Xa abantwana abathathu behlala kwigumbi labantwana, ukuxabana nokulwa kwenzeka kaninzi. Kukho amaxesha amaninzi xa omnye wabantwana, ngokomthetho, omncinci, akamkelekanga kwimidlalo yabadala. Ukuba umntwana uyabonwabela kakhulu ngabazali, ke abanye abantwana banokuba nomona kunye nentukuthelo. Abazali bafanele babe neentlonelo kubantwana babo kwaye bangavumeli ukuxabana kunye nentukuthelo kulo mhlaba.
Ukuqulunqwa kwegumbi labantwana abathathu kufuneka kucatshangelwe ngendlela enokuba umntwana ngamnye unendawo yakhe. Oku kuya kwenziwa ngeesahlulo okanye ifenitshala.
Ukukhethwa kwamabhedi kwigumbi labantwana abantwana abathathu ngumcimbi obaluleke kakhulu. Abakhiqizi benfenitshala banamhlanje banikezela ukhetho olubanzi lwezinto zangaphakathi zamagumbi abantwana. Inketho efanelekileyo kubantwana abathathu iibhedi ezintathu zokulala. Kodwa, ngelanga, akukho gumbi liyakwazi ukufumana inkunkuma enkulu kangaka. Ngoko ke, kwigumbi labantwana abathathu, ungasebenzisa: imibhede emibini kunye neyodwa kunye nendawo yokulala emithathu (xa kwenzeka igumbi liphezulu). Ukukhetha umbhede kunye noyilo olumangalisayo - umbala, isiteji esingavamile okanye ifomu, abazali bazinikela ngokuhlwa kakhulu. Iingcali zengqondo zithi umhlala-phantsi uhamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye awudingi ukunyaniseka okukhulu, ukuba umntwana ngamnye uthande umbhede wakhe.
Umbutho weendawo zokusebenza okanye indawo yokudlala yomntwana ngamnye kwigumbi labantwana abantwana abathathu alona msebenzi olula. Ekubeni kungakhathaliseki ukuba akunakwenzeka ukudala indawo ekhethiweyo yomntwana ngamnye, indawo yeeklasi kufuneka imiswe kunye neesahlulo ezincinane kwitafile. Abantwana beminyaka yobudala kufuneka banikezwe ithuba lokukhetha isihlalo sabo kwisetafile. Kuyabantwana besikolo esikolweni, indawo yokuzonwabisa ingabelana.
Igumbi labantwana labantwana abathathu alona khetho elihle kubazali nakubantwana ngokwabo. Ngoko ke, kwithuba lokuqala, abantwana kufuneka bahlaliswe.
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