Sekuninzi ixesha elide kwakukho umbono ozinzile ukuba amadoda angamaqhinga kakhulu kunabesifazane. Kodwa iziganeko eziye zaphuhliswa kuluntu zihlala zide kakhulu neemeko zangempela. Ngoko ke ngubani na othe watshintsha: amadoda okanye abafazi? Yintoni inzululwazi ithi malunga namaqhinga?
Ngubani otshintsha ngaphezulu: amadoda okanye abafazi?
Ucwaningo lwezenhlalakahle luthi abafazi bashintsha amaqabane abo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunamadoda. Mhlawumbi uyamangalisa, kodwa awukwazi ukuphikisana namaqiniso. Ukuba sithetha malunga namanqanaba amabini amadoda atshintsha abafazi, ke amanani alinganiselwayo angama-34%. Kodwa abafazi abaguqula amadoda abo, kwiinkalo zentlalo - 40%.
Kwakunomdla umdlalo obizwa ngokuba ngumda wobudala. Amadoda ngokuqhelekileyo ashintshwa kwiminyaka engama-20-25, eli lixesha leyona nto yintsibano yesini. Kodwa abesetyhini baya kukhwabanisa kwiminyaka engama-30 ukuya ku-35 ukuya ku-35, xa bekhatywe yinto yokuphila kwentsapho kwaye kukho umnqweno wokuvelisa.
Ngamaxesha amaninzi amadoda namabhinqa atshintsha yonke into icacile. Kodwa ngokumangalisa kukuba, nangona bhinqa litshintshe ngokuphindaphindiweyo, amadoda akwazi ukucinga ngesondo . Ngomhla, abameli bezesondo abalungileyo bacinga ngesondo malunga namaxesha angama-2-3, kodwa amadoda akhumbula malunga nalo malunga ne-10 ngosuku. Kodwa malunga ne-30% yabasetyhini bafuna ukulala ngesondo. Kwaye i-14% kuphela yamadoda yakha umdla omnye wesini.
Ngokubanzi, iifomati-into ephikisana kakhulu. Kunzima ukusho ukuba bangaphi abantu ababesitshintshayo, bangaphi abantu abafazi batshintsha, kuba bonke abantu bahluke, kwaye manani amanani manani nje. Kodwa ke, iinyani zihlala ziyi nyaniso. Kwaye, njengokuba kungeyinto engaqhelekanga, abafazi bayabathengisa amadoda ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nangona amadoda ebhekwa njengabantu abangakumbi "ukuya ngasekunene."