Ngamnye wethu ujongene nezihlandlo ezinjalo xa kubonakala ngathi ebomini kuye kwafika iqela elimnyama kwaye akuyi kuba yindlela yokuphuma kuyo. Kulo mzuzwana, sithatha uxinzelelo, ukunganakwa nokuphelelwa yithemba. Kubonakala ngathi ihlabathi liphela lisuka kuthi, kwaye asiyidingi mntu kunye neengxaki zethu. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zimo: ukungaphumeleli kwintsebenzo, iingxaki ezixhalabisayo, ezithe zawa phezu kwethu ngokukhawuleza okanye nje ukukhathala okungapheliyo. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, isibhakabhaka asikho. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sifumane isimo sengqondo esihle.
Indlela yokuba ngumntu othe tye?
Siza kukutyhila imfihlakalo eyingozi - zonke iingxaki zethu azikho iziganeko eziqhelekileyo ezingabonakali ngexesha lethu ebomini bethu. Iingxaki zabo zenza sibe sengqondo kubo. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba ufumane isimo sengqondo sengqondo, ufanele ulahlekelwe amandla angenamandla. Ngokomthetho wokukhanga, sithola oko sikucingayo. Ngoko ungamangalisi ukuba, umzekelo, ukhangela i-wallet, uthi: "Anginayo imali" kwaye le mali ayifuni ukubonakala. Wena ngokwakho wanikela umyalelo kwinto yokuba ayenjalo. Zama endaweni yokuthetha kaninzi ukuba unakho konke kwaye uyavuya. Ngoko, oko kufuneka uyenze kuqala:
- Yeka ukukhalaza ngobomi. Ukuba ujwayele ukubona ubomi bemibala egciniweyo, ngoko-mva wezinto ezibuhlungu zibhale ephepheni ezo ngxaki kunye neemeko zobomi ongazifuna ukusilahleka ngonaphakade. Emva koko, usebenzisa iipencilisi ezinemibala, udwebe umfanekiso wento ongathanda ukuyichitha (umntu akayikho apha). Kungaba nayiphi na indlela okanye umhlathi. Yenza ngokuzwakalayo: "Ndiyichitha iimvakalelo ezibi ebomini bam kunye nale nto." Emva koko iqabunga kufuneka liqothulwe kwaye likhutshwe ngaphandle kwendlu kunye nenkunkuma;
- ufunde ukuphelisa umsindo wakho. Ungayilahla ngexesha lokuzivocavoca, ukugijima okanye ukubhukuda. Into ephambili kukuba, ingqumbo yakho inamandla, iqinile ibe ngumthwalo ngokomzimba;
- bafunde ukuphumla nokuphumla ngexesha. Zonke iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo zikhokelela ekukhuselweni kwezihlunu kunye namalungu. Yenza umzimba wakho imihla ngemihla. Unokwenza ululatho lwemihla ngemihla, okanye wolule nje ngentambo ephantsi. Oku kuya kubakho kwimpilo enkulu kunye nesimo esihle sengqondo.
Yintoni esinika isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ebomini? Ukuqhayisa nokunyaniseka, njengommiselo, awuzuzi nantoni na ebomini. Kuye kwangexesha elide libonakaliswe ukuba umntu uyamkhwelisa amandla awayezikhuphayo. Njengesibuko, iinkqubo zethu zengqondo zethu kwikamva. Kukho intsingiselo enhle - "ubomi bomntu, yiloo nto acinga ngayo". Ngoko ke, yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bethu yiphumo leengcamango zethu. Ngoko ke, ukuba uye wazibuza ukuba ungazilungisa njani, ulungele ukuyeka indlela endala yokucinga kwaye uqale ukuhlala ngokuhlukileyo.
Ungayilungisa njani ukuba ulungile?
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuba ngumntu ontle. Eyokuqala kubo kukuqinisekiswa. Ngamaxesha amaninzi kunokwenzeka, zixelele iibinzana eziqinisekileyo zokuphila, uzilungiselele iimvakalelo ezintle. Cinga ngezinto othanda ukuzenza kwikamva elikufutshane, qulunqa kwesi sihloko ibinzana elinamandla kwaye uliphindaphindiwe rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Olunye ukhetho luboniswa. Khawucinge ngomnqweno wakho okanye umnqweno wakho njengento eyenzekileyo. Uya kuhlala njani, kwaye yintoni eya kuguqula ebomini bakho, ukuba into enokuphupha ngayo iya kuzaliseka? Ngokukhawuleza njengoko kunokwenzeka kwaye ngokubanzi uzenzele lo mzuzu ovuyayo, kwaye uya kuzaliseka. Kwakhona ukhetho oluhle kukuzibeka ngokwakhayo kwikhadi elinqwenelayo. Yakha i-collage kwifom yeendonga zeepapasho, apho ubeka khona iifoto okanye iifowuni zokukhawulwa kweenjongo zakho, iimfuno kunye neminqweno. Yenza ikhadi elinqwenelayo kwindawo evelele ukuze iminqweno yakho ihlale ibonakala kwaye ikukhumbuze oko ufuna.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, landela amathiphu ambalwa okulula ukuba ube ngumntu othe tye:
- xabisa yonke imzuzu yobomi bakho. Abantu abaninzi ngokukhawuleza kwangoko, uxinzelelo kunye neentlungu aziqapheli ezo zivuyo kunye nezihlwele ezinikwe imihla ngemihla ebomini bethu. Funda ukuyeka kwanomzuzwana, ufumane ubuhle behlabathi elikujikelezile;
- rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuthetha nabanye. Ungazivali ngokwakho. Ukuzifumanisa ukuzifumanisa akukhokeli kuyo nayiphi na enye ngaphandle kokudandatheka;
- Thola ukulala ngokwaneleyo. Kuye kwangqina ukuba isibonakaliso sokuqala sesimo esihle sempilo yakho. Iiyure eziyi-7-8 zobuthongo obunempilo zanele ukuba uvuke ngomoya opheleleyo;
- Musa ukuphishekela inzuzo. Njengoko uyazi, awukwazi ukufumana yonke imali. Funda ukuvuya ngenxa yoko,
oko usenayo kwaye uya kuvuya; - ba ndakanya kwi nkcubeko. Njengoko sele kuthethwe ngazo, ukuzivocavoca umzimba kuyindlela enhle yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokungahambi kakuhle. Imisebenzi yezemidlalo yenza kwiingqondo zethu kunye nabaxinzelelekileyo. Yenza ukuqhuba ekuseni kwaye impilo yakho kunye nemizwa iya kuphucula ngokuphawulekayo.
Yaye uzame ukubheka uhlangothi oluhle kuyo yonke into. Khumbula - zonke iingxaki ziyithintelo endleleni yokonwaba. Ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha imeko - tshintsha isimo sengqondo kuwo, kwaye kungekudala uzakuqaphela ukuba amandla athile ngokwawo akhangele kuwe. Zithanda wena kweli hlabathi, kwaye ihlabathi liya kukubuyisela!