Ungasusa njani ukwesaba komntwana kumama ngokwakhe?

Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana, abanoyikrokra kakhulu kwixesha elide kakhulu, ebomini bonke bomphefumlo bayesaba isandi esibukhali kunye nesandi, ukukhala, nabanye abantu, ukuxinana kwabantu abaninzi. Nangona inyaniso yokuba amayeza anamhlanje akwazi ukwahlula eli lizwe njengesifo esahlukileyo, kwiimeko ezinzima kunokukhokelela ekuphazamiseni ukulala, i- neurosis okanye i-phobia. Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela indlela yokumisela ukwesaba komntwana, nokuba ngaba kungenzeka ukuba uyisuse kumama ngokwawo, ngaphandle kokusebenza kwiingcali.

Indlela yokuqhayisa ukwesaba komntwana?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, into yokuba umntwana uyethusa ibonisa ukubonakala kwangoku kwezi zilandelayo:

• izifo ezahlukeneyo zokulala, umntwana uyavuka rhoqo ngeyure nesiqingatha kunye nokukhala;
• enuresis emini;
• ukungabi nesidlo okanye ukunciphisa kuwo, umntwana unokunqabela ukutya okuthandayo;
• ububele obuninzi, umntwana ngenxa yeso sizathu ngokukhawuleza kunye nokukhala eside, ezama ukungahambi kumama;
• unokwesaba ubumnyama kunye nesizungu.

Iimbangela zokusabisa kubantwana

Kwiimeko ezininzi, imbangela yokwesaba kubantwana abancinci zilandelayo:

• isandi esikhulu nesandi esicacileyo, umzekelo, ukuqhuma;
• izilwanyana ezinkulu kunye ezikrakrayo;
• intlekele yemvelo, iindudumo ezinkulu;
• imeko ezixinzelelekileyo;
• imfundo engafanelekanga, ubunzima obukhulu kakhulu kubazali.

Ungasusa njani ukwesaba kumntwana ngokwakho?

Ukuze ususe ukwesaba ukusuka kumntwana ekhaya, ungasebenzisa isixhobo esinjengeliphulo le-tale. Isixhobo sengqondo sanamhlanje sikuvumela ukuba uthintele ingqondo yengane ngokusebenzisa abalinganiswa bebhali. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uchaze iimvumba zesimo seqhinga apho iqhawe lakhe elithandekayo liloyiko, kwaye limnike iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokusombulula ingxaki. Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, awukwazi nje ukumnceda umntwana ukuba akwazi ukujamelana noloyiko, kodwa ufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye soyika umntwana.

Ukongezelela, unyana wakho okanye intombi, oyikrakra kakhulu, kufuneka abe soloko evakalelwa kukuba ukhuselwe phantsi. Hlangana nomntwana ngothando kunye nokunyamekela kwaye uzame ukuchitha kunye naye ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze umntwana engekho.

Ekugqibeleni, ukususa ukwesaba komntwana, ungasebenzisa iindlela ezilandelayo:

• kufuna uncedo oluvela kuThixo ngomthandazo;
• Amaxesha ama-3 ngosuku umntwana anganikwa ama-sps amathathu wamanzi angcwele;
• Kwakhona amanzi angcwele anokuhlamba ubuso obunzima;
• "Ukukhupha" iqanda eliluhlaza. Ukuze wenze le masiko, inkukhu yenkukhu igqityiwe kwisisu somntwana, kwaye iyaqhekeka ibe yindebe kwaye ikhutshwe endlwini.