Iphupha ngumsebenzi we-subconscious yethu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyisalathisi esihle semiboniso yomntu, ukwenjenjalo ukuba abantu abaninzi baphenduke kwiincwadi zokuphupha ukuze baqonde intsingiselo yephupha labo. Ukuba uphupha malunga nokubeka isitya, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kufuneka wenze into ebalulekileyo okanye uthathe isigqibo esinzima. Into ephambili - musa ukwesaba uxanduva kwaye uya kuphumelela.
Kutheni uphupha intonga ekhanda?
Ukuba ephupheni lakho ubona intsimbi yomthi, uthembisa intlanganiso engalindelekanga kwaye inomdla, kwaye ukuba uyedwa, mhlawumbi kuya kuba yintlanganiso eya kukhula ngokukhawuleza ibe luhlobo oluhle kwaye iphele ngomtshato.
Xa le ntloko ephupha lakho ibonakala njengomkhosi, ulindele ubunzima emsebenzini, mhlawumbi umthwalo uya kunyuka, kodwa emva kokusinda kuza kuza umhlophe omhlophe kwaye uya kunikwa ukwanda kwimivuzo okanye uya kwanda. Ukulala ngentsimbi ehlotswe ngamatye anqabileyo uthembisa utshintsho olukhulu ebomini, apho kungekho mntu uya kuhlala engathandanga.
Kwakhona, ukutolika kwephupha kuthonywe ngumntu ophuphayo, umzekelo, ukuba umntu ubeka ingubo yowesifazane, uthetha ngokuthotywa nokuhlazeka ebomini bokwenene, kwaye kwimeko yowesifazane, uya kubeka uxanduva lwabantu. Xa isondo kunye neendawo ezinkulu liphupha, lithetha ngokubonakalisa nokuziqhayisa ngokweqile.
Xa umntu egqoke ihappy entsha kwiphupha - lithetha ngeziqalo zakhe ezintsha, eziza kuphumelela, ziphumelele kwaye ziza kukhawuleza zenyuka intaba. Ubuhle bale ntloko bungaba ngumqondiso wabantu ngomona ongaphandle. Ingubo yomhlophe entlokweni yamaphupha abo bantu abantu abanomvakalelo onxulumene nomntu othile baxhamle.
Ngokubanzi, inokuthi ingabonakaliswa ukuba abantu abafuna impendulo yombuzo - into enokuyiphuphayo, kufuneka bazi ukuba eli phupha lihle, kufuneka nje ukulichaza ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ubeke ingqalelo kwimimiselo ezayo.