Ukungqubuzana kunye neendlela zokusombulula

Ukuba umntu uhlala ngokuvisisana naye kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo, unokuthiwa ngumntu onoyolo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukungathandabuzeki kwangaphakathi akunikeli ukuphumla kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuhlutha umphefumlo, sele sele umbuzo wongquzulwano lwangaphakathi. Siyacetyiswa ukuba siqonde uhlobo luni lokungquzulana olungabonakaliyo.

Uphi ukungquzulwano phakathi kwabantu?

Iingcali zengqondo zithetha ukuba imbambano yongquzulwano yintliziyo ibonisa ukungquzulana kwihlabathi leengqondo lomntu, oko kukubambisana kweenjongo zabo. Phakathi kwezi njongo zikhona iimfuno ezahlukeneyo, iimfuno, iinjongo, iinjongo kunye neenjongo. Kwi-psychoanalysis, indawo ephambili inikelwe kwimpikiswano phakathi kweemfuno kunye neziseko zentlalo, kunye kunye neemfuno zomntu ngokwakhe.

Iingxaki zoLwaphulo-mthetho

Kuyinto yesiko ukuhlukanisa iintlobo ezintathu eziphambili zezizathu ezihambelanayo:

1. Ukungaphakathi- kuboniswe ngokuchasene phakathi kwezinto ezihlukahlukeneyo zomntu ngaphandle kwesivumelwano phakathi kwezinto zesakhiwo sangaphakathi.
2. Ngaphandle - zifakwe kwisimo somntu kwiqela. Apha, ingxabano engaphelelanga ivela ekungenakwenzeka kokwanelisa iimfuno.
3. Ngaphandle, kufakwe kwisimo somntu emphakathini, idibene nombono onjengokungqubuzana komntu ochaphazelekayo kwinqanaba le-microsystems yentlalo kwaye kuvela kwiimeko zentlalo yoluntu kunye nobomi boqoqosho.

Imisebenzi yongquzulwano lwangaphakathi

Ezi ndlela ezilandelayo zendlela yokuzikhusela ngokwengqondo zibizwa ngokuba yimisebenzi eyakhayo neyonakalisayo. Iingcali zokuqala kwiinkalo zengqondo ziquka:

1. Ukuqhagamshelana (ulwazi, okanye ukudibanisa) - abantu baqala ngakumbi ukuqonda, ukuqonda nokuhamba ngokukhawuleza.
2. Umsebenzi we-stimulant kunye namandla angakwazi ukulawula utshintsho oluntu.
3. Umsebenzi ukhuthaze ukusekwa kwemali ebalulekileyo emphakathini.
4. Ukuqinisekisa ukuphuhliswa koluntu ngokudalula iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo.
5. Uncedo ngokuphinda uhlaziye imimiselo nemigangatho endala.

Imisebenzi yesibili iqhelekileyo:

1. Ukunganeliseki, ukulahlekelwa kwemveliso, isimo sengqondo esingasondelanga .
2. Ukunyanzeliswa kwezixhobo zonxibelelwano.
3. Ukuzinikela kwiqela lakho kunye nokungabi ncintiswano nabanye.
4. Ingcinga yomnye njengotshaba.
5. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunqoba ingxabano kunokusombulula ingxaki.
6. iimpawu zengxabano ezingaphelelanga

Ingcamango enjalo njengengxabano engaphelelanga inezinto ezilandelayo:

1. Ukudibanisa zonke izinto zeengcamango zehlabathi zangaphakathi.
2. Kukho ukungqubuzana phakathi kwezinto ezinomdla, iinjongo, iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno.
3. Ukubonakala kweempendulo ezingalunganga.

Iintlobo zeengxabano ezingabambanga

Iingcali zengqondo zibiza iintlobo ezinjalo zengxabano zomntu:

1. Ukukhuthaza - ukungavumelani phakathi kweminqweno yokuba neyokukhuseleko.
2. Imilinganiselo - akukho migaqo yokuziphatha komntu kunye nokuziphatha.
3. Ukulungelelaniswa - ubunzima beendawo zokuhlala kwiindawo zobugcisa kunye noluntu.
4. Ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo kukungavumelani phakathi kokuvavanya kwamakhono abo kunye namabango omntu.
5. Indima ephakathi - ukungakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi kwangoko.
6. Indima yomuntu- ukungahambelani kweendima zakhe ngenxa yokukwazi, okanye ubukho bomnqweno.
7. Ukungqubuzana kwezidingo - phakathi kwemigaqo yoluntu kunye neemfuno.

Iindlela zokusombulula iingxabano ezingenakubalwa

Iingcali zithetha malunga nendlela yokulungisa ingxabano engaphelelanga. Phakathi kweendlela eziphambili:

1. Ukuncintisana kubaluleke kakhulu ngexesha lokuqonda nokulungisa iingxaki ezingahambi kakuhle.
2. Ukunyamekela - ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ukuba "uyeke" imeko kwaye ungaze uzame ukuyicombulula.
3. Ukuhlaziywa kwakhona kukutshintshwa kwisimo sengqondo somntu.
4. Ukunciphisa i- sublimation kukutshintshwa kwamandla kwisitishi esikhulu.
5. Ukuzibona ngumbono , amaphupha, ukuhlukana kwinyani.
6. Uxinzelelo luyimpembelelo kwimvakalelo yakho, iiminqweno kunye neenjongo zokunciphisa.
7. Ukulungiswa - isimo sengqondo esaneleyo kuwe nakwihlabathi lakho langaphakathi.

Iziphumo zengxabano engaphelelanga

Ukuthetha ngento enjengokungquzulana, kubalulekile ukusho ngemiphumo yakhe. Babiza iziphumo ezintle nezimbi. Phakathi kwezinto ezimbi:

• ukulibaziseka kuphuhliso lomntu;
• ulungelelaniso;
• ukukhankanya ngokugqithiseleyo, uxinzelelo kunye nokuxinezeleka;
• ukungakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yoluntu nemisebenzi;
• ugonyamelo okanye ukungeniswa;
• ukungaqiniseki ngokwamandla abo;
• ukungabonakali kwenjongo yobomi;
• ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nokuchaswa naluphi na ukugxekwa kwidilesi yabo;
• isityholo sabanye ngokuhluleka kwabo;
• maxa wambi kukho impikiswano yobundlobongela kunye neurosisis.

Phakathi kweziphumo ezintle:

• ukuthoba intando kunye nomntu womntu ;
• ukuzikhupha nokuziphucula;
• ukuhlanganiswa kwezibonelelo zomntu;
• ukuzinza kwengqondo.