza. Kodwa ke ungathenga ityhulo ephindwe kabini.
Iinkonzo zebhedi enye
- Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukuma phakathi kwamabhedi, unina uya kuba nako ukuhlalisa abancinci, ukuba bahlawula.
- Ukuba abantwana baya kuphazamisa ukulala komnye, ke le mibhedi ingafakwa kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo kwigumbi, okanye ngokubanzi kumagumbi ahlukeneyo.
- Kwaye ngoku i-psychological addition: umntwana oza kuzalwa uya kukwazi apho ikhefu lakhe liza kulusebenzisa khona ukuzimela.
Umgca wokulala
Abanye abazali bayigqiba loo nto ngendawo yokulala ngokwabo, bafumana iibhegi ezithintekayo. Kodwa iipolisi ezininzi ezinamava ezinamava zibonisa ukuba le ngqungquthela yesohlwayo ingaphezulu kwee-pluses.
1. Kwibala lemoto umntwana akanalo isikhala esaneleyo, kuba kwiimeko ezininzi zincinci kuneemibhede eziqhelekileyo.
2. Phantse yonke imodeli ayilungiswanga phantsi, esondele kumgangatho. Kwaye ubuncinane ubuncinane amabini amacandelo:
- Umama akakulungele ukufumana nokubeka abantwana;
- Ebusika, ukusondela kumgangatho uyothuswa, kuba kunokutshisa kakhulu kwaye kufudumele.
3. I-Manezhnaya ukwahlukanisa kulula ngokulula, kwaye abantwana baya kukwazi ukususa ngokukhawuleza, emva koko baya kuba kunye.
4. Kwakhona, ingqondo yengqondo: abantwana kufuneka bazi apho bazokudlala nalapho balala khona. Ukuba umntwana udlala kwindawo enye apho umama alala naye, ngoko kungekudala uza kudideka. Akukho imfuneko yokunciphisa abantwaba bakho isithethe sokulungiselela umbhede.
Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuthetha amagama ambalwa ekukhuseleni ii-annas: zikulungele ukuvakatyelela iindwendwe, njengoko zifakwe kwaye zithatha indawo encinane kakhulu.
Siyathemba ukuba inqaku lethu likuncede ukukhusela kwikamva elikufutshane ikhefu ekukhetheni isikhalazo , oko kuya kufuneka kulungiswe ngokuthengisela ifenitshala.