Ubulumko kunye nokuqonda

Ubumnono kunye neentloko ezingxowanisiweyo zixhunyaniswe ngokuthe ngqo. Enye igobolondo yangaphandle, enye ingomxholo, ehlanganiswe ngesigqubuthelo semfihlelo, nakwixesha lethu langoku. Ngoku abaninzi iingcali zizama ukufumana iindlela ezifanelekileyo kunye nezilula zokusebenza kunye neengcaphephe ngqondweni yomntu. Njengamanje, ezo ndlela azifumaneki kuwo wonke umntu.

Ubulumko kunye nokunakwa kwengqondo: kwengqondo

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuqonda kunye nokungaqondi komntu akufanele kubonwe njengento enzima kwaye ayiqondakali. Ubulumko yingqondo yethu, iingcamango zethu ngehlabathi, indlela esiyiqonda ngayo umzekelo wehlabathi owanikelwa ngabazali nootitshala. Kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba imodeli yento yokwenene kunye neyona nyaniso yinto ehlukile. Ngoko ukuba ukuqonda kwethu kuqonda kakuhle imodeli yehlabathi ukuba isithethe sethu sisinikeza. Kodwa i-subconscious iyayiqonda ihlabathi ngokwayo, indlela eqhubekayo, ivela kwiingcamango zethu ezingenanto.

Ubulumko kunye nokungazi kakuhle ( ukungazi ) zixhunyaniswe ngokuthe ngqo: i-subconscious idala inyaniso yethu, kwaye ukuqonda kudlala indima yombonisi wale nyaniso. Iingcali ziqinisekile: ngokusebenza kwi-subconscious, umntu unokufunda ngokugqibeleleyo ukwenza utshintsho lwayo kwaye ufumane indlela yokuphuma kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Kwaye kufuneka kuchukumise yena nje - ukutshintsha iingcamango zakhe. Xa ucinga ngakumbi ngokulungileyo kwakho, bhetele konke kuvela. Kwaye ngokuthe ngqo. Oko kukuthi, ukubonakala kweengcinga yinguqulo elula yokusebenzisana nokuqonda.

Ukungqubuzana kokuqonda kunye nokuqonda

Ukungqubuzana kokuqonda kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle kunokukhokelela kwiintsholongwane ezahlukeneyo. Iimeko ezinjalo zenzeka ngathi ngokuqhelekileyo: Ngokomzekelo, intombazana ixabana nabalingane bakhe kwaye ayifuni ukuxazulula iingxaki. Kwaye ke uqala ukugula, ukuya eluhlu lwegulane, kunye nokunye ixesha elide ukuba ogqirha sele bephakamisa izandla zakhe. Yaye le nto imzabalazo yenkqutyana kunye nokuqonda - intombazana engaphakathi iyakwicala ukuxazulula ingxabano kwaye izimisele ukuyiphepha, nangona ukuba kungekudala emva koko uza kufuneka asebenze aze asombulule ingxaki.

Njengoko kucacile kumzekelo, i-subconscious ayenzi ukuvumelanisa, ilinde umntu ukuba aphule, kwaye unamandla ngakumbi ukulwa, imiphumo eyingozi. Kwaye kubonakala ukuba ngenxa yongquzulwano lwentliziyo kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle ukuba sinezifo, ukuphazamiseka, ukwesaba, ukucaphuka. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqonde i-subconscious yakho kwaye ungayifumana indlela, kuya kuba lula ukusombulula nayiphi na ingxaki eqhubekayo.