Ukubeka iinjongo ezifanelekileyo kukuthatha inyathelo ebalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni. Ukuze ungabi ngumgibeli olula ebomini, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuqonda into ofuna ukuyifumana ebomini, kwaye yintoni eyakwenza ube ngumntu onwabileyo.
Ukufezekisa ukulungiswa kweenjongo, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Enye yezindlela ezithandwayo zibonisa ikhadi elifunayo. Isitshixo salo kukujonga iinjongo zakho kwiphepha. Oku kunceda ukucinga kakuhle malunga nezicwangciso zakho kunye neenjongo kwaye ubasondeza kuwe ngokwengqondo nangokomoya. Kwintliziyo yekhadi lomnqweno ngumthetho wengqondo kunye nemithetho ye-feng shui .
Indlela yokwenza ikhadi elifunayo ngokuchanekileyo?
Ukwenza ikhadi elinqwenela kungekhona nje ikholaji, kodwa ithuluzi lokusebenza, xa uyihlanganisa, kufuneka ulandele imithetho ethile:
- ukuba ngaba ikhadi ngalinye liyakhiwa, kuyimfuneko yokwenza ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokuncediswa nantoni na inxaxheba;
- Kubalulekile ukwenza imephu yeminqweno ngezandla zakho, kwaye ungadingi kwi-intanethi. Ngale ndlela, unokwenza amandla amakhulu okudala;
- Ngexesha lokudweba imephu, akukho nto ifanele iphazamise;
- unako ukuvula umculo ocolileyo, omnandi;
- Kungcono ukwenza imephu yeminqweno kwenyanga ekhulayo okanye kwiintsuku ezilungileyo. Ezi ntsuku ziqwalaselwa kwiintsuku eziyi-15 ukususela kumhla wokuzalwa kunye nexesha ukusuka kuNyaka omtsha ukuya kuNyaka omtsha waseTshayina. Ukongeza, zonke ii-5, 8, 10 ne-11 zenyanga zibhekwa njengento efanelekileyo;
- Ngaphambi kokuba udwebe ikhadi lesifiso, kufuneka unqume iinjongo zakho. Okokuqala, kufuneka kubhalwe phantsi kwiphepha lephepha. Iinjongo kufuneka zifakwe ngendlela efanelekileyo. Umzekelo, kufuneka ubhale "Ndifuna ukuthwala uxanduva", ngokuphindaphindiweyo "Ndifuna ukuyeka ukungaxanduva";
- Kufuneka ubhale iinjongo ezivela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakho - oku kuya kunceda ukuzisa umyalelo kunye nokuvisisana nobomi;
- ikhadi lingenziwa unyaka, kwaye iiprojekthi zexesha elifutshane zenziwa;
- Ikhadi kufuneka yenziwe ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye nomoya ovuya;
- Ukudweba ikhadi lesifiso, unokusebenzisa imifanekiso kumaphephancwadi ahlukahlukeneyo kunye ncwadana. Ukongeza, unokufumana imifanekiso kwi-Intanethi uze uyiprinte kumshicileli wombala;
- phantsi komgomo ngamnye, kufuneka ufumane umfanekiso ofanelekileyo kwaye ubhale umgomo ohambelanayo kwicala eliphambeneyo;
- phakathi kwekhadi elinqwenelayo, kufuneka ubeke umfanekiso wakho ngokukhanya;
- malunga nomfanekiso omele ubeke imifanekiso ebonwa ngumbono. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ngqondweni ukuba ikhadi enqwenelayo yenziwe ngamacandelo. Icandelo ngalinye lenkalo lijongene nenxalenye ethile yobomi.
Indlela yokusebenza kunye nekhadi elinqwenelayo?
Ikhadi elinqwenelayo elinqwenelayo lixhobo esiza kunceda ukuzisa imicimbi ekhanga kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ikhadi kufuneka ligcinwe emehlweni. Ngamanye amaxesha ufanele ubeke ingqalelo kuyo, cingisisa yonke imifanekiso, uzive kangakanani uzama ukufezekisa injongo yakho.
Ekubeni ikhadi elinqwenelayo liyimbono yomuntu, akufanele liboniswe esidlangalaleni. Ingabonwa ngamalungu entsapho yakho, kodwa akudingeki ukuba uyibonise endlwini yakho.
Ukuqinisekiswa kweKhadi leNqwenela
Ikhadi ngalinye elinqwenelekayo kufuneka lihambisane nenye okanye iziqinisekiso ezininzi. Baya kunceda ngokufutshane ukwenza into ofuna ukuyifumana. Ukuqinisekiswa kungathathwa ngumntu, kodwa unokwenza kwakho.
Imizekelo yeziqinisekiso zekhadi elinqwenelayo:
- Ndiyayithanda le hlabathi;
- Ndiyamthanda;
- Ndivuyiswa ngobomi;
- kum umphefumlo wam uxolo nokuvisisana;
- yonke into ebomini bam ikulungele;
- Ulonwabo luhleli kunye nam;
- yam engeniso iyanda imihla ngemihla;
- Ndazalelwa ngenxa yolonwabo;
- Ndiyayithanda umsebenzi wam;
- Ndiyayixabisa imali kwaye ndifuna ukuyifumana ngokwaneleyo;
- Ndingummori wemali;
- Ndingumntu oshishino olungileyo.
Ndiyabulela kwikhadi leeminqweno onokuyifumana ebomini beendawo eziphakamileyo kwaye ufumane uvuyo olungakumbi ebomini.