Wonke umzali ufuna umntwana wakhe abe yinto efanelekileyo kuyo yonke into. Ngaphambili, ndafunda ukuhamba ndibambe i-spoon, ukususela ebuntwaneni bendifunda kwimisebenzi yesiqhelo kwaye ndazi iilwimi ezininzi, njl njl. Nangona kunjalo, kwinkqubo yemfundo, iimpazamo zamabango omzali zihlala zikhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Ukuxilongwa kwe-neurosis yenye yezinto eziqhelekileyo eziqhelekileyo. Ziziphi iimpawu zakhe kunye nokuba ungalimazi njani ingqondo yomntwana ekukhuliseni kwakhe?
Iimpawu zeengxaki ezingabantwana
Ukuchonga ukuba unesizathu sokukhathazeka, kufuneka ukwazi iimpawu zesifo. Iimpawu ze-neurosis kubantwana zihlala zichongwa ngamanqaku alandelayo:
- ukuxhalaba, ukuthinteka, ukudabuka;
- ukuphendula kwizandi ezikhanyayo nezandi;
- ukukhathala ngokukhawuleza kunye nokulala okubi;
- ukunyaniseka kunye neemeko ezimbi;
- ukusabela ngesiphepho kweso siganeko esincinci;
- utshintsho kwisicwangciso sobugcisa: ukugaya, ukunyanzeliswa, ukuphambuka, njl njl.
Sisiphi isizathu sokuba i-neurosis kubantwana ibonisa iimpawu ezifanayo? Ngokutsho kweengcali, uninzi lwabantwana abanentsholongwane bafumana ukuxilongwa ngenxa yabo kubazali babo. Impazamo yabo enkulu ngumnqweno wokwenza iindlela ezingcono, ezenza ngokuthe ngqo. Iintlobo eziqhelekileyo zokukhulisa ezilimaza ingqondo yengqondo yile:
- "Ungazenzeli isithixo." Abantwana abaninzi bakhula phakathi kweengongoma. Inkohlakalo enjalo iyakhupha zonke izinto, ivumela ukuba uphule yonke imida yento evumelekileyo, udumise nabanye abantwana, ubeke isithunzi sabo, njl njl. Izenzo ezinjalo zenza umntwana ahlaziyeke, ngamanye amaxesha ekhokelela ekupheni kwengqondo.
- Hyperopeka. Ukuqwalasela ngokugqithiseleyo umntwana kunye nomnqweno wokwenza umntwana abe yingqiqo kubangelwa ukuba ngenxa yokugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo umzungezile umntwana uba ngu-hypochondriac. Ngenxa yokuba endaweni yomntwana wonke umntu wenza abazali bakhe, uyavalela kwaye uyaxhomekeka, okukhokelela ekukhathazeni nasekudakaleni.
- Hypoopeca. Ukuba akukho mntu usebenza emntwaneni kwaye yena ungokoyinxalenye yakhe inkosi, uya kukhula enobudlova kwaye aphuthume.
- Kukho iindidi ezidibeneyo zemfundo , apho umntwana angahlaziswa khona, angabanjwanga ingqalelo, ahlaselwe okanye ahlaseke. Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba i-neurosis yaleyo ntsana ingapheliyo.
I-neurosis kubantwana - unyango
Ukulungiswa kweengxaki zengqondo kubantwana yinkqubo ekufuneka iphathwe kwiingcali. Oku kubandakanya uncedo lwengqondo okanye lwengqondo, kunye neyeza lokunyanga.
Ngexesha elifanayo, abazali ngokwabo bafanele bacinge ngeendlela zabo zokukhulisa umntwana. Iprophylaxis ye-neuroses kubantwana kufuneka ixhomekeke ekuphatheni kwabantu abadala. Ukuba kukho nayiphi na imiqondiso yolu bhubhane, kuyafaneleka ukuthenga i-aquarium kunye neentlanzi, ezonkisayo ukunyusa umntwana, uhambe naye emfuleni okanye echibini, ujoyine isiko kunye nokuquka umculo ozolileyo.