Abaninzi bayazi malunga nesiphene njengokuba uvila kungekhona ukuva, kodwa umntu ulahlekelwa kakhulu. Sithetha ngabantu abathintekayo, abantu abalibala ukusebenzela intsapho, abahlobo, iimfuno ezidlulileyo, musa ukuya kwiholide kwaye uhlala eofisini. Kwaye kulungile, ukuba lo ngumntu onesizungu, kodwa yintoni enokuyenza ukuba indoda ingumsebenzi onobuchule: bonisa abantwana bakhe umfanekiso, kwaye uyibona kuphela ephupheni?
Indlela yokuba ngumsebenzi onzima?
Kulabo baqeshwe ngokuqhelekileyo, lo mbuzo uzwakala, ubuncinane, ungabonakali. Ngendlela, izazinzulu zikholelwa ukuba ukukhangela iindlela zokuba ngumsebenzi osisigxina akusiyo isicwenge nje kuphela, kodwa kuyingozi. Ngenxa yokuba loo ndlela yokuzikhethela yomsebenzi ifana nokuxhomekeka kotywala okanye iziyobisi. Inokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo kwi-neurosis, apho yodwa indlela yokuzifeza umsebenzi. Ngako oko, umnqweno wokuba ngumsebenzi ongeyinto engafanelekiyo, ukuba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokusebenza kakuhle, kufuneka ulwabalale nobudenge, kwaye uqhelane neendlela ezisisiseko zokulawulwa kwexesha, kwaye ungayifaki ibhokhwe ecaleni kwikhompyutha yakho yokusebenza.
Zivela ngaphaya phi?
Kutheni uqhuba ubomi emsebenzini, xa kukho intsapho, abahlobo kunye nangaphezulu? Kodwa xa oku kungekho, kuhleli kuphela ukusebenza. Ngoko ke, enye intombazana okanye inkwenkwana inethuba elingcono lokuba ngumsebenzi ogqithiseleyo kunentsapho.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu uya kusebenza kuphela ukuze azihlukanise neengxaki ebomini bakhe. Esi sizathu sibonakala sisisigxina somfazi osisigxina, kuba oomama bahlala bebeka intsapho yokuqala kwaye, ukuba ayisebenzi, banike amandla onke ukusebenza. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfazi ngokukhawuleza waba ngumsebenzi okhuselekileyo, ngoko oku kuwuphawu olucacileyo lokuba intsapho ayithethi. Nangona kukho a mabhinqa asebenza ngokugqithiseleyo akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na, anganikeli 100% kuwo. Ekubeni bafundiswa ukususela ebuntwaneni, babengumfundi obalaseleyo kwi-nursergarten, esikolweni nakwiziko, abanako ukuyeka ubomi bomntu abadala kwaye baqhubeke benza konke "kwi-5 +". Kuphela yinkathazo - bayakwazi ukusebenza kakuhle, kodwa akukho mntu ubafundise ukwakha ubudlelwane, kwaye yingako ubomi bentsapho abuhambanga kakuhle. Amadoda athambekele ngakumbi ekusebenziseni ubuchule ngenxa yokuncintisana ngonaphakade, wonke umntu ufuna ukuba ngowokuqala, kwaye ufike phezulu, kufuneka usebenze kanzima. Kulapho ubomi buhlala khona, behleli eofisini, belibale ukuba kukho ezinye izinto ezithandekayo. Kodwa ke, asikwazi ukuphuhlisa umbandela wezimali. Ukuba ufuna imali, kwaye akukho mntu ulindele uluncedo, kufuneka uthembele kuye kwaye usebenze, ukuba kukho amandla.
Enyanisweni, kukho enye inye kuyo yonke into, ukuba esinye isiqingatha sisebenza kakhulu, ke iingxaki zekhaya nazo zingaphantsi.
Indlela yokuhlala nomntu onomsebenzi onobuchule?
Ngendlela efanelekileyo, kufuneka ucinge ngento oya kuyenza kunye nomntu onobudlelwane kunye nomyeni wakho, xa uya kuhlala nomntu onjalo, kuba ukuxhomekeka kwakungeke kubonakale ngokukhawuleza. Mhlawumbi, inxalenye yinto ephosakeleyo - ukuzinikezela ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza, xa yonke into ihle kakuhle ekhaya. Enyanisweni, kukho amaxesha apho i-workaholic iyindawo yokugcina impahla, kodwa indoda enjalo kwindawo efanelekileyo yokuhlala iya kuthatha amaphepha abalulekileyo ekhaya ngaphandle kokuba iya kulala ebusuku eofisini. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba uphose umyeni wakho, hlalutya indlela oziphatha ngayo, mhlawumbi wena uyancenga ukuba afune induduzo emsebenzini wakhe.
Kodwa nantoni na, ukuxoxa nomyeni onomdla, njengoko uya kudibana naye ekhaya, udinga. Musa nje ukuqala ngokuhlambalaza, ungaqali i-scandals, zama nje ukufumanisa isizathu esona sizathu sokwenza umdlalo kwaye ucebise ukufumana ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba lula ukuba uchithe iveki kunye, kwaye lonke ixesha ixesha elide liza kuzinikezela ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza. Okanye unako ukutshintshela ubomi bakho kwisigqi. Cinga ngeeholide edibeneyo , apho akuyi kubakho indawo yokusebenza, umzekelo, indawo ekude apho kungekho nxu lumano lweselula. Musa nje ukuzama ukuphinda ufundise i-workaholic, ukuxhomekeka okunjalo akunakuphulukiswa, unokucacisa ukuba ingqalelo yakhe imfuneko kuwe nakubantwana.