Iincwadi malunga nemfundo yabantwana - indlela yokukhetha okulungileyo, okanye indlela yokufumana indlela yakho kwimfundo?

Xa ulutsha olungenamntwana, abaninzi banokucinga ukuba ngokwabo njengabafundisi abakhulu. Ukuzalwa kweentsana zabo kubangela ukutshatyalaliswa kwezinto ezinjalo, ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukulungelelanisa kwindawo ekhoyo. Iincwadi kwiimfundo zabantwana zinikezela ukuba wonke umntwana, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngumntu.

Iincwadi ezilungileyo kakhulu zokukhulisa abantwana

Iingcamango zemfundo nezenzo azikwazi ukubalelwa. Abanye babo bafuna ukugcina umntwana ngentsimbi, abanye bakhuthaza ukudala ubudlelwane bobudlelwane phakathi kwezizukulwana. Inyaniso yindawo ethile phakathi. Ngoko ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luhlobo luni lomsebenzi olungakhange lugqithwe ngokulinganisa kweencwadi ekukhulisweni kwabantwana, umntu kufuneka agxininise kuphela kwiimvakalelo zakhe. Ukuba ukufundwa kunika iimvakalelo ezintle kwaye kunika inkuthazo yokuqonda nokwamkela umntwana wakho, ngoko unako ukubeka isiluleko ngokukhuselekileyo. Ukuba emva kwencwadi ekukhuliseni abantwana kunokungabaza ngamandla akho, ukuzitshintsha njengomzali kunye nezinye iimvakalelo eziwonakalisayo, kungcono ukubeka eceleni.

Iincwadi ezifanelekileyo kwi-psychology yengqondo kunye nemfundo

Ngoku kutshanje, ootata noomama abangaqhelekanga baye bazinikela ingxaki yokungcungcuthela ingqondo yengqondo yabantwana. Inzala ithathwe ukuba ifundiswe kwisimo samandla, isetyenziswe iindlela ezibonakalisiwe kweenkulungwane, ezazisetyenziswe ngabakhulukazi kunye no-grand-parent. Iincwadi ekukhuliseni naseengqondweni zezingane zinikezela ukuqonda ngobuntu bomntwana ngamnye, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ziphuhlise amandla alo kwaye zihlengahlengise ababuthathaka:

1. "Indlela yokuchaza indlela abaziphatha ngayo abantwana bakho." "Andifuni", "Andiyi kuthi", "akunjalo" - bonke abantwana bahlala ixesha lokukhanyela yonke into ehlabathini. Ukudibanisa ukuziphatha kolukhuni luya kunceda uAlexander Clifford-Poston.
2. "I-ABC ye-Psychology yabantwana." Umbhali uSergei Stepanov ubonakalisa isigqubuthelo phezu kweziphepho emphefumlweni womntwana kwaye ufundisa abazali ukuba bajamelane nabo.
3. "Imithetho yabazali." Incwadi ebalulekileyo kaRichard Templar kulabo mama nabantwana abafuna iingcebiso ezicacileyo, indlela yokuphendula kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.

Iincwadi zokukhulisa abantwana ekuzalweni

Kucatshangelwa ukuba umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa akayi kunika nayiphi na indlela yokufundisa. Enyanisweni, i-tender age does not restrain the layings of pebbles in the foundation of the building called "personality". Njengoko kwenzeka, iincwadi ezilungileyo kakhulu zokukhulisa abantwana ukusuka ekuzalweni zixelelwa:

1. "Usana lwakho ukususela kwiminyaka emi-2." Kukho ubuchule bobafazi abaSears abanakuqinisekiswa, kuba banabantwana abasibhozo. Incwadi iya kuba yinto yokufumana ngokwenene oomama abangenamava kunye noxhalabisayo kakhulu - ichaza ngokucacileyo, xa ufuna ukwesaba, kwaye xa kufuneka ube nesineke.
2. "Ndibuhlungu? Ngoko kuphuhliswa! ". Ngokomabhali (uFrans Ploy noHattie Vanderteit), ukuphuhliswa komntwana kuyaqhubeka kwintsimbi, nganye iya phambili ngaphambi kokuxhalaba. Ukwenza utshintsho kwiintlanzi eziphazamisayo ezinothambileyo kwaye ezingenabuhlungu kunokwenzeka ziza kunceda iingcebiso ezivela kwincwadi.

Iincwadi zokukhulisa abantwana ukususela kwiminyaka eli-1 ubudala

Ixesha elivela ekuzalweni kweemvuthu ukuya kunyaka o-1 lizaliswe iingxaki malunga nokuphila kwakhe kwenyama kwaye idlula ngaphantsi komqondiso wokukhathala komzali. Emva koko ujoyine ukukhathala kokuziphatha, kuba umntwana uqala ukubonisa ngokucacileyo umlingiswa. Musa ukulahlekelwa yintloko yakho ukususela kweli qela leenkathazo zeminyaka yabantwana kwaye unike umntwana zonke iincwadi zoncedo ezifunekayo kwimfundo yasesikolweni:

1. "Uncedo oluyimfihlo. Ukuthandana ebomini bomntwana. " Ngokuqhelekileyo, umzali nomntwana baxhunyaniswe ngokugqithiseleyo ngemicu yothando nothando. I-cocoon yale misonto inikezela umntwana isiseko sophuhliso oluhambelanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubunzima obunjani bomntwana bubangelwa ukungabikho kokunakwa, njengoko uLyudmila Petranovskaya eqiqa ngolwazi.
2. "Ngecala lomntwana." Ukufunda okuthakazelisayo nguFranzoisa Dolto, ukutyhila phambi kwabo bonke abanomdla kuzo zonke iinkalo zehlabathi zobuntwaneni, ngokuqala ngeendlela zokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili, kunye nokuphela kweziganeko zemfundo yamantombazana namakhwenkwe.

Iincwadi malunga nemfundo yabafana

Iphupha elingunaphakade lomfazi - umntu onamandla kwaye othembekileyo olandelayo. Indlela yokuphakamisa unyana onjalo, uza kuhambisa iincwadi ezifanelekileyo kwizemakhwenkwe:

1. "Ukuthetha nomntwana." Iingxaki zabanamakhwenkwe zanamhlanje zihluke kakhulu kwiingxaki zooyise, ngoko aba bahlala bengakwazi ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye noonyana babo. Incwadi kaAndrey Kashkarov iya kunceda ekugqibeleni iikona ezibukhali.
2. "Indlela yokukhulisa unyana." Kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, siyaphuthelwa kukuba ubutyebi buninzi zizihlobo zethu nabahlobo. Indlela yokwakha ulwalamano oluthembayo kunye nendodana yakhe, ungamfundisi ngelizwi, kodwa ngezenzo - konke oku kubulumko kufundiswa yincwadi kaLeonid Surzhenko.
3. "Unyana wam ukhula! Indlela yokukhulisa indoda yangempela. " Iingcebiso ezisebenzayo kunye neziphakamiso zikaJan Grant malunga nendlela yokukhulisa inkwenkwe engenaye i-hyperope nokulila.

Iincwadi malunga nemfundo yabantombazana

Ukukhulisa intombi ngumfazi wokwenene-umsebenzi onzima. Ukunqoba intombikazi, ukufundisa ukuzinyamekela nokufundisa ubuhlakani obuyinkulungwane kunye nekhaya - kulo lonke uncedo ukuqonda iincwadi kubazali kwimfundo yabantwana:

1. "Ukuzaliswa kwangaphambili. Iintombi eziphakamisa iintombi. " Incwadana ekhethekileyo yemfundo yabantombazana ebhalwe ngumntu (uNigel Latta) kunye namadoda kuya kunceda ukuba ibe yinkxaso yentombazana kwaye ingayithinti.
2. "Ukukhulisa intombi." Indlela yokuthetha nentombazana kwixesha elihlukeneyo lobomi bakhe, indlela yokumzisela ingozi yobomi bokuqala besondo, ukuthatha iziyobisi kunye notywala kunye nokulondoloza kwizinye ezininzi izilingo - le mibuzo iphendulwa nguDon noJoan Elium.
3. "Imfundo yentombazana." Kukho uluvo lokuba kulula ukuphakamisa intombi kunonyana. Ngaba le ndlela nendlela yokuziphatha ngayo, ukuze intombi ikhule ibe neyolo kwaye inelisekile, iya kuxela incwadi kaSvetlana Khazova no-Oksana Kuznetsova.

Iincwadi ngokuphathelele kwimfundo yabaselula

Ixesha lokusasaza liba luhlobo lwesithintelo kwintsapho yonke. Ukubona kwintombazana enamandla kwaye enameva enjalo intando kwaye umntwana okhuselekileyo uya kunceda iincwadi ezilungileyo kwizemfundo yabaselula:

1. "Kuze kube yilapho umntwana wakho ekutshitshisile." Ngokutsho kukaNigel Latt, umntwana ngexesha lokutshatyalaliswa lifaniswa nokuqhuma ibhokhwe, eneemodomoni. Indlela yodwa yokuphepha ukuqhuma konke ukutshabalalisa kukunxibelelana.
2. "Ngecala lomntwana oselula." Umbhali wencwadana ebomini kunye nentsha noFrançoise Dolto uyaqiniseka ukuba ngeli xesha umntwana unjengomntwana onengqondo. Umsebenzi wabazali kukunyamekela nokunakekelwa. Indlela yokuqinisekisa ngayo, ixelela enye yeencwadi ezilungileyo kwiimfundo zabantwana abaselula.