Ukwenqatshelwa kobazali kuyinkqubo enzima kakhulu, efuna ukuba nomonde kunye namandla. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo esinjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ngokuchanekileyo yonke imiphumo evela kulolu nyathelo. Ungalibali ukuthetha nomntwana ukuqonda oko akufunayo. Emva kwakho konke, isigqibo sakho sithintela kuqala kubomi bomntu osondele kuwe.
Kodwa ukuba isigqibo sokugqibela senziwe, kwaye usebenza kwiminqweno yomntwana kunye nosapho, kufuneka ulungele kwaye uqaphele le ngxaki. Kule nqaku, siya kujonga kwinkqubo yokulahla inzala kwiRussian Federation nase-Ukraine.
Indlela yokufaka isicelo sokwenqaba ukutshatyalaliswa kwi-Russian Federation?
Ngaphantsi komthetho weRussian Federation, ukutshatyalaliswa ngokuzithandela kobunikazi akunikezelwa. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukudlulisela amalungelo kumntwana komnye umntu. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka wenze amanyathelo ambalwa:
- ukuphawulwa kwesicelo semvume yokuba ubaba athathe umntwana wakhe ngabanye abantu;
- umntu ofuna ukufumana umntwana kufuneka amangalele kwaye abhale isicelo sokwamkelwa;
- Oomama bavumelana nokusetyenziswa kobawo kunye nomfaki sicelo ukuba amkelwe.
Xa ezi zenzo zenziwa, onke amalungelo kumntwana adluliselwa kubaba omtsha. Ngoluhlobo lokulahla ubuntwaba, i-alimony ayimfuneko ukuhlawula. Kodwa awukwazi ukufaka isicelo sokugcinwa kwakho njengomntwana, emva kweminyaka yobudala. Intlawulo kumntwana kwipapa ye-biological okanye "documentary" igcinwa ide ibe nomzali omtsha.
Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukunqanda uyise wamalungelo omzali enkundleni, kodwa oku kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nobungqina obuqinileyo bokuthi upapa akakwazi ukuthobela uxanduva lwakhe lomzali. Emva koko banqatshelwe amalungelo omzali enkundleni, kwaye ubaba omtsha unokufumana okanye wamkela umntwana. Izizathu zokunqongophala kwamalungelo omzali:
- Umlutha ongapheliyo okanye utywala.
- Ukulimala komntwana okanye umama.
- Ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana.
- Ukwenqaba, ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle, ukuthatha umntwana wakho esibhedlele.
- Ukungenzi ukuzaliseka kwamalungelo omzali.
- Ixesha elingapheliyo lokuhlawulwa kwe-alimony.
Ungayinqaba njani inzala yaseUkraine?
EUkraine, inkqubo yokushiya i-paternity ihlukile. Oku kuya kufuna:
- ukubhala nokuphawula isicelo sokwenqatshelwa kobunikazi kumanothi;
- vumela ukuthotyelwa komntwana wakho ngabanye;
- oomama babhala imvume;
- fayile onke amaxwebhu enkundla;
- ukuba kukho umntu onqwenela ukumkela okanye wamkela umntwana, kufuneka afake i-suit ukuze amkelwe enkundleni.
NjengaseRashiya, kude kube ngumntwana womnye umntu, ubaba "wangaphambili" unyanzelekile ukuhlawula i-alimony kuye. Kwaye kufakela ukugcinwa, emva kobuninzi bomntwana, ubaba obhala ukungavumi akakwazi.
Ezinye iindlela zokushiya intando
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo, umntwana ubhalisiwe kungekhona uyise. Kule meko, unokwenza i-blaji enkundleni ukuba unqabe inzala. Kodwa kuphela xa, ngexesha lokurekhoda komntwana, uyise wayengayazi ukuba akayena ubaba we-biological of the baby. Kule meko, inzala ingaba umngeni ngoncedo lwezobugcisa. Okanye umama kufuneka aqinisekise ubungqina benkohliso. Kananjalo ubaba okhoyo unelungelo lokubhalwa kwitekisi malunga nokuqatshelwa kobuntwini kumntu walo.
Ukuba umntu wayesazi ukuba akayena uyise wobomi bomntwana kodwa wavunyelwa ukuba azalise umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, kufuneka avumele ukuba umntwana athathe umntwana.
Ukulungiselela inkundla
Ukunciphisa ixesha elithathwe ukuqokelela onke amaxwebhu, qhagamshelana nommeli. Uya kulungiselela amaphepha aze afake ngokufanelekileyo iminqweno yakho enkundleni. Lo mntu uya kunceda ukuqonda zonke iintlobo zokurhoxiswa kobuntwaba kwaye unokukhawulela ngokukhawuleza ityala.