Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abafazi abalungileyo, begqoke kakuhle kwaye bahlambuluke kakuhle, bahlala e cafe ngaphandle kwaye baphuphe kuphela ukumazi indoda, kwaye iigundane ezingenangqiqo ezingqambileyo zizungezwe isihlwele sabantu abathandayo. Kususela kukuxhomekeke kwindlela yokukholisa abantu besuka kwindlela yokujonga ngayo i-psychology - kweli nqaku.
Ungaqala njani ukuthanda amadoda?
- Kubonakala. . Kufanelekile ukuthetha amagama amabini malunga nokubonakala: ibhinqa limele lijonge kakuhle kwaye lihle. Makungabi yingubo ebiza kakhulu, kodwa imbonakalo kufuneka ifanele ukuthetha , kwaye ukungcola kubandakanywa ngokupheleleyo.
- Ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka . Njengoko kuyaziwa, amadoda ngokwemvelo ziinkokheli, abahluleli nabazingeli, oku kuthetha ukuba umntu kufuneka aziphathe ngokufanelekileyo-ukuba avele engenamandla, angakhuseliyo kwaye aphephe. Amadoda atyathwa kubafazi "i-mangy", enekhenkco ebonakalayo phantsi kwe-eyelashes, isenzo esithambileyo, ilizwi elithulileyo, kunye neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - ukumncoma okumnandi. Okokufuna ukukholisa abantu, kuyafaneleka ukuyihlaziya phambi kwesibuko. Emva kokuba uqhagamshelane nemehlo, kubalulekile ukuseka kunye nokudibanisa, kwaye oku akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwenzala yomntu, kuye oko akutshoyo.
- Ukungabi nabugovu. Ukungabi nandaba, umona nokuzikhukhumeza kubangele abameli bezesondo ezinamandla, kodwa ukufudumala kwamehlo nomnqweno wokuphulaphula rhoqo kwixabiso. Akunjalo na ke akunakunikwa ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ingqwalasela enjalo. Ingakanani indoda engayi kuba nayo imali, kufuneka iqiniseke ukuba uyayithanda loo ntokazi, kwaye kungekhona njengenxilongo kubo.
- Ukuhlonipha . Abasetyhini abanamandla nabanelisayo banomtsalane kubasetyhini, bezithembele, abangazange baxhomeke kwiintamo zabo kwaye bawuboni wonke umntu kwi-counter njengethuba lokutshata . Ukuzihlonela kuya kuhlonipha kunye nabo bajikeleze, kwaye esinye esinye isizathu sokuba sibe kunye nomlingane onjalo.
Abo banomdla wendlela yokufumanisa ukuba umfazi uthanda umntu ufanelekile ukubukela indlela amjonga ngayo, amphatha, aziphatha. Uyayikhathalela umntu onomdla kuyo, uthi ukuncoma kwaye uzama ukuba luncedo.