Ixesha elide iTV kunye neendaba ezahlukeneyo zenze i-stereotype kumntu wanamhlanje ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka ahambelane. Amadoda kufuneka agxothwe, kunye namantombazana aphilileyo. Ngako oko, umbuzo uvela kwingqondo yabasetyhini banamhlanje: yintoni enokuyenza xa ndibutyebi.
Okokuqala, akukho mfuneko yokukhawuleza nokusazela. Hlaziya imbonakalo yakho, iiparitha zakho. Cinga ngoluphi na le ngcamango uze usebenze. Into yokuqala oko kufuneka uyenze kukuqinisekisa ukuba ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukuthatha nawaphi na amanyathelo kunye nokuba kufuneka ukuba babe nzima kangakanani.
"Ndiyingozi kwaye ndatyebile!"
Ezi zimbonakaliso zombini zibonakala zilingana rhoqo. Sekude kubekho ubungqina bokuthi indoda ithandwa kwiiparameters zomzimba ngokwazo, kunye nobukhulu bayo. Ibhinqa elipheleleyo elinesifuba esihle, umgca omhle wekhondlo kunye nesinqe esincinci (ngokubhekiselele kwizinqamlezo) ihlala ibonwa njengento enhle, inomtsalane kwaye ibonakalisa kakhulu.
"Kubonakala ngathi ndibuthathaka"
Olu hlobo luyabonakala kakhulu kwabesetyhini. Ukujonga ukuba kukho ingxaki eqinisweni kulula. Okokuqala, kukho itafile elula. Kulo, ubunzima bufaniswa nokukhula. Ngokomzekelo, ukwanda kwe-170 cm ubunzima bomzimba 55 kg kuthathwa njengenganele. Kodwa ngokukhula okufanayo kwe-95 kg kubonisa ukuqala kokunyanya.
"Bandibiza ngamanqatha"
Olu khuthazo luninzi kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo. Kule meko, kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwisondlo kunye nomsebenzi womzimba womntwana, ukungabikho kwengcinezelo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba kwiminyaka embalwa umntwana angatshintsha kakhulu. Yaye ukuba imeko enjalo ixhalaba ngumntu omdala, okokuqala kukufanelekile ukucinga. Mhlawumbi oku akusiyo imbono, kodwa ukungafuni okanye ukukhwele.
"Umntu uthi ndithobile"
Amadoda anamehlo - oku yi nyaniso. Yaye ukuba umntu wakho uthetha ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye uphakamise ukuxazulula le ngxaki kunye, kulungele ukuphulaphula. Kodwa le meko iqhelekile. Indoda idinga ukubonakala okugqibeleleyo kumfazi. Ayithathi nkathalo enkulu kwisisu nge cubes kwimeko yayo. Kungcono ukuba ungaliphulaphuli loo ngcebiso.
Ukuba ndithe tye, ndimele ndenze ntoni?
Abantu abaninzi bathi kum: Ndiyintombazana entyebileyo. Oko kukuthi, sithetha inani elithile lobunzima obunzima. Kodwa xa ingxaki ibonakala kwaye iyingozi kakhulu, uncedo lweengcali luyadingeka. Ukuba ubunzima bukhulu kakhulu, kungcono ukunxibelelana nabafikazi, abaqeqeshi, i-cosmetologists. Kananjalo ujongane nxamnye nomgqirha.
Ndibe ngutyebile njani?
Le nto yokuqala ukuyiqonda. Hlaziya indlela yakho yokuphila. Mhlawumbi konke kukutya. Okanye umsebenzi wokuhlala kunye nokungabikho kwemidlalo. Okanye ingxaki inama-hormone kunye noxinzelelo, ubunzima beemeko zobomi.
Kutheni ndithobile?
Emva koko, zichaza ukuba kutheni ungasombululanga ingxaki. Inokwenzeka ukuba, isizathu sizathu. Ukuba kwakungekho, yifumane. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokubhekisela kwinto yokuba akukho xesha, ithuba okanye amandla. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka uzibuze ukuba wenzeni ukuba ndithe tye.
Ndingatyebile njani, njani ukulahlekelwa ngumzimba?
Kulula kakhulu. Khetha ukutya okunempilo onokukunamathela ngaphandle kweengxaki ixesha elide. Bhalisela ukufaneleka, uqale ujikeleze ekuseni. Nika ingqalelo ukuxuba, iinkqubo zokuzicoca. Ngeendlela ezithandwayo, zilahla umzimba wee-toxins kunye ne-toxins. Kwaye ke umphumo awuyi kugcina ulinde.
Into ephambili - hlaziya indlela yokuphila ngokubanzi. Into ekhokelela ekubonakaleni kwamakhilogremu angaphezulu. Kwaye ukuba oko kungatshintshi, ubukhulu bobunzima buya kubuya. Ngoko ke, xa ulahlekelwa isisindo, kungcono ukwakha inkqubo onokuyenza rhoqo. Lo mgaqo uya kunceda ukugcina impilo xa ulahlekelwa ngumzimba.