I-borrowdom ukuthula komphefumlo. Ihlaziywa ngobomi kwaye ihlanganisa zonke iimvakalelo ngokunyaniseka nokulangazelela. Asinakuvuyela nantoni na kwaye asinomdla. Ukunganakwa akusivumeli ukuba siqulunqe nayiphi na iminqweno. Siqala ukugxeka ubomi, ncinane kumaganeko. USete kunye ... qhubeka uthuthuka. Kutheni sifunelwa ukuba siphile, kwaye yintoni enokuyenza xa unamathele, siya kuthetha ngale nto namhlanje.
Kutheni sifumana kukukhathaza ukuhlala?
- Isizathu esiyinhloko sokulahlekelwa ngumdla ebomini kukungabikho kweenjongo. Akunakunxunguba ezincinci ezifana nodoti, ukuvala ingqalelo, kodwa iimfuno ezenza sikwazi ukuvakalelwa ukubaluleka kobukho bethu. Xa sinenjongo, yonke imihla iyabonakala. Kwaye iingcamango malunga nokupheliswa kobukho azifumananga indlela eyaziwayo;
- Isizathu sesibini ukungabikho kokholo kuye. Ukuba ukholelwa ukuba akukho nto ixhomekeke kuwe kweli hlabathi, ngokuzenzekelayo uzibambe izinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila. Nangona uvalelwa ngumyeni wakho, oko kuthetha ukuba awuzithembi wena kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezile;
- ukuba awukholelwa kuwe, ngoko unalo uthando olwaneleyo. Vumelanani: kunye nomthandayo akayithandi. Ngokukodwa xa umthandayo.
Kuthekani ukuba utyhafile ngokuphila?
Emva kokuba wenze isigqibo esiqinileyo sokulwa nesantya, uthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ukuzalisa ubomi bakho ngenjongo. Si nikela:
- Ukuchonga iinjongo kunye neempawu eziphambili ebomini. Ngokuqhelekileyo sizama ukukrazula i-boredom ngokusebenzisa imicimbi emincinci, kodwa iyenze ibenze ingxaki yokuphila okungenamsebenzi. Ukuchonga iinjongo ezininzi zehlabathi.
- Isilungiso esihle sokukhuphaza siya kuba ... kuhle. Ukuba uzisa abantu, uvule ngokuzenzekelayo ubomi bakho ngenjongo ejulile. Nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukunika into ongenayo. Kuba, ufuna ...
- Funda ukuzithanda. Abaninzi bethu bathetha ngokuthandana nathi, ngoxa sihlambalaza, sitsho, singathembi intliziyo yakho. Uthando luyamkela ngokupheleleyo. Zivume ukuba ungubani okwangoku. Ngaphandle koko, ubomi buya kuba ngumzabalazo, kungekhona ukufumana umphefumlo omhle kakhulu.
- Ukuba uhlala ufuna ukusebenzisa i-commentary kaGogol kwi "Itale ye-Ivan Ivanovich's Collision kunye no-Ivan Nikiforovich", bathi, "Kunzima (ukuhlala) kweli hlabathi, ndoda!", Cinga ngendlela ongayandisa ngayo imida yehlabathi lakho. Ubuninzi obungabonakaliyo buhlala ngaphandle kwesazi zethu kuphela ngenxa yokuba sithandwa ngezinto ezincinci kwaye asifuni ukufunda. Khumbula indlela inomdla ngayo ihlabathi ebuntwaneni xa wawuvuleleke kwiimvakalelo ezintsha.
- I-borrowing ingaba ngumphumo wesifo esibangela ukulahlekelwa amandla kunye nokunganakwa, kwakunye nobufakazi bokudakumba. Kule meko, hlalutya ukutya kwakho kunye nesingqino sobomi, ngokubanzi. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, sebenzisa iinkonzo zengcali, ungadinga iziyobisi zokulwa nokukhathala okungapheliyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ukuncipha kwamandla kubonisa ukusilela
kumsebenzi weeseli zesisindo, ezenza ama-catecholamines. Ziyi-catecholamines eziququzelela isenzo kwiindawo zokugcina amandla zamaseli ethu omzimba. Enye yeendlela ezilula ukunyusa ukukhutshwa kweekatilamlam kubanda kakhulu okanye iibhola zokuhlamba. - Ukuba unesizungu nomyeni wakho, thetha ngawo. Ungashiyi ingxaki yokuvuthwa ngaphakathi kwakho, khangela isisombululo kunye, kuba uyintsapho, isibini. Ukuba inzondelelo ihambelana nokungabi nthando, ngoko ubuncinane ngaphandle kokuhlonela iimvakalelo zangaphambili, musa ukuzivumela ukuba zizalwe kabusha.
Zihloniphe kunye nelungelo lomnye umntu ukuba athandwe.