Naliphi na umzali ofuna ukumbona umntwana wakhe kwikamva njengomntu ofundayo nophumeleleyo. Sithemba ukuziqhayisa ngamabakala amahle kunye nempumelelo yomntwana esikolweni. Wonke umntu ufuna umntwana angaphaya kwabazali bakhe, kodwa ayibalekele ngeengxaki zabo zesikolo ezidlulileyo. Abaninzi bethu baqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba silahlekelwe ixesha lokufunda elixabisekileyo lokufumana ulwazi. Ngako oko, ungamangalisi ukuba kutheni abantwana bengathandi ukufunda, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uzikhumbule.
Kutheni abantwana bengathandi ukufunda?
Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukufunda, okokuqala, kufuneka ufumanise isizathu sokwenjenjalo. Izizathu zokuba umntwana engaphili kakuhle esikolweni unokubaninzi:
- ukungavumelani nokuxabana nabantwana;
- ngqubana no titshala;
- Isihloko esingathandekiyo nesithandekayo;
- ubunzima bokuvuka ekuseni;
- ukhathala okanye uxinzelelo;
- ukungathandeki kulo mbandela;
- ukuxhalaba kwekhomputha.
Xa umntwana efunda kakubi, abazali bazama ukufumana impendulo kumbuzo, yintoni yokwenza? Okokuqala, zama ukufumana isizathu salokhu kwingxoxo eyimfihlo nezolile. Unokuthetha ngeminyaka yakho yesikolo, imeko kwiklasini, malunga nezifundo zakho ezizithandayo nezithandwayo. Okanye xelela umntwana malunga nemikhwa yootitshala bakho kunye nolwalamano lwakho nabafundi ofunda nabo. Ukubuyisela imeko eziqhelekileyo zobuntwana bakhe esikolweni, uya kumnika umntwana ithuba lokutshintshela kwiinkinga zobomi bakhe besikolo. Umntwana uya kuvuleka ngakumbi, kwaye oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni umntwana engakwazi ukufunda kakuhle.
Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana akafuni ukufunda nokuya esikolweni ukuba engenalo ubudlelwane kunye notitshala okanye ubudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi nabalingana nabo. Abazali kufuneka bazame ukugcina ubuncinane babo bonke ubomi besikolo ukuze bangaphutheli umzuzu kwaye bancede umntwana ukuba asombulule ingxabano ngexesha.
Isizathu esona sizathu sokuthi kungani abantwana bengathandi ukufunda kuluvila. Kwaye kuza xa umntwana ephazamiseka kwaye engathandeki kwizifundo zakhe. Umsebenzi oyintloko womama noba ngumdla kunye nokumtsala umntwana, ukuze inkqubo yokufunda ibe yinto enomdla.
Unako ukuchazela abantwana ukuba ukufunyanwa kolwazi kusekelwe kwimimiselo yomdlalo wekhompyutha. Kufuneka ufunde kakuhle kwaye udlulise isigaba esinye somdlalo ukuba uhambe kwinqanaba elincomekileyo, ukuphucula izakhono zakho. Cacisa ukuba ngendlela efanayo, isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, njengomdlalo, kukho ukufunda esikolweni. Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukufunda ukufunda, ngokuzayo uza kuvimba ukufundwa kwanoma yimuphi umxholo apho ukufaneleka kokufunda kuyimfuneko. Xa umntwana engafuni ukufunda ukubhalela, kuya kuba nzima kwikamva ukucacisa ngokukhawuleza izinto zokufundisa. Abazali kufuneka bazame ukumchazela loo minyango enengqiqo, ukwenzela ukuba inkqubo yokufunda iqhubekele, kwaye ngoko ke inomdla kwaye iphumelele.
Ungamnceda njani umntwana ongazifuni ukufunda?
Kutheni umntwana efunda kakubi, xa kuye, njengaye, zonke izimo zenziwa. Iipazamo zabazali ngendlela yokufunda ziyakucetyiswa apha. Uluhlu lwezenzo ezingafanelekanga kuthatyathwe uncedo ukuphendula lo mbuzo:
- Musa ukunyanzelisa, ukukhawuleza okanye ujezise ukuba umntwana akafuni ukufunda.
Ngokuchasene noko, kufuneka ixhaswe kwaye idunyiswe ngenxa yeempumelelo ezincinci, ngelixa zingagxininisa kwiimvavanyo ngokwazo. - Akuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza umdla wokufunda kunye neemfundiso zokuziphatha rhoqo. Musa ukulifanisa nomntu kwaye unikeze imizekelo yeentsapho okanye ofunda nabo. Oku kuya kunciphisa ukuzithemba komntwana kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, kuya kugxotha umnqweno wesikolo nesikolo.
- Musa ukumnika uxinzelelo olungakumbi: mhlawumbi umntwana akafuni ukufunda kwixhala. Umthwalo wakhe ngokomzimba okanye ngokomzwelo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla ingaba mkhulu kakhulu, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana ukhululeke kakhulu: wenza imidlalo emininzi, umculo, ukudansa, njl.