Ukuba iminyaka emininzi edlulileyo isihloko sobudlelwane bobulili obufanayo besenqatshelwe, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ngenxa yenguquko yezesondo, imeko yatshintsha. Abantu abaninzi, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukugwetywa koluntu, baxelele ukuqhelaniswa kwabo. Ngokubhekisele kumazwe e-CIS le ngxelo ihlala ifihliwe, amaninzi amanqaku ahlala engaziwa.
Kuthetha ntoni "ukuphuma"?
Leli lizwi lomsuka wesiNgesi kwaye ngokuguqulela kwangempela kuthetha ukutyhila. Ekumemezeni, umntu uyaqaphela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ungumntu wesini okanye umzimba wakhe awuhambisani nokuqonda. Ukuze siqonde ukuba "ukuphuma" kuthetha ukuthini, siyaqaphela ukuba abantu abanobungqingili, abalingani, abasetyhini kunye nabaxhamli (LGBT) basebenzisa le nkcazo.
Igama elithi "kamba out", intsingiselo eyayifumana isiseko esithile senzululwazi, yafundwa kakuhle yi-American psychologist E. Hooker. Eli bhinqa lithatha isifundo esi sihloko kuma-50. Kukho elinye ixesha elifanayo-ukufikelela, esetyenziswe xa abantu bechazela into yokuba umntu ophantsi kwezesondo zobuncwane kwifomu enobudlova ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe.
Abadumileyo abenza inkampu
Nangona uluntu lwangoku lukhululiwe, akubona bonke abakulungele ukutyhila iimfihlelo zabo, ngokukodwa ukuba kunabantu abaneleyo abagweba ama-homosexuals. Amanani amaninzi karhulumente anquma ukuvakalisa ukuqhelaniswa kwabo kwihlabathi. Ukukhuphela ngaphandle kweentlanga zihlala zivakala kwaye zibhenkcelela ingqalelo kwiphephandaba kunye noluntu. Abanye abantu basebenzisa eli galelo kwi-PR.
Ukukhwaza okukhulu kakhulu
Ababhali beendaba kunye nababukeli abaqhelekileyo bayaqiniseka ukuba abaninzi abantu basesidlangalaleni, akubona bonke abakulungele ukuthetha ngokucacileyo kwesi sihloko. Oku kubangelwa umngcipheko ophezulu wokulahlekelwa kweefesti kunye neerhafu. Kukho nawuphi na umthetho okhoyo, kwaye ezinye iinkwenkwezi zivulekileyo kuluntu. Phakathi kwazo zonke izibhengezo, kukho amabali axhalabisa uluntu:
- Khankanya uRonaldo . Enye iindaba zazikhupha i-intanethi, njengoko kwaxelwa ukuba uRonald wavuma ukungaqhelekanga. Kwenzeka ngexesha lomdlalo we "Real" e-Atletico Madrid, xa umdlali weqela eliphikisanayo wabiza uCristiano Ronaldo ongqingili , apho wamphendula ngokuvuma, wongezelela ukuba ucebile. Ngelo xesha kwakungazange kubekho ubungqina obusemthethweni.
- Khangela uYodie Foster . Umdlali owaziwayo wamkela i-Oscars ne-Golden Globes, edlala indima enkulu. Ukuba sele uzimisele ukushiya ekuphumleni okufanelekileyo, uye wavakalisa, ukuba ukhangwa ngabasetyhini. Ngonyaka emva kokuqatshelwa koluntu, uJody watshata nomfaki-zithombe A. Hedison.
- Daniel Craig . Mayelana nomdlali owaziwayo ngendima kaYakobi Bond ngezihlandlo kwakukho amahemuhemu malunga nokuziqhelanisa kwakhe okungokwemveli. Ioli yayithululelwa emlilweni nguDaniel ngokwakhe, owabonakala kunye nabahlobo bakhe kwiklabhu yama-gay. Ababonela ngamehlo bathi bade babona inkwenkwezi ye-movie ibanga indoda. Ngeli xesha, uDaniel Craig akaphumekanga ngokusemthethweni.
- Jake Gyllenhaal . Amahemuhemu malunga nokuqhelaniswa kwe-actor wavela emva kokuba edlala igayas. Abangqingili bokwenene bathi enye yodwa inokudlala ngokukhawuleza. Ngeli xesha, uJake Gyllenhaal akenzanga ukuphuma.
- URobert Pattinson . Umdlali, ukunika udliwano-ndlebe kwi-portal yaseNdiya, wathi amantombazana amaninzi ayamthandi, kwaye uvakalelwa ngumntu. Kuze kube ngoku, izigidi zabalandeli zizama ukuqonda ukuba uRobert Pattinson wenza inkampu okanye ayikho, kuba le portal ivame ukuvelisa "amadada".
- Angelina Jolie . Umdlali onetalente oye wafumana isihloko esithi "ngowona mhlekazi", u-Angelina Jolie, owathi ukuphuma kwakhe kwenzelwa enye yodliwano ndlebe, ngumntu wesini.
- Ukukhupha i-Ellen Page eyenziwe kwi-LGBT, ixesha lokuphumelela, apho umdlali wezobugcisa wathi ukhathele ukufihla ubungqina bakhe kunye nokubandezeleka kweentlanga.
- Kristen Sewart . Omnye wamaphephancwadi othandwa ngumdlali omncinci "iTwilight Saga" watsho ngokunyanisekileyo ngobundlobongela bakhe, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo Ukuphuma kukaChristie Stewart akahlose ukwenza oko, kuba akayifumene nesi siganeko esikhulu.
- URicky Martin , owathi ukuphuma kwakhe uye waxhatshaza abaninzi, wavuma izono kwiwebhusayithi yakhe. Namhlanje uvelisa oonyana ababini kunye nezicwangciso zokuqalisa intsapho kunye nesoka lakhe.
Ukukhutshwa kwabangamaRashiya
Kwiintlobo zezesondo zaseRussia zinenzondelelo, ngoko ke iingxelo ezivulekileyo ziyiyo. Abantu abasagqibe ekubeni bathathe isinyathelo esinjalo, bajamelana nokungaqondani nokugwetywa. Abanye abantu abakarhulumente abanamasiko angaqhelekanga bayabonwa njengabadenge.
- Eyona nto ixubusha ngayo i-Panin out, eyathatha inxaxheba kumboniso "Umtsalane wamanga", apho waphendula khona kwimibandela yokukhazamisa, kuquka ukuqhelana naye. U-Alexei wathi uyabelana ngesondo.
- Phakathi kweemvumi, umntu ogqwesileyo kakhulu owaziwayo ngumfazi ngu-Eva Polna, inkampu engazange imangalise abalandeli abaninzi. Umculi wathi ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nomlawuli we-PR u-Alexandra.
- Intombi kaMikhail Efremov yenza ukuphuma ngokubhala kwi-intanethi yentlalo enkulu. Enye intombazana yamkela ukuba unobuntu obuhlukileyo.
- Umdlali ogxekayo uNikita Dzhigurda kwi-intanethi uthe ngokukhawuleza kufuneka alindele ukuvakalelwa kuye. Emva kokuqhawula umtshato, wonke umntu waqala ukuthetha ngokuqhelana naye. U-Dzhigurda wamisa inkampu, kodwa wayekhathalele iingxaki zakhe zengqondo, kungekhona ukunyanzelana ngesondo.
Imibuzo ephathelele kwesihloko - kuthiwa ukuthini igama elithi "cumming out", akufanele livele emva kweenkcazo ezifunyenweyo. Wonke umntu ufanele aphile ngaphandle kwemingcele kunye nemingcele, ebonisa ukuba uyinyaniso, engesabi ukukhandwa ngamatye. Abantu banemibono eyahlukileyo malunga nobungqingili, kodwa ukukhanyela ukuba kubakho ubuncinane.