Umntwana oneminyaka elivisayo unokufumana njani amalungelo akhe?

Phantse bonke abafana nabasetyhini abaphuphayo bephupha ukuba babe ngabantu abadala ngokukhawuleza ukuze bakwazi ukufumana onke amalungelo abazali babo. Lo mnqweno ungenxa yokuba abantwana bavame ukuziva bezizidalwa ezikhutshitshiweyo, kuba bakholelwa ukuba bakhonze kwaye banyanzelekile ukuba bahlale bethobela intando yonina noyise, ootitshala nabanye abantu abadala.

Enyanisweni, kuzo zonke iinkqubo zomthetho, kuquka iRashiya ne-Ukraine, abafana kunye namantombazana asebuntwaneni banamalungelo amaninzi anzulu kwaye anzulu awenzayo amalungu epheleleyo kuluntu. Okwangoku, akuyena wonke umntwana owazi kakuhle imeko yakhe yomthetho kwaye ngoko akayiqondi indlela onokuphunyezwa ngayo.

Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela indlela intombazana enokuyithandayo ngayo amalungelo akhe ukuba azive engumhlali ohlala phantsi, kwaye ayikho inqwelwana elingenamandla yoluntu oluhlala kuphela kwi-pointer yomnye umntu.

Liliphi ilungelo lomntwana osemtsha?

Uluhlu lwamalungelo ayisiseko olutsha luyafana nawo onke amazwe. Ezi zibandakanya ilungelo lobomi, ukhuseleko, uphuhliso, kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba ekusebenzeni ebomini yoluntu. Ekubeni ininzi yobomi bomntwana osemtsha eqhubekayo esikolweni, kulesi sikhungo semfundo kufuneka aqonde amaninzi akhe amalungelo. Ngokukodwa, umntwana usetyenziswa ngamalungelo akhe ngale ndlela:

• ukufumana uncedo lobungcali kunye nolwazi lwemfundo kwilayibrari;
• ukuzikhethela ngokuzimeleyo inkqubo yemfundo;
• ngokwabo baya kudluliselwa kwesinye isikolo okanye kwisikolo sobugcisa;
• ukuvakalisa uluvo lwabo kunye neenkolelo zazo naziphi na iindlela ezikhoyo;
• ukudala imibutho kawonkewonke esikolweni.

Kwintsapho yakhe, intombazana okanye intombazana eselula nayo inelungelo elipheleleyo lokuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo, ukubonisa isikhundla sayo kunye nokuhlonela iinkolelo zakhe. Enyanisweni, ngokwenza oku akusoloko kunjalo, kwaye abanye abazali bakhulisa abantwana babo, bekholelwa ukuba abantwana babo mabazithobele ngokupheleleyo iimfuno zabo ngeendlela zonke.

Kwiintsapho ezinjalo, umntwana ongeke ahambelane nengcamango yesizukulwana esikhulileyo uhlala ejongene nokunyaniseka kweenkolelo zakhe, ukunyanzela ukwenza isenzo, okanye udlame. Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje kunye nezinto ezinobundlobongela kubantwana abakwishumi elivisayo zingafumaneka kwiindonga zesikolo.

Izenzo ezinjalo zabantu abadala azivunyelwanga nakwiyiphi na imeko esemthethweni, kuba bayaphula inani elikhulu lamalungelo omntwana omncinci. Yingakho zonke iintsholongwane zifuna ukwazi indlela anokukhusela ngayo amalungelo akhe. Kuzo zonke iimeko apho umntwana ekholelwa ukuba amalungelo akhe aphulwe, unelungelo lokufaka izicelo kwimibutho ekhethekileyo-i-polisi, i-ofisi yomtshutshisi, ikhomishini yemicimbi yabantwana, ukugcinwa kwamagunya kunye ne-trusteeship, umkomishinala wamalungelo omntwana njalonjalo.

Ukongezelela, emva kwexesha lesibini esikolweni, amaqela asetsheni anelungelo lokuqhuba iintlanganiso ezikhethekileyo kunye neentlanganiso kunye nokutyunjwa kweemfuno ezingaphikisani nomthetho okhoyo.