Ukucoca

Ukuxothwa kwintsana ebusweni kuyisinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka sigqitywe, ngokulinganisa yonke into. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ulungele ukuba akayi kufumana ubisi lwebele. Yingakho kungenakwenzeka ukuseka ixesha elithile, apho kunokwenzeka ukunyusa, kwaye emva koko-akunakwenzeka.

Ukucukuceza umntwana ukususela kwibele

Khumbula ukuba ukugungqa okubukhali kukukhathazeka kwengqondo kwiimvumba. Ukucwina okungenasiphelo kwibele kunokwenzeka kuphela xa umntwana, ngokwezinga elithile, engqondweni nangokwenyama angenza ngaphandle kwebele. Ukuxotshwa emva konyaka yinto into nawuphi na umama onokumele azame. Ukuba kukho umnqweno kunye nethuba lokuqhubeka nokuncelisa kunye nokude, koko kufuneka kwenziwe.

Ukucocwa ehlobo nasebusika

Ukuxotshwa kunye nokutshintshwa kwondlo kunye nokukhwela okungafaniyo kuxhomekeke kwixesha. Into yokuqala ukuba umama akhumbule kukuba umntwana kufuneka athole inani elaneleyo lokuhambisa amanzi. Yingakho ufuna ukunika umntwana ngaphezulu amanzi, ijusi. Kwaye ehlotyeni umlinganiselo wamanzi kufuneka ube ngama-30% ngaphezu kwebusika, njengoko umntwana ekhupha kwaye ngexesha elinye lilahlekelwa ngumthamo omkhulu.

Ukuxothwa kwendalo kweso sifuba kukuxothwa kwintsimi evezwe ngumntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo eli lixesha xa umntwana engayidingi intsasa ngaphezu kwe-1-3 ngosuku, kwaye isicelo senziwa ngokubanzi malunga nokulala.

Ekuqaleni kunconywa ukuba weqa ukunxilisa, ukufaka endaweni yokukhwela. Emva koko unako ukondla ngamaxesha athile omhla, umzekelo, kusasa okanye ngokuhlwa. Kancinci, ukuncelisa ibele kuya kuncitshiswa. Ngomntwana ngamnye, ixesha lokuxothwa kwebhokhwe lomama liya kuba ngabanye. Omnye uya kuba neenyanga ezaneleyo, kwaye umntu akakwazi ukuphuma ekunceliseni iinyanga ezintandathu.

Kunokuba unqabise isifuba ekuxothweni?

Izindlela zokugaya ziyakwazi ukuhluka. Umama angazakhela inkqubo yokuxotha kunye nokuyilandela, unokushiya umntwana ixesha elithile, okanye kunokumnciphisa umntwana ukuba angathathi isifuba. Kule ndlela yokugqibela, ungasebenzisa inkcenkceshe okanye izinto ezibonakalayo ezihlaselayo. Umzekelo, unokwenza isifuba sakho ngento enomsindo okanye emuncu, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana ancede. Unokusasaza imifuno kumabele akho ukuze amabele akho umntwana abonakale engaqhelekanga okanye engathandekiyo ukusondeza.

Inkqubo yokuxothwa

Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukucocwa okunyamekayo kunokwenzeka ngoncedo lwenceba. " Njengokuba umthi ungalangazeli umthi, ngoko umntwana akaze alangazelela amabele " -amazwi athethwa ngumama, ekhangele ngefestile ngokusebenzisa intloko yomntwana.