Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha ethu asitshela indlela yokuphepha ingozi kwinyani okanye ukuba kuyafaneleka ukulindela umphumo ophumeleleyo webhishini ebalulekileyo kuthi. Ngoko ke, makhe sibone ukuba yintoni umfazi ophupha ngayo kwaye yintoni na lo mbono onokufanekisa.
Yintoni iphupha lomfazi oqhelekileyo?
Ukuba iphupha elinjalo libonwa ngumntu, ngoko lizayo liza kudanisa kunye nomgca omnyama, oya kuthi, nangona kunjalo, awuyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Iingqungquthela, izihlazo kunye neenkohliso - yiloo nto umntu aphupha ngayo umfazi onxilisayo owaziwayo, kodwa akanalo isihlobo.
Kwaye amantombazana afana nephupha eliphambene, uthembisa impumelelo kunye nempumelelo, ngoko ufanele ulindele ukuba uphumelele umsebenzi kunye nezinto eziphathekayo, kunye nokufumana isipho esibi. Kodwa, oku kuza kuzaliseka kuphela xa ephupha umhlobo engaphathi kakubi, kwimeko apho ummeli wesini esithandanayo kumbono wombono okanye ukukrokra, kubalulekile ukulinda ingxabano ephakamileyo ebomini bokwenene. Yaye le ngxabano iya kuxhunyezwa ngoluvo olunjengomona.
Ngoku makhe sibone oko umfazi omdala akuphuphayo. Ukubona kwiphupha umhlobo oselekhulile okanye isihlobo ngokucacileyo isisombululo sokutshatyalaliswa kwintsapho okanye emsebenzini. Esi sibikezelo sisebenza ngokulinganayo namadoda,
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukuba umntu ubona umfokazi ephupheni, kubalulekile ukuba akhumbule nokuba wayenobungane okanye unobundlobongela. Kuxhomekeka kwinto engafaniyo namaphupha awaziyo. Kwimeko yokuqala, kukufanele ukulinda umangaliso, kodwa okwesibini uqikelele ukuba utshintsho luza kwaye olu tshintsho aluyi kuvuya kakhulu. Ngendlela, ukuba intombazana embonweni igqoke iimpahla ezimhlophe okanye ezikhanyayo, kwaye ngelixa iyakudanduluka kuwe, iqela elimnyama liya kukhawuleza.