Phantse ezisixhenxe izono ezibulalayo wonke umntu uvile, ezinye zazo aziyikungabaza, kodwa ezinye zibangelwa ukungaqondi kakuhle ubugebengu balezi ziganeko. Ngokomzekelo, ukungaziphathi (ukungabikho, ukuzinzi) njengesono akuqwalaselwe konke. Eneneni, oku akukubulala okanye ulwaphulo-mthetho, yintoni enokungalunganga ngokuziphatha okunjalo? Masizame ukuqonda ukuba "ukungabi nantoni" kuthetha ntoni, kwaye kutheni abaninzi bebheka ukuba ngumama wazo zonke izinto ezimbi.
Kuyintoni ukungaziphathi kakuhle?
Ngokuvisisanayo, igama elithi "ukungabi nalutho" alisoloko lisetyenziswe kwaye lithetha ntoni, kungekhona wonke umntu onokuthi, okokuqala kubalulekile ukuchaza le ngcamango. Ukuba ukhangeleka kwisichazi-magama esichazayo, ungabona izihlandlo eziliqela ukungazinzi - ubuvila , ukungabikho, ukuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kwanoma yimuphi umsebenzi osebenzayo. Kodwa kutheni ukungaziboni kuthathwa njengesono, ngaba kukho nabani na okwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwekhefu? Sonke sichitha ixesha lethu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngaphandle komsebenzi, ukuphumla, ukuchitha ixesha nosapho lwam, ukubukela iinkqubo zethelevishini okanye iindaba zakutshanje kwi-intanethi. Ngoko, sonke sibaboni abangenathemba, le ndawo ivela phi?
Omnye unokucinga ukuba ukungahambi njengento kuboniswa yinkcubeko yobuKristu, ingakumbi xa sikhumbula ukuxhomekeka kwimbali ebandleni kwabanye abemi - baya kuba bepholile, abayi kuzuza kakhulu, ngoko ke iparishi ayinakufumana imali eninzi. Inyaniso kukule ngcamango, kodwa akusiyo yonke into elula, umqondo womsebenzi awubhekiseli nje ngomsebenzi wenyama, kodwa nokusebenza kwengqondo. Okokuthi, xa umzimba wethu ungasebenzi, ingqondo iyaqhubeka isebenze - ukufumana nokufumana ulwazi olutsha, ukulungisa ulwazi olutholileyo kwaye wenze izigqibo. Kwaye naluphi na unqulo, nayiphi na imfundiso yokomoya, nkqu nangokwengqondo, kuthetha ukuthandwa komntu phezulu, oko kukuthi, uthetha ngesidingo sokwenza ngcono. Ngoko ke, uluvo lwesono esingenasiphelo esingenasono alukho imfuneko enkulu yonqulo njengemfuno yoluntu yendalo yophuhliso. Ukuziqhelanisa, sona ngokusesikweni sethu sabantu, siqhubela kwisimo sezilwanyana, singayazi amava aphezulu.
Ngoku ke intsingiselo yesitatimende esithi "ukungaboni kakuhle - umama wezo zonke izinto ezimbi" kuyacaca kwakhona, kuba ubuqili bubangela ukuba sibe nomnqweno wokungahlakuleli, ukuba sihlale sisendaweni. Kwaye akukho namnye kuthi uphelele, kwaye ngaphandle komsebenzi kuthi ngokwethu asiyi kugcina kuphela iimpawu ezimbi, kodwa nokuzihlakulela - ukuzithanda iminqweno yomzimba kuphela.