"I-Baby Schauer" inomsebenzi othile omele ukuba uthathe ingqalelo ngexesha lombutho walo mcimbi. Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela indlela yokubamba iqela lomntwana we-shawer, kwaye siza kunikezela ngeengcamango ezininzi zokuyila nokuziphatha kweli holide.
Ingundoqo yeholide "yentshontsho"
"I-Baby shower", okanye i-"shower shower", iqela elungiselelwe ngabahlobo abasondeleyo kumfazi oza kuba ngumama. Umcimbi kufuneka ugcinwe ngaphandle kweendonga zendlu yomama ozayo, umzekelo, kwindlu kunye nomhlobo wakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo, umgca wembhiyozo awukwazi ukuxelelwa de kube ngowokugqibela, apho kanye kunye nawaphi na umcimbi wamenywa ngawo-oku kufuneka kube ngumangaliso ongalindelekanga.
Phakathi kwabathathi-nxaxheba beholide kufuneka ukuba ngaba ngabafazi besele bebazi uvuyo lomama, kunye nabantwana abangenabantwana bomama ozayo. Esi siganeko simele sibe nomusa kwaye sijabule, kuba sibanjwe kwintsibano yesiganeko esinokutshintsha ubomi bomgwenxa wokubhiyozela.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba amantombazana kunye nabasetyhini abaxhatshazwayo, imincintiswano eyahlukeneyo kunye namahlaya ahlelwe ukuba "umtshatsheli womntwana", kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umbonisi wobugcisa umenywa ukuba aqhube. Nangona kunjalo, indima yakhe inokuthatha omnye wabahlobo bakhe, ukuba ulungile ukuzonwabisa nabaphulaphuli. Ekugqibeleni, isithsaba somcimbi kufuneka kube ukuhanjiswa kwezipho eziya kukukholisa umama ozayo kwaye kuya kuba luncedo kuye ngelixa unakekela umntwana.
Indlela yokuhlobisa umntwana?
Ukudala indawo yokuzonwabisa kwimicimbi yesiganeko, kufuneka ihlotshwe ngokufanelekileyo. Njengomthetho, ngenxa yeenjongo zamabhaloni amaninzi asebenziselwa, axhonywe ngegumbi okanye akhululwe phantsi kwelayili. Kwakhona, iidodoli ezincinci kunye ezinkulu, amathoyizi athambileyo kunye nayiphi na enye into edibeneyo nomxholo womama ingasetyenziswa njengezinto zokuhlobisa.
Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo ihlawulwa kwisihlalo okanye esihlalweni, apho umfazi oza kuhlala kwindawo "enomdla". Kufuneka ihlotswe ngendwangu ebomvu, iibhande, iimbambo okanye nayiphi na enye indlela, kodwa ukuba xa ungena kwigumbi unokuqiqa ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni na umgwenxa wesibhiyozo.
Yintoni enokukunika "umtshatsheli womntwana"?
Kwimeko eninzi kakhulu, "umntwana obala" unikezelwa izinto eziya kubakho ukuba umama ozayo anakekele umntwana emva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Ezi zinokuba yimpahla, iingxowa kunye neebhotile, ipompu yebele, isethi sebhedi yokulala, iimpawu zokunyamekela iintsana, iintsana kunye nokunye.
Nangona kunjalo, ngeli holide unokunika kunye nezinye izinto eziya kuba mnandi kumfazi okhulelwe aze amnike iimvakalelo ezintle. Ekuqaleni kweso siganeko, bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bafaka izipho kwindawo ekhethiweyo ngokukhethekileyo, kwaye kwinkqubo abayinikezela kumama wabo ozayo, behamba kunye nokutya kunye neenqweno.
Imincintiswano ye "baby schauer"
Iliholide yayiyolonwabo kwaye inomdla kwaye yanika umama ozayo imvakalelo emihle, kufuneka ihambisane nemidlalo emnandi kunye nemincintiswano, umzekelo:
- "Guess-ka!". Ukuqhuba lo mdlalo, umntu ochaphazelekayo kweso siganeko makazise isithombe sakhe somntwana kwiminyaka ethile. Yonke imifanekiso ifakwe kwindawo enye kwaye ibalwa. Emva koko, amantombazana kufuneka acinge ukuba ngubani onesithombe esichazwe kuso, kwaye ubhale iimpendulo zabo kwiphepha lephepha. Lowo unemibala ephezulu kakhulu uya kuphumelela.
- "Igama lomntwana." Lo mdlalo awukwazi ukuzonwabisa kuphela, kodwa uncedo. Omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba uqikelela igama afuna ukunikela ngekamva lomntwana, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ngubani owaziwayo obizwa ngokuba yiyo. Amanye amantombazana kufuneka acinge ukuba yintoni ebeyicelayo, ebuza imibuzo ecekisayo, apho "ewe" okanye "hayi" kuphela ongaphendulwa.
Igalari yezithombe zethu ziyakunceda uhlobise indawo yokubhiyozela kwaye udale umoya ofanelekileyo kuyo:
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