Kukho uluvo lokuba ubhiya lukhuthaza ukuveliswa kobisi. Abanye oogqirha bade banike umongikazi ukuba athathe imvubelo ye-brewer. Nangona kunjalo, uphando olutshanje kulolu hlobo lubonisa ukuba konke oku kuyingcamango yebhere kunye neyantyambo ayinakuhambelani kunokuba inenzuzo. Ixesha eliqhelekileyo, nangona elincinci, ukutywala kotywala kunokuphazamisa umveliso wobisi.
Abathandi bebhiya baya kugxininisa ukuba isiselo sinezivithamini ezinobomi kunye neqela elipheleleyo lezinto ezilandelwayo. Kodwa ndixelele, akunakufumana zonke ezi zinto zisebenzayo kwezinye izinto? Emva kwakho konke, ubhiya, okokuqala, isiselo esinxilisayo.
Ngaba unako ukusela ubhiya kumama wakho onomntwana?
Ngaloo 1 ilitha yobhiya obuncinane (uqulethe u-5% utywala) uyakwazi ukubulala amaseli ezinama-6000. I-ethyl yotywala ngokuqhelekileyo inetyhefu ebulala iseli sesibindi, izintso, isifo, ibangela umonakalo ongenakucatshangelwa kwizitho zangasese, kubangele ukungalingani kwe-hormonal.
Cinga nje, ukuba nje nje ukuba unina oncelisayo unxilise ubhiya, isibindi sesana siphume ngokukhawuleza siphume utywala obufikile. Ukususela kotywala, umntwana unobungozi bokulala, ingxaki yokuphuhliswa, ngokukodwa-uphuhliso lwezakhono zamandla. Umntwana onomama odla rhoqo ubhiya kunye nezinye iziyobisi ezinxilisayo emva kokufumana ubunzima.
Ngaphezu koko, ubhiya, njengalowo uphuhliso olutywala, lubangela umlutha ngokukhawuleza nokuxhomekeka. Kwixesha elizayo, umntwana ophethwe ngu "ubisi obisi" unako ukujongana nengxaki yokusela utywala.
Ngaba ndingakwazi ukusela ubhiya obungenawo utywala?
Ngaba unina oqhawulayo unokuthatha utshwala ngokusetyenziswa kotywala? Eyona nto, okokuqala, utywala usele kubhiya ongeyotywala, nangona ubuncinane. Okwesibini, izaliswe i-chemistry ye-chemistry, engabalulekanga kubantu abaqhelekileyo, kungabikho ukukhulelwa nokukhulelwa. Emva koko, ukwenzela ukuba ungenzi onxilisayo, umenzi ufuna ngaphezulu "pokoldovat" phezu kwesiselo.
Kodwa kakuhle, ngoko uMama uya kukunandipha isiselo sakho esiyintandokazi, cima ukoma kwakho kunye ... ukuqhawula imikhono yakho, kuya kuba nzima ukujongana nemiphumo yakho. Namhlanje imeko leyo kukuba nabazali abanempilo ngaphandle kwemikhwa emibi abanakukwazi ukufumana abantwana abanempilweni. Kutheni kuphucula imeko, ukuba unako ukulinda elincinci?