Iimeko ezinjalo aziyikumkhulula umntwana ekunyanzelekeni ukuba ancedise ngemali aze ahlale nomzali ongenamdla emva kokuba engakwazi. Esi sihlandlo esivame ukuqhubekisa umama okanye ubaba, osebenza ekukhuliseni imvumba, ukufaka ifowuni enkundleni malunga nokunyanzeliswa kwamalungelo omzali womzali ongekhohlisi weemvumba. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye izinto zingashenxisa apha.
Umzekelo wesitatimende sesibango sokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omama okanye uyise
Ukwenza ibango lokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omama okanye utata womntwana omncinci, ungasebenzisa enye yeemodeli ezikhoyo kwi-Intanethi, okanye uzibhale ngokwakho. Nangona uninzi lwabantu lukhetha ukufaka izicelo kumagqwetha aqeqeshiwe ukulungiselela amaxwebhu anjalo, eqinisweni, akukho nto ilukhuni ekuqulunqweni kwawo.
Ukuqala ibango lokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali, landela intloko kwinqopho ephezulu yephepha lephepha le-A4. Kufuneka ibonise igama lenkundla ephathelele ukubhaliswa kwangempela kommangalelwa okanye ukuhlala kwakhe ngokusisigxina, ngokusekelwe kummandla wendawo, kunye negama elipheleleyo, idilesi yokuhlala kunye neepasipoti iinkcukacha zomntu phantsi kohluthwa kwamalungelo omzali kunye ngqo nomfaki sicelo. Kwinqaku, kuya kuba yinto engabonakaliyo ukuba ibonise idilesi yomphathi wokugcina ummandla kunye neofisi yomtshutshisi wesithili, ekubeni ezi ziqumrhu ziba ngabathathi-nxaxheba kwiimeko ezinjalo.
Emva koko, phakathi kwiphepha, kufuneka ucacise igama loxwebhu. Umxholo webango ungachazwa kwifomu yamahhala. Nantsi kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngokucacileyo malunga neemeko zentsapho, ukuchaza ngaluphi umba ummangalelwa eyekile ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhulisweni nasekuboneleleni umntwana, nokuba uncedise ngaphambili, kwaye ziziphi iimeko ebomini bakhe ezitshintshileyo.
Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba ukulahla nawuphi na umntu ngamalungelo omzali ngokubhekiselele kwindodana yakhe okanye intombi inokwenzeka kuphela kwiimeko ezithile, ezichazwe ngokucacileyo ngumthetho welizwe ngalinye. Ngokukodwa, eRussia naseUkraine ngokumkelwa kwalo mqathango, ezi zizathu zilandelayo zibonelelwa:
- ukukhutshwa kwexesha elibi kunye nexesha elide lokuhlawula i-alimony kubantwana, ngaphandle kokuba lo msebenzi wawunikezelwe ngumzali ngamagunya omgwebo;
- ukushiya umntwana esibhedlele okanye nasiphi na esinye isiko, siqinisekiswe ngokulahlwa komntwana;
- ukuphathwa kakubi kwemivumba, ubudlova;
- kwisigaba esinzima sokusela utywala okanye ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi, ngaphandle kokuba ukuxilongwa kuqinisekiswa ngugqirha wengcali;
- ukuthunyelwa kolwaphulo-mthetho oluphambili olujoliswe kubantwana okanye umzali wesibini;
- ukugqiba ukungahloneli nokungazalisekanga uxanduva lwabazali.
Enye okanye ngaphezulu kwezizathu kufuneka zichazwe ngokubhaliweyo kwibango kwaye ziboniswe kwimimiselo ebonwe ebomini kwintsapho ethile. Ekugqibeleni, kwinxalenye yesicelo sokubango, kuyimfuneko ukuchaza iimfuno zokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omama okanye utata, ukudluliselwa komntwana okanye abantwana ekukhuliseni umzali wesibini okanye umgcini, kunye nokufuneka, ukuhlawulwa kwe-alimony.
Ukuqokelela ngokuchanekileyo uxwebhu olufanayo luyakunceda uzalise ingxelo yesibango ngokunyanzeliswa kwamalungelo omzali, okucetywayo kwinqaku lethu:
