Ubume bomntu buninzi. Isakhiwo sengqondo somntu ngamnye wethu ngabanye, ngendlela yakhe ekhethekileyo. Oku kwakhona kuphinda kuqinisekisile ukuba akukho bantu abanehlabathi elifanayo langaphakathi. Nabani na ohlukile, kwindawo yokuqala, kuba kuphela inani elithile leempawu zakhe ezizimeleyo kuye.
Umntu ngumntu onomlinganiselo ocacileyo weempawu zentlalo ezitholakalayo ebomini bakhe kuluntu. Kuye kwimeko ethile kuphela ebonakalayo. Kukho ezimbini izakhiwo zobuntu: ingqondo kunye nentlalo. Ngale nto uze uthethe ngokubanzi.
Isakhiwo sengqondo kunye nomxholo wobuntu
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba phantsi kwesakhiwo somntu ngokwesiko ukubonisa uluhlu lwezakhiwo ezingaguqukanga ezibonakaliswe ngezenzo, izigqibo zomntu kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Iingcali zengqondo, ezi zakhiwo zihlelwa zibe ziintlobo ezintathu:
- sizathu;
- izici zobuntu;
- ubuchule, ubuchule okanye izakhono.
Kulolu hlobo ngalunye lwezi ntlobo, ezibalulekileyo iingxenye zesakhiwo sengqondo somntu ngamnye, ukubonakalisa izinto ezintle zengqondo zomntu. Kodwa zihlawulelwa ngamancedo athile asemgangathweni ngamnye wethu.
Esi sakhiwo sibhekiselele kwisimo sengqondo esithile somntu ngamnye, izakhiwo zakhe zendawo, isimo sengqondo, izakhono, iimvakalelo, ukukhuthazwa, umlingiswa. Ukuba sithetha ngale nto ngokubanzi, ngoko kwengqondo, izicwangciso zesakhiwo sengqondo onokuzibonisa umntu:
- umntu oxhomekeke kuye;
- phuhliswa ngengqondo - ezinengqondo ezingenamlinganiselo;
- ngesibindi - umntu onentlonelo;
- ukuvinjelwa ngokwemvakalelo, ukuqonda - ukungaxhatshali ngokomoya;
- unamandla - uvuyo;
- ezintle-ezinobungqina;
- ukunyaniseka - uhanahaniso;
- Ukuguquguquka kokucinga, ubuhlobo - utyholongwane, ukuphanga;
- uvakalelo - ukunganaki;
- ukuqinisekiswa kweembono - i-autism;
- ukubonakalisa - ububele;
- ukunyaniseka - ukungathembeki;
- ukuvuleka - ubumfihlo;
- Ubuntu bokuzithemba - ukungaqiniseki;
- umntu omdala - umntwana;
- ukuqeqesha - ukusabalalisa kwengqondo;
- Uvuyo, umntu onoyolo - unxunguphekile, edabukisayo;
- ukuthobeka - ukunyaniseka;
- ukuthetha - unsociable;
- Ububele kukuzingca komntu;
- imbono ethembekileyo - ukungathembeki;
- umsebenzi - ukunyaniseka.
Kubalulekile ukuba kuqaphele ukuba kukho ininzi yemifanekiso yesakhiwo somfanekiso wesimo sengqondo somntu. Ukuze uyenze, kuyimfuneko ukuthembela kwiimpawu zomntu ezilandelayo:
- Malunga nobudala, isimo sezentlalo siya kuthi: impawu , indlela yokugqoka iimpahla.
- Ubungqina bomntu bubonakalisiwe: ukubonakalisa ubuso, impawu, iimpawu zentetho.
- Ngalo msebenzi: isigama esisetyenziswe ngethuba le ncoko.
- Kubuzwe, indawo yokuhlala: ukubiza.
- Kwizinto eziphambili kumntu ngamnye, ixabiso lakhe: umxholo weibinzana.
Ubume bentlalo-yengqondo yobuntu
Esi sakhiwo, ubuntu buhlolwa ngoxanduva lwayo kuluntu. Ngenxa yoko, masithi, ngobomi bentlalo, ezinye iipropati zezentlalo zikhula, iimpawu zibonakaliswe ngexesha loqhagamshelwano nabanye. Akuyi kuba ngongqangi ukukhankanya ukuba esi sakhiwo siquka amava omntu noluntu wengqondo (isethi yezakhono, izakhono, ulwazi lokuthetha), isikhundla sezentlalo (esakhiwe phantsi kwefuthe leemeko zokuphila komntu), ingqondo (imbono yabo yangaphakathi nangaphandle ihlabathi), i-cognitive sphere (ukubonakaliswa kwehlabathi ngokucinga, inzwa, njl.